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Waddup gents? I haven't posted here in a while, but I am back looking for a bit of advice from my fellow "mature men". Lately I have been feeling envious of other guys, particularly guys I know who are in the "community", especially the younger guys. I am referring to the ones that have gotten...

Now, I know it doesn't seem like it should be a big deal to find somewhere to go, but for some reason I really can't come up with anywhere. i just started dating a 20 year old girl, I'm 30, and for last 8+ years, when I have gone out, it's been to somewhere with alcohol. Since she can't drink, I...

I'm sure someone here is a member of theplace.bz, or bitseduce. Can you hook me up with an invite? Thanks.

I have been here for about a year, this site was the first place I ever found and still one of the best places for info. most, if not all of the threads here, even the 7+ year old ones, still contain great information. Like most of you, I have checked out a lot of the so-called gurus and...

I have noticed recently that I have a lack of motivation to approach, and whn I finally want to, I start making up a million excuses why I shouldn't. How do you guys just make yourself get passed those feelings, say f-it and approach anyway?

I hear this concept all the time in the dating world, "the best way to get over the fear of approaching is just to approach". I am wondering how approaching, whether you get blown out or not, is supposed to help one get over the fear of approaching. Is it desensitazion of sorts? Or what's the...

I have heard that dips are a great chest exercise, and I have been doing them for a few weeks. Thing is, I don't know how to exercise the chest muscles while doing dips rather than the triceps. Is there a specific technique? Thanks.

I recently started hanging out with a guy that is much better with women than any of my friends....and that isn't sayin much. Whenever he and I go out, we motivate each other to talk to girls and usually do pretty well. I realized that with my other friends, we almost never even attempt to...

I realized it full bore yesterday, but I have known it for a while now. Whenever I talk to a new girl i can't escalate the conversation towards a sexual nature. I keep them interested, but it's along the lines of where they're from, what they do....... blah blah blah....nothing about what I care...

Anyone here ever been into the rave scene, or been to a rave? I used to go but got tired of it. I still hear people talk about how easy it is to meet and hook up with girls at raves, but from what I remember, that's not the case. What do you think??

There wasn't much in the bible or from what I found using the ever-so- neglected search button. Two part question for you gents.... Is it just me or does it seem like girls are starting to bring more guys with them to bars/clubs than ever before?? I know girls always bring guys to buy them...

How many of you guys have done it? From my experience, most guys have either had a few, or none at all. I had sex with a virgin once, and before that I thought it would be the greatest thing in the world, but it was nothing special at all. Not tighter than anyone else, or anything like that...

Ok, yesterday some friends and I went to a bar, as we were playing pool 3 really cute girls came and sat next to our table and I chatted for a bit and got them to join our pool game. Halfway through our pool game some other dude came up, and started talking with the girl I wanted...I wasn't...

As I have said in another post or two, I've been a clothes kick lately. I actually bought some new stuff, and pulled out the stuff in my closet that I haven't worn in a while, "nicer" stuff. My question is, where the hell do you guys wear your nice clothes out to?? At work, I have a certain...

Ever since I saw a link on here to a very helpful website, I've started to actually give a rat's azz about my clothes and I can already tell it helps with the women and more importantly with how I feel. Anyway, I bought a few pairs of pants and a few new pairs of shoes. Problem is, if I buy...

ok, I desperately need a wardrobe upgrade, and I am thinking about doing some online shopping from places outside the U.S. I always thought countries had the exact same clothes, but it's actually pretty different and the stuff I have seen from some european and japanese companies was pretty...

Ok, I realize I get much more USEFUL information here than from all the so called seduction gurus, and materal out there, so I have what I feel is an interesting question. It's pretty well known that what we say is only a very small part of communication, like ten percent I believe. And, women...

I looked as usual, bit got nada. Where do us (mature) men find women, especially for non-commited type endeavors?? I haven't had very good success with bars, and I have been to thousands, albeit that was before I found this place. It seems that all the girls at bars are only looking for the guys...

So I have slowly began to get the sack enough to approach some girls, and I usually open with something that gets them laughing, smiling, whatever. Only thing is, I run out of stuff to say really quick. I don't wan't to take the boring, where you from, what do you do, blah blah blah, b.s. I...

ok, so I have realized that some dudes have this natural aura about them that women instantly dig. I'm not talking about really good looking guys, although a lot of them are. It's like, maybe 1 out of 100 guys I see on the streets or wherever, seem to emit this aura and I can see women just kind...