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  1. J

    Bank robbing is "not as bad" for women?

    Haha. Good point man.
  2. J

    Macking off a new woman

    I had to read your post several times to understand what you were getting at. The first time I read it, I thought you were asking advice how to have sex with this woman, and at the same time, have her give you money and not suspect an "act". If this is what you're asking, then :down: for...
  3. J

    Bank robbing is "not as bad" for women?

    http://www.cnn.com/2009/CRIME/02/20/women.bank.robbers/index.html This article really chaps my ass. In the article, CNN uses several "experts" who seem to have the idea that women rob banks for better reasons than men. For example.. "Women are more pragmatic," forensic sociologist Rosemary...
  4. J

    Being A Jerk

    That only works if you do it with a big grin on your face. If you do it seriously, she will think your a straight up *******
  5. J

    How do these guys get away with this?

    It's easier for a woman to control an AFC than a real man (alpha tendencies). Women get into relationships for different reasons that you could never comprehend. It's ignorant to think that "nice guys" don't get women. This site tends to bash the idea in your head "AFC = guy with no woman"...
  6. J

    How do you become sexual after not being sexual in the beginning?

    Try being witty, and adding sexual innuendo in conversation WITH a sly grin.. Its fun because you can see how far you push the envelope with someone. In Social norm, you don't talk about something sexual with someone. That would cause for a slap in the face or a rolling of the eyes look...
  7. J

    Getting over break up

    STOP TALKING TO HER!! IT WILL ONLY MAKE YOUR PAIN WORSE! Right now. I want you to delete her phone number. Delete her aim/msn/yahoo. IF SHE CALLS YOU DON'T PICK UP You're inner game is very weak at the moment. I want you to focus on other women, and yourself in general. Again, DONT give your...
  8. J

    Red Flags???

    Drop this one.. 1) She is playing games and 2) She's an alcoholic I can hear a future phone call.. "OH METALHEAD83 IT WAS AWFUL, I WAS SO DRUNK AND HE TOOK ADVANTAGE OF ME! IT WAS THE ALCOHOL!! I WAS DRUNK IT DIDN'T MEAN ANYTHING I PROMISE" and by then you're oneitis will have developed to a...
  9. J

    How to deal with annoying behaviour

    Situation A: "Ohh jdon23 come on, this song sucks! Put on some kelly clarkson!" I smile and laugh a bit.. then turn up the volume :) Situation B: "Ohh jdon23 come on, this store sucks!! Let's go to <insert woman store>!" my response: "If you want to go there, then go. I need to buy...
  10. J

    Field Report: Arabian nights at her house – the best date of my life

    Haha nice man. When I was 18 I got invited to this chicks house and as soon as she let me in she whispered *shh* and pointed to her passed out father snoring on the floor in front of the TV. I know this feeling you describe very well from that night haha. It makes you feel so alive when you do...
  11. J

    FR: What ElStud did today.

    What an interesting thread. Half of the opinions support el-stud. They connect with him. 'Don't bash a fellow virgin! He is actually TALKING to girls!! WOW. Eventually he will find someone who will be willing to bang him!' Shame on you! Can't he defend himself? There is no such thing as...
  12. J

    giving you the gum in her mouth

    To the op... She is trying to see if you will *accept* a gift that already been used. It's kinda like a slap in the face. However, you could have pulled it around several ways. If it were ME, and she offered that to me I would say I don't want that. And see what she did. She would either...
  13. J

    Did I come on too strong in this facebook message...

    Women know your hitting on them. Don't be so indirect and beat around the bush. This makes you have very tiny balls, and keeps them that way. Start saying things to produce an effect! If you talk to her like a friend, then thats how your relationship will be dictated Go for a ballsy comment and...
  14. J

    Self Actualization theory - Key to Don Juan?

    It all comes down to what you feel the meaning of your life is. If you feel you are ONLY complete when you have satisfied argument a,b,c (Whether that be a certain income, a woman, or an expensive object) then you are not yet at the peak of the pyramid ['self-actualized']. You are relying on...
  15. J

    Self Actualization theory - Key to Don Juan?

    I believe I went through the same lesson my friend. Loneliness breeds depression, which brings desperation. Desperation kills your frame and brings back AFC tenancies. The only way out of this damaging cycle is to push forward and keep your personal goals in mind. Eventually your personal...
  16. J

    Self Actualization theory - Key to Don Juan?

    You bring up an interesting point. What do you do when you're at the top? I guess the simple answer is that there is no peak.. more like plateaus and hills. Once you BECOME 'self-actualized', I believe that you still grow. You still look for ways to become a more diverse, interesting and...
  17. J

    Self Actualization theory - Key to Don Juan?

    What rug was pulled underneath you? Would you like to explain this more?
  18. J

    The Importance of Maintaining Social Momentum

    What I've found is that it is much too hard to maintain many facets of small social circles. For example, 2 guys I just met from work asked me to go to a party this friday in Albany. My buddies from my town wanted to go out to a bar Friday. I also met a cute blonde yesterday who was working at...
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    Self Actualization theory - Key to Don Juan?

    What is self-actualization? Let's see some definitions. -Goldstein defined self-actualization as a driving life force that will ultimately lead to maximizing one's abilities and determine the path of one's life." -A basic definition from a typical college text book defines...
  20. J

    The "Just Got Dumped" GUIDE

    Great post!! This speaks volumes of experience to anyone who got dumped. I will agree with the fact that a woman's anxiety will drive her to do crazy things. This strategy makes the woman feel very insecure about herself, which in turn will make her do CRAZY things to get you to be attracted to...
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