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    Interest level fluctuating like mad

    Hey fellas - hope you are all well, I haven't been back here in a while. There's this girl who is giving me the following attraction signs:- * Consistant, long eye contact. * Undivided attention when I speak * Always opts to sit with me when our families are in the same room. *...
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    Club tip

    do this only when you are in really high state, or it'll fail miserably. having already k-closed with a different chick i tried this on a hb9 and it worked a charm, until i ****ed it up, but i now realise what i should have done. So you are walking through the club and you see a hottie...
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    I think personality disorder might be hampering my game (and whole life probably)

    I am tackling my demons right here, this is damn hard to face. If I can sort this stuff out, then I know I can become a great guy. The stuff I am gonna tell you, I don't want to tell anyone but I know it is in my best interests to do so. My mind naturally tries to avoid social situations...
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    You really, really are a special guy.

    Having moved to university, I have met alot of guys and have been open and looking to find more good male buddies, much like we all should be. You can never have enough friends. And in terms of finding other people with the common interest in self/life improvement, I am really struggling to find...
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    Just how popular are English men with women in the States?

    As an Englishman, the rumours that chicks dig us for our accents interests me. So this being a majority American forum, what do you guys reckon?
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    I am not achieving any advancements anymore at uni, so here is my 'insane' plan

    well everyone i have spoken to seems to think its insane anyway. My uni friends are all unsatisfied with life. But they accept it, and are not willing to do anything about it. Being around them (id also be living with them next year in a house) distracts me from my DJ ways eventually, even if...
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    so when dancing with a girl in a club...

    and music is just quiet enough that you can have a conversation if you speak up...what should the convo be about on the dance floor? you know those initial few words that give her a feel for what you sound like, show her that you are friendly enough etc. this is well before you isolate to...
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    embracing humanity

    this is something i completely havent done. at the moment i think humans are discusting. someone once said on here that to bring a girl down from her pedestal, you should remember that shes only human and that she too takes nasty smelly dumps. whoever said that, its had a bad effect...
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    am i taking martial arts classes for the right reasons?

    Basically, i go to this training for the following reasons. - Gain respect from my peers. - To be able to defend myself and others in violent situations. I do not go because I enjoy it particularly. I mean, its OK, its not boring but i dont enjoy it like I do with football/soccer say. I...
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    Getting things back on track (After a period of slacking off)

    This is my little self chat that i just typed up on MS word. Im gonna print it and read it whenever i feel i need to. I thought I would share it with you guys in case there are any points on it that could help you. But remember that one mans meat is another mans poison. Time to sort ones life...
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    Describe your ideal woman

    This can only do you good. You'll know what you are looking for this way. She has goldie blonde hair and blueish green eyes. She is about 5 ft 5 in. She has a youthful, angelic sort of face and her smile makes me feel warm inside. She wears some make up but not alot, she looks hot regardless...
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    do you ever have "off nights"?

    ive met some PUA's recently from my area and theyre all cool guys. I have met up with them 4 times now and mostly we have had some fun. But tonight went differently. I just literally couldnt get "in state". Im usually a vibrant, fun exciting guy when im in state, and i can feel this magnetism...
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    do girls assume you get other women based on your looks?

    not to sound bigheaded but people tell me im good looking lets say i approach a girl in a bar...do they assume that because you are good looking and because you approached them...and you come across as fairly smooth, that you are some sort of player? i get numbers, and i get the feeling that...
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    what the **** does this mean?

    i was dancing with a girl i know from uni halls and the way she was smiling and looking in my eyes i knew she wanted me. later on i went in for the kiss and she didnt move..infact she kinda turned her head a little. so i drew back out and carried on dancing...still happy etc i didnt show any...
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    standard text message to send to a girl you met in a club?

    obviously its really loud etc and theres nothing less attractive than shouting in someones ear. so for a girl who you have grinded with, kissed and gotten her number, what would you send in a text when you havent even talked?
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    lack of a decent wing is ruining my game :(

    my friends are great guys but chumps/low value males nonetheless. Whenever i go out with them, they get stupidly drunk so that they can even consider trying it on with a girl, leaving me all alone in being tipsy enough to be a little more open maybe. Im the only one willing to go up to some...
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    is picking up quality girls on the dance floor (with no previous chat etc) a nono?

    unless ofcourse you really can dance. im finding that the hot ones turn their back on you when you start dancing with them in clubs. Am i doing something wrong or is this just the case? Basically what im asking is, with hot girls in clubs, do you need to have already chatted to them at the...
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    jealous friends?

    i have been working on myself and my life for a long while now and can feel myself becoming more of a DJ on a daily basis. You just know, it runs in your blood, you feel it in your heart..you feel like a force. That make sense to anyone? Sometimes hot women get nervous when you look them in the...
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    what i have learnt about girls in clubs

    many may find this obvious but i am only just realising it. once you've pulled a girl in a club, if you ever want to see her again afterwards, if shes any decent sort of standard then you'll need to make yourself different from the guy she pulled last week. maybe you can salsa dance, maybe...
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    when she doesnt text you back?

    i met a girl on friday night in a club and i got her number, so i sent her a text the next day to see if she wants to go for a coffee or something. She asked me if i had a good night and she said that she'd like to go for coffee sometime. i sent her another text last night suggesting a time when...
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