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    went to the bar alone for the first time

    Leon, I used to be a bartender in various establishments over my life. I found it was my duty to initiate conversations at the bar between people, if I got a guy talking to a girl the guy was usually appreciative and tipped me good. In fact I made several friends that way who in turn invited...
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    Hello all, my name is -E- and I have a problem!

    I turn 36 this year, after reading your post I realized that we share the same perspective from our slice of this generation. Make no mistake -E-, the gender war was just starting in the 90s, it is now in full swing, thus your shell shock concerning the dating conditions in which we now face as...
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    the truth about getting women

    I disagree Spider. I normally like disagreeing with blanket statements. :) I never got laid in my teens. In fact I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21. I was a late bloomer. Like some of our younger friends on this board. Its easy to look at yourself in your teens and get down about...
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    I'm struggling with zits and light Acne... What do you guys suggest?

    1. wash your face with aveno soap (wheat based) 2. change your pillow cases everyday. 3. stop drinking soda all together, replace it with water or juice. 4. no more fast food. goodluck.
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    My friend is so AFC...

    Thank you Rollo for referring to law 10. Make no mistake men, its very real. I never thought you could be an AFC by association, it felt very much like an infection. Having a small amount of cynicism to draw from can add a lot of wit and ****iness to your style, but too much cynicism can...
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    My friend is so AFC...

    ...that he's beginning to drive away his male friends. Its beyond AFC at this point, and truly sad for him. I've known this guy for close to 8 years, he never really had a girlfriend and when he did manage to hook-up with a semi attractive nutcase he pulled all the classic AFC tricks day...
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    Best Game Ever

    Last 2 years: Real Time Strategy = Dawn of War / Company of Heroes First Person Shooter = Team Fortress 2 Single player Role Playing Game = Fallout 3 But the best game ever created for a computer will always be Sytem Shock. its over 15 years old but still has the best story. At the time...
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    I'm very cynical now and full of hate.

    Every once in awhile I will stop by this site and give a quick scan of the community. Its post like these that generally draw my attention since I have been there before. Every time I read posts like this I consider the OPs age. Since I cannot asses yours Nonameok I'm going to assume your...
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    Why do nerds even exist?

    Nerds = people with intelligence but no social skills. Dork = person with no intelligence or social skills. Geek = Person with both intelligence and social skills. Recently in the last 15 years (coinciding with the technology boom) geek has become "sheik". Look at popular movies and...
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    Weak willpower: Nutrition consistency when going from Skinny to Good-Looking

    "Originally Posted by The_last_Gunslinger Your pre-lifting meal should be heavy carbs, light protein. Your after-lifting meal should be a 3 course meal; protein, starch and vegetable. Add Whey protein to your glass of milk that you drink with dinner. Why should the protein be light...
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    Weak willpower: Nutrition consistency when going from Skinny to Good-Looking

    I am undergoing the same process you are Rust. Its still in the works but I found out about bulk cooking a few months ago and applied some lessons: 1. Invest in some re-usable plastic containers of various sizes that have sealable tops. You'll need these for a variety of foods that you will...
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    fascinating article.

    I focused more on the second half of the article that talked about the new patterns of thinking and the shift in information gathering techniques. The portion that discusses ADHD was also interesting. Of course the writer has no hard facts, and explains as much. But it does have some validity...
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    fascinating article.

    This article started off discussing why young men are not enrolling in further education in startling numbers. But the article goes on to talk in-depth about my generation and its new way of learning, multi-tasking and non-passive learning techniques. I recommend this...
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    What should I do?

    Reigs, While my personal battle was not as dramatically expressed as yours, there are still fundamental ways of getting the best of what life can offer. Alexander The Great and Mtnkng have already provided excellent advice and insight. You will also find in some of the responses (and their...
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    Bond, James Bond.

    Hey man great name, been a fan since childhood. For what its worth I will help address your questions. I don’t provide solid answers as I’m still learning myself. I wasn’t as AFC when I first came here, but that could be attributed to wisdom with age. I can however share my own...
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    Women are not men (n we miss that)

    Errr...this sounds kinda half-baked. You need a better example to illustrate your thoughts.
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    Quitting smoking and acne

    Yes its is contaminents trying to get our of your body, but there is a better way to help control it. Drink a gallon of water throughout a 12 hour period, the blood that travels under the dermal layer will carry some contaminates away instead of popping out of your skin. second. its...
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    not invited

    if you have cash...... Football season is fast approaching......find a nice sports bar to watch your favorite team, ask friends to join you. Depending on where you live.....plan a trip to the beach, hall of fame, baseball game, concert etc etc. Take up a sport.....doesn't have to be...
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    Symbols of Success Unfashionable

    I will comment lightly on this as some luxury items have an allure that may transcend ego. For example I like good cloths and accessories such as watches and I-pods. Now I don't drive or own a car as some of you already know, regardless I would still love to own a 2007 Mustang or a Buell...
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    controlling nervousness/anxiety

    Someone above mentioned this and I fully agree..."people in the world are so busy into their own world that they are not paying you any mind. Your EGO is the problem." Thats as simple as it can get, and thats how I learned to approach it. By manning up and realizing that it was my personal...
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