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    Conversation sounds like an interview...

    Hi guys, I was fb chatting with a broad today from college and I'm always trying too hard to keep it going. At one point it went like this: Her: We are talking about me a lot haha Me: lol you can ask me about me anytime. I'm sure you're curious Her: Haha I feel like I'm being interviewed...
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    The Craziness of Women

    Maybe I'm getting this because I'm younger and I tend to hang out with younger women, but I've found that some women are incredibly full of energy and come off as being kind of all over the place. I'm guessing they don't question their thoughts at all and just say whatever is on their mind. I've...
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    IITM's Self Improvement Journal

    It's time for me to make some real improvement in my life, so I'm creating a journal to track my progress and keep myself motivated. I have never had a girlfriend, I have never been on a date, and I have never had sex. Those are three things I want to have the skills for. With this journal, I...
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    A Few Words on Sexual Power

    Hey. I haven't been here in awhile, but I've had lots on my mind, so I decided to write this article for you guys. Enjoy! It's no secret that seuxal power is unevenly shared in our society, but is the power itself meant to be uneven? Who Does The Power Belong To? It belongs to whoever...
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    The Secret to Life... (Quote from Style)

    I heard this amazing quote from Neil Strauss, and it really spoke to me as a belief coming from a mature man who has mastered indifference. I thought I'd share this one with you guys. "Here's the secret to life: Don't take it personally. Not just for pickup but for life in general. Everyone's a...
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    What do you do when losing attraction?

    I was chatting with a girl on on the phone last night. I was tired and completely off my game, so I let her get to me and her attraction level dropped. I eventually was like "I'm falling asleep here so I gotta go." Even though she told me she didn't want me to go, this problem is more about...
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    Broken phone and a loss of power

    Alright, so I was talking with a girl on the phone and we hear this crackily, staticy sound and it like completely interrupts our conversation. This happens a few times and I blame her because she had just gotten a new phone, and I'm like "your new phone was probably broken when they gave it to...
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    Approach Anxiety - How do you deal with it?

    Hey guys. Sometimes, like many guys out there, I have approach anxiety and trick my mind into thinking I have nothing to say. This is very troublesome because if there's a cute girl in one of my classes or in the halls that I want to talk to, I'm stuck with believing that I don't know what to...
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    Looking for mentors to help uplift my game

    All I can say is I've progressed intensely since I first stumbled upon the seduction community. I've never had a girlfriend but I've nexted many girls, which I consider an accomplishment. If I could put a number to the amount of material that I've learned so far...it would be around 2% of a...
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    What is the mindset of a man like?

    I'm asking you men who know best to answer this. What is a man and how do you adopt the mindset of a man? Morals, confidence, sexuality...what really makes the man? I KNOW the answer to this question will greatly help me and many other training DJs out there.
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    "Touching Games?"

    Perhaps this might be a little vague, what kinds of situations can you create where you get to use a lot of kino with girls? One recent example I've been in was a pillow fight, which is an excellent opportunity to get physical with girls. What kinds of activities can yall think of that...
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    Need some Workout/Diet Advice (w/o a Gym)

    To make it short, I don't have a car and the nearest gym is too far away from my house, so I'm pretty much relying on freeweightless workouts. I know the basics, situps, pushups, crunches, etc. But my main question here is how do you get a full body workout without weights or machines as from...
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    Accomplishing This is Important to Me

    I've been interested in a girl for awhile now. We had a pretty strong connection at one point, but our rapport eventually dissolved for reasons beyond my understanding. Anyway, I've been unable to reinitiate with her and we haven't talked in over a month. Some of you may call me a pvssy, but I...
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    Basic Flirting Moves?

    I was reading an article on the SS homepage titled "You Must Initiate Everything With a Woman," and I came across the words "...do the basic flirting moves." Here's the article: http://www.sosuave.com/rondavid/succeed55.htm I'm far from an expert in flirting techniques. Hell I don't even...
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    I Need a Remedy for Cold Hands

    My hands are FREEZING COLD most of the time. It's some kind of circulation problem, I'm pretty sure I have bad blood circulation. My hands also sweat sometimes and I'm unsure why; though the sweat is probably warmer than my hands so it may warm them up. Does anybody on this forum know of...
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    Ain't this some AFC shyt.

    I dunno what went on but I was moving way too slowly with a girl and my impression is she lost interest. We don't talk that much now, in fact we talk so rarely we're almost like strangers to each other. I haven't made the move of asking her to chill because my feelings of us being distant are...
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    Tell her you like her

    To those of you who don't believe in using the phrase "I like you" with a woman: Girls are people too. Imagine having a girl that you hang out with come out and tell you she likes you. How would that feel, how would you change your views of her, it at all? I believe that if you can't tell...
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    How can you open somebody up?

    Yesterday I asked a girl if she wanted to hang out durning February break, after having talked with her the previous afternoon for 30 or so minutes. She said "I'm gonna be visiting my sister for the whole vacation." I was like "Oh, ok" then left. I realize that this was a bad move on my part...
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    I'm A Bad Conversationalist

    I haven't figured out why but I'm really really bad at starting and maintaining interesting conversations without having some kind of prop to guide it. Part of the problem is I'm way more visual than verbal. I usually try to ask open-ended questions or comment on something that I see, but...
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    Was I alpha in this convo?

    Some random guy imed me, after I was talking with a girl that I met at summer camp. It's kinda long, but post some feedback if I didn't anything really wrong, or right. buffnerd2011 (4:40:44 PM): hey (I'm in the Mood) Sheltem Alamar (4:40:59 PM): hey..who are u? buffnerd2011 (4:41:09...
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