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    Women and comfort level with culture/ race bias.

    Well I said that because guys on here are always saying "George Clooney wouldn't care if x,y,z." So it was tongue in cheek. You're creating a narrative in your head about a girl you don't know - and surrendering frame to her and rejecting yourself. Get out of your male brain. Women do not have...
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    Women and comfort level with culture/ race bias.

    Just another form of resistance for a man to dodge. Women are not that steadfast in their principles. She'll give it up for Idris Elba. (I'm saying that since Sosuavers always use the Clooney example.) A woman will say she's not attracted to X and then go fukk a guy who's exactly that. Bottom...
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    Women and comfort level with culture/ race bias.

    Sure you can, if you have strong masculine frame. Who cares what she thinks? You are stuck in the woman's frame, bro. This is the same as anything else. Too many guys on here worry about why they will be rejected. Just another form of analysis paralysis. Approach, get rejected or close, next...
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    Women and comfort level with culture/ race bias.

    Interesting insight. The thread got a little off track but you make good points. There are some girls who will "rebel" against their social norms and date guys of different ethnicities. Personally I've never understood when people say "I love this group" or "I don't date that group." I'm only...
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    Do any of you have female friends like this?

    Yup, sometimes it's just timing and availability. I've slept with female friends. It's not a big deal if you don't make it one. Because of that I've never agreed with the "friends can't be lovers" philosophy, but to each his own. She will reflect whatever energy you're projecting.
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    Chic I met in vacation wants to come to the states to work for 3 months and stay at my place

    "Cut to the chaste" is probably what will happen. :rofl: Whatever the opposite of a Freudian slip is, that's it.
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    Is it Childish to Block and Delete?

    Why did you trash the equipment? And won't you need the sheet music to back up your authorship claims?
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    Guys that use sextoys with their playmates

    No no, you don't have to pull out, sex toys won't get her pregnant...
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    Forgiving vs holding grudges...

    There is an old saying, that revenge is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die. Personally I forgive (even if I don't verbalize it), but that doesn't mean they get to be part of my life again. Stewing over the past is the same as worrying about the future - big waste of...
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    Your woman can cheat and still love and respect you?

    Monogamy isn't natural and women don't seem to idealize it the way many men do.
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    Observations on NYC's scene.

    Well it's been a while since I've lived there so can't vouch that they're around or hip...The Crosby, The Gramercy, the Soho Grand, The Roxy, and any hotel with a rooftop bar (there are a lot, I don't know them all). One good rooftop is the Wythe in (yes) Williamsburg, but it's got a great view...
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    How are you preparing for the coming food shortage?

    One word: Fatmaxxing.
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    Are women getting easier for you guys?

    And I'm saying it is. About not giving a ****, that is. Women reflect what they encounter. Going into an interaction thinking she might "go cold" or think you're a "horny loser" is frame fail. Nothing wrong with learning and applying knowledge in practice. I'm referring to mindset, which must...
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    Are women getting easier for you guys?

    Lol. So what? You are still operating in her frame if you give one fukk what she thinks. And once you stop caring they won't put you in this category anyway. Getting blown out is meaningless, she's still a female dork who has to qualify herself through sex.
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    Lessons from Older DJs here!

    Women - No matter how awkward or dramatic you think the fallout will be from a decision, it never is. This too shall pass. I stayed in relationships too long for fear of post-breakup drama. Also chickened out on making moves with girls when I thought rejection would make me look stupid or...
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    Zodiac signs that have it the easiest & hardest with women

    Of course the perceived position of stars billions of miles away from our planet and thousands of years ago at the time you emerged from your mom's vagina is a MAJOR indicator of your personality.
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    Rollo Tomassi EMBARRASINGLY Loses Debate to Lauren Southern

    Interesting exchange. Can't disagree that Rollo is way too verbose and deflective instead of just directly answering questions. I think he's been typing and speaking the same content so much, a lot of it is on auto pilot. Which is a big part of being media-trained, eventually it becomes a...
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    Amazon used attractive, flirty anti-union consultants to try to bust union formation

    Aaron Rodgers has a union job and he makes around $2.5 million per hour. On the other hand he can be fired any time.
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    Observations on NYC's scene.

    Williamsburg is one neighborhood in Brooklyn, which has 2.5 million people. I always find it funny when people equate Williamsburg with "Brooklyn." (And half of it is Hasidic, so the part you're describing, the Bedford stop up to Metropolitan Ave, isn't even all of Williamsburg.) Though I do...
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