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You aren't totally concerned with getting 9's and 10's. Sure, those are the chicks we all want the most, desire the most,etc. There the ones who,as in some posts, "afcs" put on this pedestal and think are these perfect princesses and good people, when they are not. Who's to say they aren't good...

de-pedestalize a chick? any scale, any type, I know no one is perfect, I don't see chicks as that, but it has been a struggle for me.

How does one fully let go of anger/bitterness/pessimism/negativity? Thats whats holding me back in many ways. That, and sitting here,posting on the board, looking for an answer. Is it right to blame women at all?

I know I know, I havent always posted the best news on here, but it seems to me I have always been unrealistic when it comes to the dating game. Ideally, I want to find a quality woman to get married to and start a family with. But obviously, I have to go out there and meet one. I read that...

I know its a bit controversial on here, but he is interesting. What with the methods and phases and qualifications and all that, I mean, how does one make it work for them? How do you ingrain the terminology? I mean,is it all really just approach, open, follow the model(s)? For example,this vid...

That I think it has pretty much been a fear of rejection holding me back. Cause in my mind, in order to get that hot girl, that 7,8,9,10, well, thats what you have to be. You have to be this ideal in order to suceed. Am I wrong on this at all? I mean, it probably stems from either too much time...

I spend too much time on the computer. My dad just said to me, why do you spend so much time on the computer? Well, boredom and searching for answers I guess.

read this. Of course, gotta have an imdb account http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0405422/board/thread/112252285

some guys, from a very early age, have all the luck, and the rest of us struggle on in pain? Why is it every other guy lost it at 15 and 16, and I struggle to even ask someone out or get a date? Is it the world? Is attraction? Why is it every has there sweetheart and love, and the rest of us are...

I cant do it. Why or for what reasons remain unknown to me, but I am still in this position where it feels like everyone else is so far ahead of me, I see always when I am out. I don't if its some fear, or inferiority. Or not channeling the right energy. Is it power? Freinds/social life...

Well, b.s aside, you know how I feel and where I am at. My fear is always being alone. No one there by my side. I see these people, my own age, already getting married. It feels Like I have been doing something wrong my whole life, and I am behind everyone else. Seriously, like my stuff is not...

So I thought I would post here. Is it possible to become asexual, not born it,but become, obviously, I am attracted to girls, fantasize, and just want to get laid. Well, I want more than that, but is it possible, possibly out of a feeling of, not shame, but not wanting to be seen as a pervert...

Other than say work, or going out shopping, I don't get out much. This is part of my problem. I have always had problems like "I can't do it, I'm a loser, I lack this or that,I'm not special or exceptional", etc. I see all these other people who seem to be, and that's why they have the girl(s)...

Sounds like she needs a little lovin.... http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=6907684

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That's something to get over right, cause otherwise, i ain't relationship material? I realize, I have had that problem if I just had a gf, like everyone else, all would be good. That's just a part of a bigger thing.

They have some points, I guess. But in general, is this what we're supposed to be fighting against??? http://www.heartless-*****es.com/index.shtml

It's this constant nagging feeling(s) of like, change, should have changed, change personality, worrying about how I used to be, inexperience, not opening,escalting right, lack of certain confidence.

So I have been listening to alot of Tom Leykis, like his stuff, but he can be a bit mean spirited at times. And he's talking about women/dating/sex, and about how men just want hot women dumb enough to sleep with them, and it got me thinking, maybe that's my problem. I have always wanted to just...

I'm a pvssy with no balls/confidence that's lazy and doesn't go for what he wants. Instead of going trying to meet chicks/get laid, I am at home lamenting myself. It is hard to read about 16/17 year olds with more pull/experience or with a gf, and I don't.