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what is high value? how do you be high value? what about just being yourself? feminism ruined everything.

Interceptor is right, **** what people think

superficiality of people is bull****

That's part of my dillemma, becoming a full person, whatever that means. I mean, how much of that is true, and how much of it is this hippie new age b.s? I mean, I'm a regular guy, I go to work, hang out, drive around, shop, etc. I'm not some wild party animal, not some depthful artiste, I'm...

Yeah, I would recognize it of course, but I can't say it has happened much for me.

No, you're right, I haven't worked on anything internal, I am not an attention *****, I just want help, not pity or sympathy, that's what has really screwed with me, is not trying, due to sense of reality. That's what it is. I can't help but feel bad for myself, but I realize alot of it is due...

Well, that's it, I can start off saying what one problem is for me, and then go off onto 50 other things bothering me, which may be a result of add, but if I were to narrow it down to say,about 5 or 6 things, it would be... 1.Not having women or a woman in my life. There is a lot of debate on...

I am going to stop posting on here,seeing as how it hasn't helped me in ways I was hoping it would, my mind is clouded with negative thoughts about alot, and I need to find mental clarity. I could go on and on about it, but alot of it is related, to sex,dating,relationships, oppurtunities and...

Ok, question, how much has feminism and all that effected the traditional roles of men and women, and romaticism and all that? Or is that something to point the finger at at all? As for fixing and improving yourself, when and how do you start?

I do have a car, I have work at 10 am tomorow, I keep making these excuses, yes, I need help. I am so used to this, right now, thats all I know. I have a hard time socializing with people I don't know ok. I haven't taken in information from here. I know.

I know, it's been said, it's a numbers game, I don't play enough numbers. I am not all that into the bar and club scene. What exactly is captain save a ho? Is the general consensus all girls are ho's? As for going out, I have to be up early for work. And pedestalizing is thinking...

You aren't totally concerned with getting 9's and 10's. Sure, those are the chicks we all want the most, desire the most,etc. There the ones who,as in some posts, "afcs" put on this pedestal and think are these perfect princesses and good people, when they are not. Who's to say they aren't good...

How do you go about finding these girls? Clubs? Online? Social Circle? Is it really to the point where traditional dating, done by some, is just out the window, and people prefer random flings? Is it really as easy saying hi how are you?

The power of love by huey lewis and the news. I hate huey lewis.

I know. I have been trying to help myself. But something is and has been holding me back. I haven't started, even since I first found this site years ago, to do it all little by little and improve myself. That's why I feel so behind.

I'm not a nice guy, as described as the validation seeking,ass kissing, human doormat type, I'm more a regular guy. As for alpha, it seems some guys already are. you either are or not. I have trouble valuing myself, I am trying to get over it. I am trying to figure out how too. I am...

Inner game,disinterested,kino, all seems idk, hard. I mean, doesn't that only work if she already likes you, and you have to be a challenge and all that? As for "seeing myself as the prize", I am a rather modest person. Could that be affecting me? I don't have this strong sense of self worth and...

Well, the whole dating scene in general, I am sort of still in the minor leagues, I want to be this more confident outgoing person, but I am a bit more mmm,shy/introverted, or perhaps these are labels in my head. It's really all in how you say it isn't it? I am not a scumbag, but have done...

Well, that's it, I keep reading all this, and haven't really absorbed it in. I am clueless to alot. This is what's killed me, not having learned it all as everyone else did. I mean, If I go solo, does that hurt my chances more?

This is what I am worried about, coming off as creepy, which I don't think I do, and something like this happening. It seems like unless you fit her crazed ideal of perfect, you don't stand a chance. I am not talking about being a "people pleasing, nice guy doormat", no, and that's not my...