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The part about Pokemon? Because honestly, I'd take any advice couched in the form of an analogy to japanimation with a huge grain of salt.

As a caveat -- this is the first time in my life that I've ever been the one who has been dumped. My other relationships were always either ended by a mutual decision that things weren't where they needed to be or when I decided I needed to move on. This one is different. We were dating for...

I gotta move to the east coast -- here in Ohio, men always outnumber women at the bars / clubs / social locations.

This. And the little voice in the back of my mind ("You're annoying her," "Just give up, if she was interested she'd be showing it," and "Who gives a sh¡t about that, that's a boring topic,") that yells loudly when I'm making awkward conversation about nothing on an approach.

I'm 6'10", and I can assure it's been nothing but a hindrance to meeting women. So, next time you say "I wish I was tall -- be careful what you wish for."

I remember Freshman year of college -- most girls started with boyfriends back home. Guess how many of those girls ended up marrying their high school sweethearts?

But, at the same time, nothing kills the chances of a second time quite like j¡zzing within the first minute of sex. Unless you can last more than 5 minutes, I'd start getting real good at oral sex.

This is one area where I feel competent to give out advice -- I'm terrible at approaching, but once I get involved in a conversation, I usually have good results at getting a number and not having a flake on the first date. I agree that the term "Hang Out" conveys an image of a guy that still...

Somewhere along the line, someone probably once said: "This telephone thing is for COWARDS! Real men go to a woman's house, knock on her door, and ask her for a date face-to-face instead of hiding behind a receiver!" Sorry -- the "anti-texting" crowd makes some good points (texting often...

I have no explanation for this phenomenon -- I'm a very good communicator in virtually every other facet of my life. I have done loads of public speaking, and I appear in court daily with no problems. It all goes to sh¡t as soon as the "beep" hits on a voice mail, though. I go from confident...

Number 1 is the functional equivalent of a coffee shop date -- the only difference being you can't get your drink put in a to-go cup for a quick relocation if the date is going well and you want a change of scenery. Number 2-5 sound like stuff people do with their sophomore sweetheart in high...

What's wrong is that you're sitting on facebook and lamenting your lot in life. Don't have a great job? Start figuring out what it is you want to do and work on a plan to get there (more school, networking with people who can help you get a better job, etc.) Don't have a relationship? Get...

Contact your local court and find out how much time has to pass before you can have your first conviction expunged. Most places allow you to expunge a low-level conviction after 1-2 years of clean behavior. This would allow you to report (truthfully) that you have no criminal record on job...

Personally, I'd respond "I'd rather not talk about it" and let their imaginations do the heavy lifting.

He's a total fµcking fraud -- he got his sh¡t handed to him on the radio by a couple of shock jocks and was a crybaby about it. There's youtube footage of it floating around if you search.

What does that suggest to you? I tend to think that a truly high-IL girl will be eager to finalize plans. Have you actually spoken to this girl on the phone? Texting is a great tool, but it's a poor substitute for an actual phone conversation or a face-to-face contact.

How many signs of low-IL do you need? No girl with any sort of IL would ever blow off messages or blow off attempts to make plans for a date. Take the hint -- stop messaging this girl and move on. If she, for some strange reason, contacts you STOP TEXTING AND CALL HER. If you can't get her on...

Not sure what you're expecting by way of advice -- if you want it, go for it. If you don't want it, don't go for it.

Thanks for the story -- interesting read, if nothing else. Craigslist is a crazy/odd place. ETA -- So, you got there at 8:40 and the stuff didn't start until 10:30. Was it just awkward silence the entire time, or did you talk with the old dudes about gangbanging? I have to imagine that would...

I've gone over a year before. Not proud of that, but nothing I did to change it seemed to work. Really, once you hit like 3 or 4 months with no luck, it becomes harder and harder to keep that positive mindset and confidence necessary to go out there and pull tail. You start thinking "Dammit...