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Hey guys, long time no see. You know, I've been in a pretty good relationship these past couple of years! But every now and then, I need to look myself in the mirror and make sure I'm still in control, and that I'm not losing my touch, being committed and all that. Now my girl is the sweetest...

Hi all, so I finally got myself in a LTR with a girl who is all I'm looking for. For 6 months now everything has been good, great even. We seem to be a really good match. We do lots of fun stuff together, I hold the power in the relationship and she's happy to please, never throws a tantrum...

I've been with this girl for a couple of months now and everything's gone pretty much 100% perfect. She's shown nothing than good behaviour all the time. I, on the other hand, have always played it cool, and recently I think I've been a bit too cold on her. So I really like how this is going...

Back when I was in Uni, I always had this sense of working towards a great goal, that my life was going somewhere. Ever since then, that's kinda disappeared. All I had wanted at some point, I've achieved. Except for some lofty goals, like waking up next to someone I truly love, and then spend...

... and in a positive way! Stumbled over this article, where women try to explain how to game and keep the man of their lives: http://www.marsvenus.com/blog/lauren-gray/3-easy-ways-to-immediately-improve-communication-with-your-partner (did NOT watch the video, only text. Can't stand girl...

I mean, not all girls are talkative. And silence in the right place can increase comfort or, when the mood is right, tension. But still, with a couple of girls I saw recently I had to do all the conversation, and frankly I was a bit annoyed. You get talking about some topic and connect over it...

Hey guys, I've got some crazy muscle tension around my shoulder area since 3 weeks ago. Twisted my way out of an elbow lock with lots of force and apparently overexerted all the muscles at once... Then I got ridiculously hardened muscles in the upper back, neck and chest area - they were...

Hey, I know that in order to connect with somebody you need to talk to them (duh), listen to them talk, get them to open up etc etc. After establishing yourself as a cool guy, you need to be genuinely interested in them, no matter if it's girls or just friendly guys. However these days - I'm so...

Hey guys, let me vent and whine a bit. Today (same as many nights) I don't have any plans. So I was going to go alone, to a bar that I know. I've been there before, solo, and sometimes had a good time, sometimes not. But my head was saying "nah it's not gonna be worth it". "You'll waste your...

Hey, do you know any website that hosts a large list of date reports? I see field reports but I feel that most of them don't apply to my game. I hate danceclubs so 80% of FRs aren't for me, but I still want to have some inspiration. For example, I'm going on cool 2nd and 3rd dates but they...

I noticed that whenever my face is neutral/relaxed, I look super passive and bored. Like this (not me): http://i.telegraph.co.uk/multimedia/archive/01007/brown-460_1007774c.jpg https://i.ytimg.com/vi/EVcyNANK5cY/hqdefault.jpg...

So I was indoor bouldering today and I met this woman (probably 30). She was very friendly and followed me around. I was aloof, I was not orbiting but I also didn't manage to project much sexuality so I guess I landed myself a climbing buddy in the friend zone. Anyway that's not the topic! She...

You know, I've been thinking about taking risks. I am not taking enough risks. I am dating (and f*cking) below my standards. Today I saw a cutie on the bus. I caught her looking at me but instinctively looked away. I forced myself to look at her again but soon I turned away again, I just...

Writing this in the tips section because it's really been an epiphany for me. So I've been complaining about maintaining frame - that girls should chase me, but they hardly ever do if they're hot. I was always puzzled - I know I'm awesome, handsome and the prize - but how can I let her know...

These days, I seem to go out with a lot of hot girls that are only semi-interested. This is new to me, because back in the day these kind of girls wouldn't even give me the time of day. But I look good and am mostly confident now, so girls rarely turn me down anymore. But it means I'm on a...

I'm a software engineer at a tech startup, and we've been bought by a pretty big corporation. Now I actually have the option to move office to either Waltham/Boston or San Diego. Career wise, I might be able to become Technical Director in a team that will massively expand in the next couple of...

Do you guys get the feeling that, as you're older and more experienced, you get complacent with your achievements? I just went out solo tonight (my friends suck), and I frankly didn't get up the balls to do anythig interesting. I mean I don't stop girls on the street, but I would usually go...

Got flaked on yesterday, and needless to say I was disappointed. I had thought she might be quality material but nope. Anyway I usually give a flakes a second chance but really, I don't feel like it anymore. It just turns me off. I mean, sometimes you can play mind games and get laid after...

Partly because I have high standards, and partly because not every hot girl is into me, it takes forever for me to find a girl that really kinda ticks the boxes. I'd say maybe 3-4 a year that I'd even consider potential for a girlfriend. Obviously often it doesn't work out. I have random lays...

I was going to go out just now (alone) but then thought better of it. I was going to sit at the bar, chat up some dudes (wings for the night) and girls and, if lucky, leave with a girl by the end of the night. But BOY I'm bored of the small talk! We'd talk about travel, get into a discussion...