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    Losing friends for supporting Trump

    So I'm not political by any means but since it's all around me I have no choice but to be exposed to some of what's going on. During the election I've always favored Trump due to his stance, ability to bounce back criticism, strong presence, and bluntness. To me being part of this community...
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    Friends called me ignorant for having opinions

    I usually don't rant but I couldn't help it this time. I've been an avid studier of concepts on this site as well as the law of attraction, view of the world, etc. so it's safe to say opening my mind has altered my views on many of things. The gist of it: my friends were never part of these...
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    Am I a narcissist or womanizer or both

    Hi guys. So I'm looking for some help. I've come to realize that when I'm in a serious relationship and emotionally attached all sexual attraction/desire fades and it's very hard for me to get turned on enough to want to have sex with my partner. However if the same woman was new and we weren't...
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    Compatibility or attraction? Struggling

    Hi guys, quick overview. I've been dating someone coming up on 6 months and she's great. For the longest time I'd only come across women who were really only good for sex, which made me grow tired and then this one came along. We can actually have intelligent conversations, hang out, enjoy...
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    Gf is mad that I can walk away at any moment

    Is this the ultimate **** test or what? She randomly sends this text: "can I just say that I feel like I'm on this fine line with you sometimes. I'm just worried if I don't keep everything up 100% you're just going to tell me to beat it. I need to feel like you're not going to just walk...
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    In a relationship - how to get past urges to cheat?

    Hi guys I've been in a relationship for a couple months now and it's great, problem is I've been getting more attention from girls now. Must be their innate competition wanting to win me over my gf. Well my biological need to f*ck as many girls as possible seems to take over often and I find...
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    Predicament: Job offered by fling's father

    As title states, there's a girl I've been seeing like once a week, sometimes once every two weeks who I consider a fling but I can sense she's more invested. Today she texts saying her dad is looking for help and she mentioned me because of my skills, which I currently do not have a job in...
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    Younger chicks are attracted to ignorant arrogance

    And women age range 26+ go for real confidence. True or false? And your reasoning Been exposed to the teenage/early 20s crowds lately (local band shows from seeing a friend's band play) and I've noticed there's a lot of attractive young girls who are with the most obnoxious, arrogant, boys...
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    Should you talk about what you learn with women?

    I'm curious if women like knowing that a man knows how attraction and how most women work. I ask because the conversation was briefly brought up by this woman I was hanging out with yesterday. I was tempted to give input about certain things but didn't know if it'd work in my favor or...
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    New problem I've been coming across "everything happened so fast"

    This is the the third time I've experienced this now. Here's the pattern: -Girl is usually shy or seems nervous. Sometimes it comes across as disinterest. -Girl doesn't give clear IOIs/doesn't respond well to kino -Girl ends up sleeping with me on the first night Then afterwards or...
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    Women who refuse to pay for a guy ever

    I always jokingly misinterpret what a woman says about a date as she's going to pay for me. For example: So you're going to pay for my movie ticket? Aw that's so nice! I do it to see their response and to give hints of entitlement. Most common responses by the entitled ones: "You're kidding...
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    Okcupid glitch?

    Has anyone experienced this before? I'll have random moments where no one views my profile and/or get no replies even if I'm messaging a bunch of women. Then a day or two later my inbox blows up with replies to my messages all at the same time. I've even had one woman say that she was just...
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    Okc drama for deleting my profile

    So I had reactivated my okc profile last week out of boredom at work. Figured I'd see if there was any new talent. Of course there was maybe like three and nothing I was excited to message. Which off topic made me think how funny it is that the same women were still on from the first time I...
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    Something I unconsciously learned from this site

    That I'm not usually aware of until I see others doing it. That thing is accepting people for who they are and not letting it get to me. I see so many people get upset when they deal with others who have bad mannerisms/habits/logic and it ruins that person's day. You can tell they want so...
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    Just noticed something about my current plates and it bummed me out a bit

    This morning I had two women I've been casually seeing each separately sending me nude pics trying to distract me at work. Well it worked but not like they hoped. I realized yeah they're f*ckable but I'm not really THAT attracted to them. Went through my contacts and realized only about one...
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    New plate is a daddy's girl. Bad news?

    New woman I've been talking to/seeing I've noticed she has certain days devoted just to her dad and if the weather is bad, she's spending the day/night at his place. She's not talked much about him to me (at least not yet) but I sense she has a very very close connection with him. Most of the...
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    Feel weird that I'm attracted to a HB6

    Ok guys, as title says I'm oddly attracted to a woman who has a face that's really kind of "ugly" as some would describe. Her body on the other hand is pretty damn sexy. She's curvy but not fat. She's somewhat submissive and likes being man handled which I think adds to the attraction...
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    Women that hardly get back to you

    Ok, I know the consensus is to keep plate spinning but sometimes I'll hit a phase where women just do not get back to me ie reply to texts, return phone calls or just say they're too busy right now. These days I'm more quick to just delete a number rather than try again a few days later. I'm...
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    Women who neglect admitting they have kids on dating sites

    Wtf man, I think this is worse than deception through angular pics. Happened three times now, hitting it off thinking there HAS to be a catch then non-chalantly a mention about their kids. Now I'm not against kids and I know some guys don't mind chicks who have them but for me I prefer...
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    Suggestions on how to spend New Year's

    At this point I'm almost content spending it alone or just going to bed early. All my friends have gfs/wives and will be spending it together. Basically a couples night/party. I never have fun when I try attending and no single friends are ever present, if anything some outside friends with...
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