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I think it's the fear of the unknown or even worse the fear that people who like/support Trump (whose character isn't predictable) means they might be wrong about everything they thought they knew or believed in and they simply can't accept that. It's like an insecure/inferiority that they...

I was the only one who predicted he'd win out of my friends. Everyone kept joking it off until they realized I was serious. They asked why I thought he would and when I gave my opinions they didn't want to hear it and said I was crazy. Guess they didn't like that I was right so to them that...

It's ridiculous because I've asked these "ex" friends why they don't like Trump and they just mention things he's said about building a wall, grabbing pussies, etc. I say that has nothing to do with running a corporation which America is and he's has corporation experience. It's no different...

I'm not into politics. They are more than me. They asked if I liked Trump and I simply replied yes. And that's all it took lol. I wasn't trying to have a debate with them they just decided my opinion wasn't worth being friends with over

Yeah it's crazy I mean I can see some stranger off the street but to have friends quickly turn their backs on you for have some opinions is wild to me. Guess it shows you either quietly nod and agree with the majority or have no one on your side lol. My thing is I'm not "angry" they wanted...

So I'm not political by any means but since it's all around me I have no choice but to be exposed to some of what's going on. During the election I've always favored Trump due to his stance, ability to bounce back criticism, strong presence, and bluntness. To me being part of this community...

It's him. The friend who told me is very honest and never did me wrong. Best friend since elementary school. I did send the other friend a text when it all happened to see what he was so upset about but he never replied

The friend who informed me about all this has already called him childish for his behavior. What makes this awkward for me is that my other friends are his friends and knowing he's going around trying to shun me out almost makes me not even want to deal with any of them.

Update: This one friend has been bad mouthing me to my other friends. Saying I'm a bad friend because I never go to social functions, participate in things I don't like but should because "my friends will be there" etc Apparently he's trying to sway them all to have the same views about me that...

So what does everyone suggest here, be a sheep and not give opinions to keep your friends happy? It's confusing. Kind of reinforces why I'd rather be alone and not put on a facade just to pleasure people

So just randomly realized that said friend has stopped following me on social media outlets. Guess he really didn't like me challenging his sense of thinking lol

Thanks guys. You're all right and I generally am the one who just nods during such conversations knowing they're too in their own view of the world to open up to another way but these are what I consider (or should re-consider lol) my closest friends so I didn't think they'd attack me the way...

I usually don't rant but I couldn't help it this time. I've been an avid studier of concepts on this site as well as the law of attraction, view of the world, etc. so it's safe to say opening my mind has altered my views on many of things. The gist of it: my friends were never part of these...

That's true. I'll try to change my outlook. But it seems to naturally occur where the desire slowly turns in caring. Kind of smothers the lust

Caring and affection in a non-sexual context

Ultimately it does come down to "objectifying" as sad as that may be.

Yeah I remember being with an older woman years back who was super sexy to me. Had that secretary look to her 24/7 and even that got boring to me when feelings started becoming part of the equation and it was becoming more serious. When it ended, a year later I saw her and the same original...

I do watch porn often and I get lost in the fantasy of hooking up with a "slut" it does arouse me more than having sex with someone I care about.

I was attracted to her and had no problem getting aroused by her in the beginning until things became serious between us. That's the pattern with me, once it goes from casual dating to something serious and long term and emotions build up its like I trade sexual desire for "affection" No...

Hi guys. So I'm looking for some help. I've come to realize that when I'm in a serious relationship and emotionally attached all sexual attraction/desire fades and it's very hard for me to get turned on enough to want to have sex with my partner. However if the same woman was new and we weren't...