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She cancelled on me twice... is it my turn now? Edit: She canceled on me, not flaked. Quick background, I've been talking to this girl "on and off" for a pretty long time. We've gone on a few casual dates in the past. She's home from college for the summer so we've decided to reconnect. It's...

This is the formula I'm trying out. Being an a-hole just isn't me. I've tried it, but I know it seems put on and fake. Nobody's buying it and doesn't work. Not to toot my own horn, but I'm a nice, friendly, confident and funny guy. I'm a great conversationalist, college grad, awesome 9 to 5...

As much as you wouldn't believe, 99% of woman are basically the same. They all get attracted to the same actions and behaviors. No Contact might be the simplest, most ingenius principle in all of the Don Juan teachings. Ever not talk to a girl for a few days and start missing her? That's the...

Simple rule: IL must always reciprocate in a relationship or dating. If she likes you, you showing interest won't be a problem... it's showing too much continual interest. There is nothing wrong in approaching a girl and subtly letting your intentions known. Unless she is crazy (and therefore...

After 2 very successful dates (Coffee Date with IOI's through the ceiling: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=168324 and movie/dinner: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=169578) I went ahead and asked her if she wanted to hang out again. I suggested we get drinks tomorrow...

An old crush from high school is home for winter break and we've gone on 2 dates so far. The first one, a coffee date (her idea) went really well. In fact she showed so many IOIs the SS community thought I was stupid to second guess myself. Recap in case your interested...

After dinner, offer her a mint. "Oooh sure, thanks"- Kiss close "No thanks" - No kiss tonight Works 100% of the time.

An old Freudian theory, I'm pretty sure this is true. Very good article on the subject: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1051981/Why-men-women-choose-partners-look-like-parents.html I think it's a really interesting concept, and with most women I'll bet it's spot-on. Drop...

Went on a coffee date this afternoon, overall I'd say it went pretty well. Anyway, here's a list of what I noticed. I was hoping you Don Juan experts (I fade in and out of the community) could let me know "A-Level IOIs" vs. "Probably just a coincidence" 1. Crossing/ uncrossing her legs...

While I wouldn't consider myself a collector, I do have about 4 or 5 pairs of expensive sneakers. Mostly Jordans and retro Nikes. I like the culture, particularly when they retro old shoes. It's something I enjoy spending my money on, as opposed to drinks at a bar, car mods, video games, etc...

PM me if you want to see what I look like, I'd appreciate any pointers. what you think and all that standard fare. If you're not interested, don't send a PM. I frequent this site and have been registered over a year (and surfed without posting for the last four years), so I'm just trying to...

I just wrote this in another post but I would like to give it it's own thread. I try to take after this man in all avenues of life and encourage anyone else to do the same. In my mind, he is the embodiment of a Don Juan... "If there's one "Don Juan" I recommend you take after, it would be the...

To make a long story short, an old friend from high school was waiting on me at a restaurant the other night. I remember her seeming interested at times in the past, though we never dated. Anyway, running into her was quite cool. She was very sweet to my family and they really liked her. She...

I think the key to Mystery's success (if he genuinely has any) is he speaks exceedingly well. He has a unique, high-pitched voice (which I have as well) and an awfully good command of the English language. He speaks in a very commanding and authoritative manner which shifts focus to him. The...

Before you write this off as silly, just know that I've heard this for years now and from several sources. Anyway, here's my question... would statements like: "Hey Tom" "Thanks Tom" "How are you, Tom?" "Nice meeting you, Tom..." be indicators of interest as opposed to: "Hey"...

Met a girl last night. Pretty cute and with beer goggles on, a definite keeper. We were talking the whole night. She was giving of tons off IOIs with her body language. I got her number, did lots of kino. She asked if I was dating anyone. In other words, this was a "go". I actually got to the...

I've become very interested in one of my classmates. I've noticed kino (initiated on her end), hair flipping, a constant smile and a few other IOIs. Here is one that seems to be the most prominent though, she can never hold eye contact. Whenever I speak to her I look her in the eyes intently...

I see a lot of individuals asking what they can do to increase their confidence.Here is something ANY guy can do, even one with absolutely no game/ confidence/ previous experience, etc. Simply realize that to each and every person you meet, you are essentially a mystery. NOBODY knows you like...

I see a lot of individuals asking what they can do to increase their confidence.Here is something ANY guy can do, even one with absolutely no game/ confidence/ previous experience, etc. Simply realize that to each and every person you meet, you are essentially a mystery. NOBODY knows you like...

I think you absolutely should. I read that in a men's magazine one time and I think it's a great piece of advice. I find you exude confidence and set a great tone by doing so. I was passive last night and didn't shake a girl's hand upon meeting her. I ended up regretting it because I think...