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Went to a yoga class tonight, dragged my exhausted butt back home and this cute girl passes me as I'm walking. She looked up at me and gave ME a hard time for walking slow! It turned into a game until I caught up with her, talked, found out she lives on my block! Very cute and sassy, I...

I've gotten really good at approaching, not necessarily always approaching with no fear but successfully approaching when I make the move. Yesterday I approached three women and did not number close. I was attracted to all three (separate approaches not a set) for different reasons and was...

I sort of nexted a girl based on her negativity, grumpiness, lack of respect. I say "sort of" because to be honest the situation is not all bleak and negative- at times she has displayed touching warmth and sensitivity. I don't need her to be perfect but lately the unpleasant stuff...

Example one: I was at a farmer's market and noticed an hb checking me out, smiled at me; went over to the stand but was frustrated by the timing of things- she was with a friend and the French guy seller was laying it on thick with his "friendly" charm. And I don't know if he was deliberately...

I SHOULD KNOW BETTER DEPT: Ok, I've been around enough now to not be fooled but- I went to dinner with a friend, not looking for anything but good food and my friend's company. However, the waitress, early 20's, was not only the cutest, but friendliest dish on the menu. Guys, she...

Two approaches today (one of them attempted). The first was at the rehab facility where my mother is recuperating from surgery- I kid you not, my own mom is kidding me about my sarging activities at the joint, but I've got numbers and interest from a few quarters. Anyway, my mom, sis, and...

Hey you guys- A woman who LJBFd me a while back, I went through a bit of oneitis over her, long story short I moved on but recently she's sought me out. I gave her some time with me, basically treated her like my brat, and now don't put any stock in investing time or energy in her, cute as...

I wish it wasn't an AFC report but I'm feelin' it, especially tonight. I'll try to be economical and positive, because ultimately I'd like to think that I'm shedding my AFC skin. Perhaps not the last one but at least we're shedding. This revolves around two plates, but mainly one, Plate A...

1. I'm doing THE THING that is really hard for me: keeping my hands off the phone- when what I really wanna do is call HER. Thursday she had a meltdown and was really critical, *****y, was going to leave my place and NEXT me. I was ready to NEXT her, not call her but she called Sat and we...

Quick question if any of you have encountered this behavioral quirk: cute girl I've dated a few times, shy, very shy at first, had to kino escalate very slowly, methodically. Made steady progress, to the point where I can put my hands just about anywhere I want on her. :) I have not...

I got a little blue a couple of days ago thinking about VDay. Even though I regard it as a "hallmark holiday" the fact that so many people get energized about it does alter the atmosphere a bit. I got blue thinking about the ex, wishing my situation was more tidy, satisfying. Now I'm glad...

I've got this plate whom I've been escalating for the last month. Late 20's, Asian (relevant for extra ASD), goofy yet "shy"/conservative. Cognitive dissonance when it comes to her behavior vs. her actions: She swore I would never fukk her, never see her tats, etc. The problem is she...

Hey guys, I am swamped with work so I have been keeping a low profile here, but today I had a small PU victory so I want to share it by way of encouragement. I went out in a rush to make it to the farmer's market before they shut down, so I'm unshaven, greasy hair, casual clothes- you get the...

I've gotta make this short- there's a lot of DJ wisdom out there and I want some of it now. I've got a couple of plates, one Asian, one American-Asian, late twenties early thirties who are ready to "pop", I can feel it. They have both tried to claim friend zone immunity. B.S. is what that...

Wanting feedback but first, just to give you a little background on my personality, here's a little true story: once upon a time I found myself moving through a ticket line at a big event film screening. The woman who took my ticket was an absolute knockout, wearing a tight little red dress...

Here's the skinny on a particular situation that I would appreciate feedback on, and admittedly, it's part of my larger AFC issues that I want to do a separate thread on; anyway- beautiful Asian who has been around me quite a while but with no windows of opportunity to act since both of us...

On another thread here Jophil said: A woman's real 'Interest Level' = Attraction plus Value plus Comfort. Interesting food for thought. Reflecting on my situation and experiences with women lately many have been frustrating. Lots of flaking. So when I look at the equation, for me...

I can use help on this one. At a party this past weekend I ran into the wife of one of my associates at work. I've worked with him for a couple of years and we have a good relationship. I've known her about as long, but superficially. I must admit that when I first laid eyes on her my...

Friday night my friend A is coming over for dinner. I have not seen her for weeks, maybe even longer, and I'm really looking forward to it. I was infatuated with her the moment I met her years ago and despite my frustrations with her over the years, nothing's changed as far as my chemical...