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    Lessons from 11 years of being in the game

    I started this thread 11 years ago: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/my-self-improvement-program.122336/ I posted the post below in there 6 years after I posted the last one. I feel there's some useful information in there, so I figured I'd post it as a thread and expand it a little bit. A...
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    Did something cool today

    I've made many cold approaches during the day through the years. I would open with a random conversation, or there was another reason for me to talk with her. I've gotten many numbers and dates out of this, it's great. Today it was a little different. I had done it once before like this, but...
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    Verbal flirting 101

    Check out this Howard Stern interview from '97 with Farra Fawcett who was a Playboy model back then. Listen front-to-back and learn. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NNgt6iGrydM Pay attention to how quickly he reacts perfectly to everything she says and how shamelessly sexual he is...
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    Just started my own website

    Through the years I've written a ton of stuff on here. All the things that I considered "good stuff", I saved in a text document. I thought I might as well put it on a website. I like to post here, but I also like a little space where I have creative freedom and am in control. Eventually, it'll...
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    Californication episode 5, season 4

    Always been a big fan of the show (except for season 3, that one sucked), but in this last episode they really ****in' just nailed: 1) chodes being blown off by the cooler guy 2) relentless and shameless flirting It's just so enjoyable to watch because it goes down exactly as I have seen...
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    If you want to turn into a beast quickly

    Start kickboxing, seriously. That training will f**ing destroy your ass. It's great for your endurance and you'll build muscle in a natural, gradual way as well. Not in the weird way like a lot of those fitness apes with some their muscles way out of proportion. Plus you'll learn how to whoop...
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    What would you do, as an experienced DJ?

    Here's the story. It was already in my journal a couple of weeks ago: I had this introduction camp for my college where I had to lead new students around the city (awesome). There was this absolutely gorgeous girl. Really, she was just beautiful in this natural way. Just a tiny hint of...
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    But what if I don't like clubs?

    If you read my journal you already know this. But this problem came back to haunt me for the 1000th time and it really ruined my day. I'm pissed at myself. Here is the deal; I f*cking hate clubs and especially the music they play. I can't stand that sh*t. It completely puts me off balance...
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    A great example of a guy who's in his own reality

    Check this out http://www.dumpert.nl/mediabase/563081/6d3c9afe/mma_vechter_droogneukt_interviewster.html That's f*cking hilarious. But that took some balls too.
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    I'm going to write a book, for all of you

    Some of you might know me. I write a sh*t load of stuff on this forum. Not many random posts, but always long stories and theories. The two links in my signature will show you what I mean. I'm 100% sure I'm going to get successful real soon, I can feel it. If you read my journal, you can tell...
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    Places to check out in Manhattan

    I'm going to Manhattan in a couple of weeks. Definitely going out one or two nights. I have an appartment in Little Italy. Are there any places nearby there to check out? I'm not a club kind of guy, I can appreciate a cool bar much more. But, if there is a special place I definitely need to...
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    Rotterdam area

    Anyone from around there feeling like going into the field with me? It would be cool to go out with someone I don't know, because being around friends doesn't really help my game. I'm good at approaching, I'll approach any girl without thinking twice about it. The closing part is where I...
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    DJ's in Manhattan

    I'm going to Manhattan for a week with my family in a couple of months. I have planned that I want to go out at least one night. I know a bunch of people are reading my journal. Any of you wanna meet up? It would be cool to actually meet someone from this site
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    Snowdog's Super Tips

    Snowdog's tips on improving your social skills with women As some of you might know, I have a journal here for a couple of years now. Although I'm not quite where I want to be, I have made a huge leap forward in the right direction. I'm far more outgoing, positive, charming etc Then before...
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    To text or to call

    I probably already know the answer to this. Got a number yesterday. I was planning on calling her tomorrow when I'm on my lunch break at work. My sister told me I should text her and not call her because calling her would scare her. It's too 'direct' she said. It just sounded like stupid...
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    Oral sex question

    If a girl wants to give you head, is it a good idea to wear a condom? I'm asking this to the guys who already been there.
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    My first cold-approach number-close

    I know I'm starting a whole new thread for it, but I decided to put it in my journal instead: Read it. In that topic I post everything I experienced in terms of girls, also the less noteworthy stuff. It would just feel wrong to leave this one out. And, this is a big enough thing for me...
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    About small talk and number closing

    I was just wondering. I did quite some cold approaches in the couple of last weeks. How much small talk does one have to make before asking for a number? Is there a rule for that? I sometimes have the feeling I'm asking too soon.
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    "Are you attracted to me?"

    Happened to me a couple of times, just wondering... After asking a girl out, she asks "are you attracted to me?". How the hell do you respond to that?
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    How long to wait after a breakup

    A really hot girl in my class broke up with her longtime boyfriend last saturday (half a week ago). She seems a little shook up about it. How long should I wait till I ask her out?
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