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    My self-improvement program

    Thanks man. I wish you all the best with your woes. Keep your head up. If I had to give the version of myself that started this thread, it would be: Eat healthy. Paleo diet worked wonders for me. Do sports and get fit. My favorite by far is martial arts. Boxing, kickboxing, jiujitsu, and...
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    My self-improvement program

    I skimmed through the thread again and it brought back a lot of memories. If there's one thing I'd change about all of this, it would be not using alcohol as a crutch. I drank a lot in my twenties and early thirties. Hopefully, I won't have to pay the price for that later in life. We'll see.
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    My self-improvement program

    Thank you for asking. Career going well. Marriage still going strong. Both of us fit and healthy. Bought a house. Traveled a lot together. Biggest news, though: I am a father now. We have conceived a beautiful, healthy boy. I won't bore you guys with the details but all the clichés you hear...
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    My self-improvement program

    2021 Update: happily married for 2.5 years, career going well, and we got a dog. Currently looking to buy a house and we are trying to conceive. Next chapter kinda stuff. It's awesome. I'm 34 years old at this point, by the way. All things considered, life's good. I can't thank everyone on...
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    Snowdog's Super Tips

    Bump for evergreen content.
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    Guys here familiar with bartending and the nightlife scene, help me out!

    I don't really know the scene in Atlanta, but I'm sure you can find some good places there. There are usually hospitality Facebook groups for every city where jobs are constantly posted. Try and find something there. Start at the bottom. Don't expect to make much money at first. Work hard. Be...
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    Women say they want one thing but emotionally respond to the exact opposite.

    Men run on rationality. Women run on emotions. Always keep that in the back of your head. If you want to get laid, being rational about anything won't get you anywhere.
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    Guys here familiar with bartending and the nightlife scene, help me out!

    Nah dude. Read the thread in my signature. I didn't get laid until I was in my mid 20s, and after that there was almost nothing going on for years. It was only in my late 20s when things started happening for me. I don't know the Atlanta scene very well, but bars in the city are generally loud...
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    Lessons from 11 years of being in the game

    I started this thread 11 years ago: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/my-self-improvement-program.122336/ I posted the post below in there 6 years after I posted the last one. I feel there's some useful information in there, so I figured I'd post it as a thread and expand it a little bit. A...
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    Guys here familiar with bartending and the nightlife scene, help me out!

    25 is fine. If you apply yourself, you can still get in the game. If you work hard, you'll move up quick. I'd say you have an advantage over the young bucks at your age. You're way smarter and more world-weary than people 5 years younger than you. It matters a lot at that age. It's not very...
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    Why everyone always blames the guy if he fails with women

    Wah wah wah, it's unfair. You're not wrong. But guess what, life's not fair. Deal with it like a man. Or cry about it like a b1tch. The choice is up to you.
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    Is it always impossible for a man to "nice" his way to get a woman?

    This. I'm a very nice guy. I'm a genuinely caring guy. I do nice things for people. I'm chivalrous to the point where people notice and comment on it. Women love it when you do it the right way. James Bond does it the right way. I have a sensitive personality. Classical music makes me tear up...
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    Guys here familiar with bartending and the nightlife scene, help me out!

    I've been a bartender as a side-job for many years. Started during college. It's damn hard work, but it's satisfying. You will start at the bottom. You'll be the guy that grabs the empty glasses and puts them through the dishwasher. Eventually you'll get to wait tables. Hang in there long...
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    My self-improvement program

    I started this thread 11 years ago. And now I'm posting an update 6 years after the last post. A lot of things have changed, to say the least. In the last 6 or so years, I have traveled half the world and slept with dozens of women from virtually every continent. Pretty much all the sexual...
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    Do you consider yourself more conservative or more liberal?

    Generally liberal, but I'm a big fan of the 2nd amendment. I wish it was legal to own a gun in the Netherlands.
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    My self-improvement program

    Got laid with the girl I talked about on the previous post a couple of weeks ago. She's been a dancer pretty much her entire life, she's took a bunch of belly dancing classes and she's also into yoga now. So yeah, body of a godess, and amazing moves and positions. It was amazing in every single...
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    Logical thinking- preventing attachment

    I agree to a degree. A lot of girls are replaceable. But in rare cases, some girls really are special and totally awesome and worth the trouble.
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