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    An easy secret to get out of the friend-zone

    This is not my tip (got it from elsewhere), but I love it. So simple and effective.
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    Do you ever feel liked but never remembered?

    Have you ever known someone that you like a lot but can never remember? As in, if you think about them, you know that you really enjoy your time with them and you have lots of good memories, but once they're gone you forget to invite them somewhere or you don't think of them when planning...
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    Relationship Troubles

    I've been in a good relationship for many months. But there's this new-ish girl in our group of friends who is just stunningly beautiful. She's single, closer to my age range, and we get along very well/have similar interests. I'm pretty sure she likes me too, but knows I'm in a relationship...
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    How do you tell a girl she's being clingy?

    Title says it all. I love my girlfriend but good Lord, sometimes I just really want my space. She totally felt that not seeing each other every day was a good thing when we first started our relationship. 8 months in and now it's like she tried to find a way to see me or at least chat everyday...
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    This is interesting...

    I had my girlfriend of 9 months tell me today (in a truly frustrated manor) that there's a part of me she feels she hasn't seen or opened. Keep in mind we are very close and there are not a whole lot of secrets that haven't been said. But I found her statement kind of interesting. Thoughts?
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    What would you make of this?

    My girlfriend today told me something really interesting that I'm not entirely sure how to feel about. We've been dating around 6 months and she has been very into me, sex has been great, our relationship is strong. Her previous boyfriends were either controlling, immature, clingy, or all of...
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    Orgasm at the same time?

    Is it possible? Have you ever gotten you and your girl to orgasm at the same time? If so, how?
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    Tell me if I'm wrong here...

    my current gf (who I trust, to a degree of course...she is a woman after all) has a guy friend (guys' a known virgin) who rides street bikes with some buddies. She was gonna go ride with him (them). now, i dont like letting jealousy get the best of me but am i right in being kinda jealous...
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    POLL: Vagina or Blow job

    Forgive me if this is against Forum rules, but based on other discussions here I'm assuming it's not. If it is, I'm sorry and just delete this thread. Otherwise, let's continue. I've heard many guys say a blow job is better than sex, and others claim the opposite. Your opinion?
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    What to do on girlfriend's birthday?

    Wasn't sure if this was appropriate for the DJ Discussion thread, so I put it here. My girlfriend's birthdays coming up and we were originally going to go to Disneyland but it turned out to be too expensive, so now I'm lost. What should I we do for her birthday? Again, I'm not looking for gift...
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    A bit nervous about making all the decisions

    I was reading this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=136122 and came across this: I understand men have to make all the decisions, as the post describes, but I get a bit nervous sometimes and wondering if I'm making the right decisions. I know she'll be happy I'm...
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    The Big Secret

    Confidence. Yes, it is that simple. Confidence is your answer. Always. Want to be respected? Confidence. You want girls? Confidence. It's always all about confidence. Confidence can get you the girl, because confidence never gave a crap whether she liked you or not in the first place...
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    How to be more "fun"...

    I understand the reasons behind why being a "fun" guy is important. Personality wise, I think I totally fit the bill of being a "fun" guy. But in a relationship, I sometimes have trouble doing "fun" things. I mean sure if I were loaded with $$$ I'd be taking her to amusements parks, concerts...
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    How to say "no"...

    I know this might be easy for most of you, but for me I'm still learning how to say "no" to a girl. My current gf is a little on the clingy side, wanting to hang out everyday. I don't want to hang out everyday. Not even every other day. I feel like I need a reason to tell her that I don't want...
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    College Major...

    I want to be an actor. Entertaining people is what I get excited about (we all have our "thing"). I need to decide on a major in college, but originally was going to go into something more financially sound (in case acting doesn't work out for whatever reason). I'm sure this sounds like a good...
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    Getting too close for comfort...

    I've recently started seeing this chick. The AFC inside me is wanting to put her up on a pedestal, and I'm trying to kill it off. I mean I have other girls I could see, and I even flirt with girls at work and whatnot, but still. I'm finding myself starting to think about her more than I think...
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    3 things losers do...

    3 Things that every loser does: 1) Make excuses 2) Blame others 3) Quit Evaluate yourself now to see if you're doing any of these things. If so, ask yourself why you're doing them, and then re-read the list on what 3 things losers do.
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    What to make of this?

    I've realized that when I'm around a girl I like I go into what I call "girlfriend mode". No, I don't become her girlfriend or anything like that, I start treating her as if we're in a relationship. I start setting it up in my mind like we're a couple. This is bad, because for some reason when I...
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    I've come to a realization!

    I realized that I've been putting myself in a negative mindset when I see a beautiful girl. I never used to do this (until I went through a few relationships that failed). It dawned on me how I immediately set myself up with a negative mindset when I see a cute girl (nervousness, I can do...
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    Taking Things Too Seriously...

    I'm a little freaked out. I'm only in my very early twenties and I feel like I'm becoming too serious. I feel like I've lost my sense of humor. I used to smile all the time and laugh at everything (everything that was acceptable to laugh at...not like if a person died). Now I feel very...
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