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    I've been invited to a secret group

    The guys are big shots, huge in my town... They know the streets, and they said I am ready. I have another three days to think about this, and I really don't know what to say. I've had pacts with my friends before. I've been part of groups that did everything together. I've never had to...
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    We all lie, cheat, and steal... is that a bad thing?

    I'm sure most of you guys conciously try NOT to do anything bad. Most girls think that makes you a nice guy. You can be everything, but as soon as the oportunity to take something without paying for it arises, you 'pvssy out' and you try to make it sound as though it is against your...
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    Taking things too far

    What are some ideas that come to mind when a person tells you, after you F'ed up that you took things too far? -------- Did you think of what you did wrong? You were playing around too much? Were you being too serious? Did you test their patience? -------- Did you think of what was...
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    Asking questions, giving advice

    I'd put this in the HighSchool forum if I didn't think it was going to get confused. These are my two biggest 'problems' if they can be called that. I can ask a question a thousand ways, and get a thousand answers, and neither the questions, nor the answers are what I am looking for. I can...
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    If my father is a natural, but I was sheltered...

    How do I overcome this? My father preaches the "be a man" story all the time. The rest of the time it's sports and work. He doesn't talk about work, he'll tell me to shut up if I bring anyhing up. There is more, but it wouldn't serve a purpose to say. I only have a question. I've...
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    I have a fetish for DUMB chicks

    Like so dumb that they will stare at their feet counting how many times they tap their feet. These girls don't do ANYTHING. I read their faces, and I know IMMEDIATELY that if I could get her alone, I could teach her exactly how to screw me. I like these girls because they are easy. I am a...
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    Is the norm, the ideal?

    I know it's not, but humor the idea. Freud leaned towards the norm. Milton Erickson leaned towards the norm. Most of the widely renowned psychologists lean towards the norm. At least their theory's do. This sheep idea, where everybody seemingly follows the same path in life, and are...
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    I found an EQ vs IQ test done on CEO's...

    Innovators Alliance did a study of 76 CEOs, 61 males and 15 females. Average age, 44, with 50%, 45 years old or younger. 70% have been running their companies for 15 years or less, and 45% of them have run their companies for 6 years or less. Sixty percent of these CEOs founded their company...
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    Learning from failure

    Rejection is probably the closest word in the seduction community. Discovering your true self, requires you to be seen in the worst light possible. Failing miserably gives you the opportunity to change your life in an instant. Through knowing your fault, aiming for, and hoping to know your...
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    A DJ likes to be proved wrong.

    Don't believe me? You can test yourself... Go to your mother and tell her you can lift the house over your head with one finger... GOOOO!!!! If your mother isn't home, or hasn't been home in a long time, find somebody else. Even a damned stranger will do the trick. Most strangers enjoy...
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    Telling a story IS giving advice

    A good story will give advice to your thoughts. It will guide your mind from one dream, to another, sometimes, just by talking a little bit slower. Some days, the stories you can tell are totally random, but you can get people involved very easily. Other days, it seems like everybody is...
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    The two basics...

    Life and death are generally considered the two basic directions of living. That is dead wrong. Every religion has some type of after life, something to atone for after you live. If you look at life as evergoing, even in limbo, than there never truly is a final death. Fear and happiness are...
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    Jumping the gun...

    When you make assumptions, when you trust your gut, when you act first and think later... Are you always right? If a person asks for help... What are the first things that come to mind?
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    I want to make my own theory...

    Is there a process? Don't tell me I need to practice, because I do, practicing doesn't help me create a theory though, it only helps me time the way I use my intelligence.. Any ideas on how I can "find my own style" and what not?
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    What does an AFC practice?

    Spare me the AFC/DJ conundrum, this is hypothetical. Well I grew up from the mindset that people are best at doing what they know. aPUA's want to be the BEST at picking up women, because it's the competition of life. So they read and read and practice, and test, and ponder, and get better...
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    Complacency, comfort zones, laziness, unadventurous

    com·pla·cen·cy n. A feeling of contentment or self-satisfaction, especially when coupled with an unawareness of danger, trouble, or controversy. An instance of contented self-satisfaction My problem... and most of yours as well. I am a lazy son of a b!tch. I suffer from chronic...
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    Going against the flow.

    We all know about emo's and goth's. We know of anarchists, and the anti-christ. We know that AFC are confused, and jerks disregard feelings. Is there a reason to be non conformist? Is being a non conformist, conformist? Achieving flow in our lives is fun. It creates "perfect moments" that...
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    Do you know the reason?

    Is there information I can read anywhere about people's reasoning? People place so much time reasoning their actions. They make schedules of their lives. They write books. They talk to friends. THey ask questions. This is all reasoning, reasoned actions. I am an "efficient planning" wh0re...
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    If a girl is scared...

    Man, I know tons of girls that I have scared because I was too open. Wondering if you guys have any thoughts on the matter. If she had some fear when she was a child, and you inadvertently reminded her of it, you are associated with the feelings and actions. If a girl ever had the camera...
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