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    The Feeling of Disconnect Between Current You and Ideal You

    That’s really good stuff. The fear is the hint that you must do it. Not something to keep ignoring. Maxtro, just read what you are saying here. You wish one thing, but you are another. You are saying to yourself, "I am this...." This is huge disconnect. Here is the thing. You are not...
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    The Feeling of Disconnect Between Current You and Ideal You

    It has been a while since I’ve been back on these boards. Long time has passed. I came to some conclusions lately and I wanted to come back and share some of my insight. Give back to the people that helped me when I was searching for myself. I have always felt a disconnect between who I was...
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    gf with guy friend, i have the urge

    It is what it is man. Being on both sides of the situtation. One where I was younger and jealous and believed in the mentality of when Harry Met Sally that guy and girl can't be friends. Basically every relationship I was in ended up in the dumpster because of my controlling jealous old...
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    Meeting/Overcoming Resistance

    I am noticing that I keep hitting a lot of resistance from others. Both people I know who are close to me and people I do not. I am noticing that since I started to go after what I really truly want and not walking over anyone, not overtly stating what I am doing but just doing and going for...
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    Red Flags and Phrases to keep an ear for, with examples:

    Funny and scarry sh1t all in one.
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    Question: G/F and her not liking my friends. Need advice/input

    Update: I had the talk. Here is the breakdown. - my g/fsays that even though I see this as completely from friends level. She feels that one of the friends/girls see it more. I disagreed with her completely, since why would we be friends for 2 years and nothing ever gave me any sense of her...
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    Question: G/F and her not liking my friends. Need advice/input

    Thanks LatinoMan. Great advice. Yes, I've always been fair to my woman and I haven't hung out with them since last summer because of this situation. I've seen them here and there, I stopped by their place once or twice and through emails. But its been bugging me ever since. I hate doing this...
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    Question: G/F and her not liking my friends. Need advice/input

    DavenJuan, you seem to know where I am coming from. Thanks for the input. I'm going to talk to her about it, while still inviting my friends. We'll see how it goes.
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    Question: G/F and her not liking my friends. Need advice/input

    I explained to her few times, describing everything and our dynamic. and how i don't stay in touch with other girls who I had interest in, but i don't give up my friends. Still we have not reached any sort of compromise or solution. She says she feels how she feels. Perhaps she does, but she...
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    Question: G/F and her not liking my friends. Need advice/input

    good responses. To answer some questions: - good points MoTown Jack. I've been in similar situtaion you mention in number 2. - "lordson" - my friends are fairly attractive - I considerably to pretty cut out the time from us hanging out together. Last time we all got together was last...
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    Question: G/F and her not liking my friends. Need advice/input

    Been with my g/f for 1.5 years. We live together. All is good. She is great. I’m 29 and she is 26. Situtation: I have friends who are girls that my g/f doesn’t like me having. I have known these 2 friends for 2.5 years. I’ve been friends with them way before I got together with my g/f...
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    Liberating Feeling

    Just wanted to share with you guys that it is such a liberating experience where your inner game has progressed so much to where you no longer associate or allow negative feelings of others and your spouse bring you down to their level and make you feel like they are. Where you are in control...
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    always follow your gut.....

    I agree. What happens is when you have gut feeling or an intuition about something you have to follow it right away. But, few seconds later your mind starts to rationalize it and make some sense of it, which it usually ends up telling you don't follow your 6th sense. Rationalizing or...
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    Is This A Good Text She Sent?

    You shouldn't be worried what she is doing or decyphering her texts. She should be worrying who you are with and why you haven't texted HER in a while. Re-Frame man.
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    30+ day Challenge / Boot Camp. Ends Dec 31, 07

    I'll start. No hesitation. Being decisive. Applying 3 second rule to whatever decision that comes my way. Dealing with things as they come right then and there. Be it in a social situation or relationship. Answers like may be or I'll try don't cut it. Answering my phone when someone...
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    30+ day Challenge / Boot Camp. Ends Dec 31, 07

    Yo peeps, I'm going to present something interesting. A challenge/boot camp if you will. I present you with 30 day + challenge. It starts now or anytime you post from and till December 31, 2007. List only 5 things you want to have, habits to acquire, goals to achieve. Its simple...
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    Does she bring up other guys names in your good/healthy relationship? Thoughts on why

    School that she goes to, in her class. She tends to bring up one particular name of the guy she talks and most likely admires cause she brings him up sometimes in no context of what we are talking about. He is one of the top students in the class and like a kid wiz or something. Kontroller...
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    Does she bring up other guys names in your good/healthy relationship? Thoughts on why

    Good perception Kontroller. Interesting view. Guess I have to see. This a bit stroke a cord in me. "If things keep going well in your relationship though with not many rough patches nor severe behaviour change in her be it overly bad or overly good then Interceptor is totally right and its...
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