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    Why do girls keep old stuff from previous boyfriends?

    I keep hearing it all the time. And I've seen many girls do it. From photos, teddy bears, clothes and other gifts. Some girls excuses? Oh they would want to have a look at them when they are 80yrs old or showing their grandkids. They would want to reminisce about the good old times when they...
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    I am happy in my LTR but I have a WANDERING EYE.

    Face it...boys will be boys. I am very happy in a LTR but find it hard to keep my eyes to myself. I am constantly have a wandering eye looking at other girls and god knows what I want to do with her. I admit I like my gal heaps and wouldnt cheat on her but find myself lusting after other...
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    WHOA! I saw my EX and I felt a little f*cked up about it.

    I had a oneitis last year and we were also good friends but things didn't work out. It took me a while to get over it because I feel heartbroken and burnt. I am in a great LTR and would never do anything to sabotage it. I am very happy with my current one. With my ex-oneitis, we had so...
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    How do stay DJ in a LTR?

    Being in a LTR spells a whole new challenge many DJs might actually find daunting: *Committing to just one girl and being limited to that one *Resisting the temptation to sarge or game new girls who you know would be "game on". *Putting your macking skills away *Harder to walk away in the...
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    My Amazing LTR GF has a "Bad Past"

    I've been going out with this girl (21, I'm 23) for nearly 6 months (she's been my longest) and so far things have been so good compare to my previous flings and hook ups. She treats me like a king (as my friend says, kisses the ground I walk on) she doesn't go out clubbing or has a lil drink...
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    DJ Life taking a BIG turn!

    OK, I am in a big rut at the moment. I am currently doing uni studying Teaching (High School). I found that life is just currently on "just living" phase and need higher purpose. I was on a playing phase with girls (sometimes seeing 3 or 4 girls in a single day when I am free) but now settled...
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    Girls who only go for ARMY GUYS.

    This is my pet peeve...I am in a town full of soldiers and the numbers are growing. Now what I find annoying is that many girls are adopting the mentality that the soldiers are far better than anybody and etc bullcrap. They wont date anyone else but soldiers. There is a love/hate relationship...
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    Extreme Oneitis

    I met this girl about last June because I was avoiding my ex-gf in a fitness class. And so we became partners. We kind of became ok friends then and bumping into each here and there and she only lived a few dorms away. She is a bartmaid. We exchanged numbers and became better friends although...
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    Army wives/ girlfriends playing up.

    Anyone watch "The Unit" where the blonde wife is cheating on her soldier husband with another soldier. Happens all the time...They cheat and lie and infiltrate the front lines faster than IEDs Why is that cheaters are more common with army partners? I've been with 2 soldier's girlfriends...
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    I want to be the TOP DOG, the Pack Leader

    I realise this is a good trait for some people. Some people choose to be kings some choose to be peasants. If your plane or ship crash lands into an remote island. Who would you be? Coconut-gatherer? Fisherman? Berry-b1tch? Or the one sitting on top of all the supplies, food, women and...
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    Achieved so much, won many victories yet feel no better than a WB-AFC

    The facts: I have achieved so much for a young kid like me. As a lil kid struggling against so many constraints, limitations and setbacks I have battle through many things I though I could never do. Yea, I can write them down on paper. People can tell me the changes I have gone through over the...
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    Would you still continue with a girl after she’s been with someone else?

    One this day and age many people hook up without being in a relationship or being exclusive. Girl don’t mind it if their guy has been getting around and they would actually like it when every other girls likes their guy. Would you hook up with a girl you’ve been seeing casually if she has...
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    How do you avoid being emotionally attached easily?

    I have been having this problem for a long while. I tend to develop feelings too soon and being emotionally attached to the girl. Once that happens then there is a shift of power. It doesn’t matter if you tell her or not you tend to act on these emotions. I’ve tried seeing other girls but end...
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    What do you do when a better DJ enters the scene?

    How are you suppose to act when a better looking person, better game, social proof and all that enters the scene (especially yours). Are you suppose to just stand back and watch the person work it? Do you AMOG him? Befriend him? I know everyone is aiming to be the best but I have come across...
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    How do you get the girl to invest time and effort as much as you do.

    I know I am I always good with investing good quality time with a girl but lately with my past girls I’ve been worried too much about being taken for granted. I love doing stuff for people but I want close to as much effort in return. Of course I sound somewhat selfish but I don’t go buy...
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    Negative Traits: Need ways to get rid of them.

    I need to fix these issues fast. I have most aspects of my life sorted out but these things seem to be a real pain to get rid of. I know most of these are natural human emotions but I think mine are a little too much to handle and hard to hide. Most of these issues stem from my childhood and...
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    A hottie from class, met up, F-close then this...

    There was this hottie from my class in uni and we always have cool chats on our breaks. But we had different classes after that so there was like nearly 2 years without seeing each even though we were at the same course. Then I saw her again last week and it was good to see each other again...
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    If you have feelings for a girl should you let her know or not?

    You know when you start having feelings for a girl you've been seeing, should you let her know how you feel or keep it to yourself. I usually don't tell a girl I do have feelings for her (just casual relationship) because I am a worried that it might turn her away or feel like she will be...
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    Story: Looks only get auditions but doesn't seal the deal

    For those of you guy who say looks ARE everything, here is a lil story from the college I live at. There is this big norwegian guy 6'4, really buff, clean cut and stylish. There are a lot of girls who are extremely into him and luckily my "wingwoman" (a very good female friend of mine)...
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    Other people trying to ruin me.

    I have had this thread on before but I'm am really angry at this situation and want to deal wit it as soon as possible. I live on college where there are a lot of international students coming to stay. But recently I found out there is a couple of people spreading bad news about me. One is...
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