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    Sensitive New Age Guy angry about being told to "man up"

    Angry poetry!!!!!!!!!!!!!! http://www.upworthy.com/if-you-tell-this-dude-to-man-up-you-better-be-prepared-to-learn-why-what-you-said-is-awful
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    That guy

    At times in my past I have been that guy, who comes out on top and gets the girl. Today I am not, and got dumped via text message. Sucked because I liked her. She wrote an epically long message that I was so wonderful but couldn't in good conscience be seeing 2 people she "cared about." I...
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    Ended it with my long term FB, for my own good.

    I've had a long term fb, for the last 3 years. Whenever I want some, she's available, or she's bugging me to get together. Why break it off? Because I've been spinning 4 plates recently. Met up with my fb for sex last Thursday night, then blew it with one of my plates (the one I liked the...
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    Aaron Hernandez

    He a thug. He a gangsta. Reminds me of that Dave Chappell skit "when keeping it real goes wrong." Looks like he's gonna go down hard at age 23 and lose millions. Solid career move there champ! :up:
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    The weirdest cycle in online dating

    Back online after 2 years..I know, I know it's not the best but got to get back in the game somehow. Anyway, this has happened too often lately: 1. Woman initiates contact with me first 2. Goes out of her way to quality herself, saying how she has the same interests and likes this or...
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    Mature women and scams

    Since I've stepped my dating life in the past several months I've encountered mature, stable career women who seem to get sucked in by scams. 3 so far. Once was selling MonaVie, another One24, now my date tonight tells me about this great thing shes doing called Visalus. I'm disappointed...
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    She knew my ex wife

    Had a lunch date with a hottie earlier this week, she is a pharma sales rep. Like most women who do pharma sales she was very attractive. This was our first meet n greet. Prior to this she initiated much contact and we had a flirty rapport. During lunch, against my better judgment I asked...
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    When a girl wants to meet your friends

    A few of the women that I am pursuing are the types who say "let's get a group of our friends together and go do such and such." Now I have friends but we don't go out and hang out at happy hours together or stuff like that. I have a few close friends that I get together with a couple times...
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    First date went maybe a little too well?!

    First date on Friday with a cutie I met online. The 2 weeks previous to the date we established great rapport, just clicked, effortless. Anticipation for the date was high. Kino through dinner, over drinks later we started making out. We drove to a park and in the rain started smashing...
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    Help with new girlfriend situation

    I started dating my gf the first week of May, so it's been 4 months. We met on pof. Instand rapport. Tons of fun whenever we were together. Lots of pda. She told me she loved me after 3 weeks. I am 43, she is 35. We each have 2 kids. All the kids have met each other as we have...
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    POF has been a goldmine but have a question....

    Pof.com has been awesome since I joined 5 weeks ago. 3 different in person meets so far, one of them multiple times, and a few more that I passed on, since I screened them out prior to meeting. Up to now I've been lucky that I could arrange the dates within a few days of exchanging messages...
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    Banging the ex - good idea?

    3 months ago I dumped my gf of 3 years (there's a buried thread about it in this forum). Gave her the speech, other than 2 visits to return her stuff it's been no contact - on my part. She contacted me a number of times to cry and bawl me out. Usually at 3am. 2 weeks ago she sent a...
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    Having "the talk" (breaking up with her)

    I need my balls reattached. I'm not feeling it anymore with my current gf and I want to be single again. But thinking about telling her has me choking on anxiety. We were together 3 years. She lived with me the last year, that went horribly - she moved back out. She wants things to be...
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    Dissing the dip - any success stories??

    I am on day 15 of kicking a 10 year Skoal habit. ****ing can a day. I'm staying strong but my mind is trying to trick me, sneaking thoughts that after 2 weeks it would be ok to just have a pinch. This is a health issue, tobacco use of any kind is a dangerous and nasty habit. Anyone here...
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    She moved in too soon...

    After 16 months of dating exclusively my gf moved in with me September 1. We had planned this out, thought we were ready but the living situation has not gelled. Too cramped, stepping all over each other, etc. Today she asked me if I would be mad if she got her own apartment again. I...
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    Stalker-riffic behavior from her ex!

    Guys help me out with any advice you got - I have an unusual problem! I have my own personal stalker. Is it some hot babe lusting after my bod? No, it's a broken down 46 year old drunk man. My girl's ex, to be exact. They were on the outs when she and I started dating, a year ago...
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    What do you eat for lunch?

    This is directed mainly toward those who work 8-5. I do, and I only bring snacks to work. For lunches I eat out way too much, which is fattening and expensive. I need to start bringing my own food to work, but have no idea of what to pack that's lean and healthy (and filling). What do...
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    My gf has an "internet boyfriend"

    This is fukked but then again I am dating an immature 'girl' 19 years younger than me (I am 40). We've been going out 6 months and live in the same town. My gf loves internet social networking sites - myspace, blackplanet, etc & etc. She's on those sites banging away on the keyboard every...
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    Sh!t test twelve o'clock!!!

    Hey all! I'm still hanging with the 20 year old from my 'cognitive dissonance' thread ( http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=126219 ) Things are just rocking with us and going great. So tonight we are arguing a bit over the phone about what time to meet up the next day. I want a...
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    Cognitive dissonance

    So I'm 39 and been hanging with someone 19 years younger than me for the last month. She is a hot black girl prone to wearing tight tank tops and boy shorts that show off that sweet ass, and she always smells heavenly. We fooled around to 3rd base on the night we met, and since then the only...
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