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I meet a girl a couple of weeks ago at a bookstore. It is cataloged in my approach journal over on the main discussion board. We make plans to meet up at Starbucks a few days later. She doesn't want to do alcohol because she is finishing up her antibiotics for strep throat. The Starbucks...

This seems to be a problem with the hotter girls. I regularly cold approach, and once every couple of months I get a date with a truly hot (as opposed to cute) girl. Plenty of cute girls to go around, but the 8s and more tricky to snag. Then it seems the likelihood of me screwing up is way...

Do any of you approach in the women's clothing department? Let's say I see a gorgeous thing in the women's clothing section of Marshall's or Ross or Target or a department store. I mean the kind of girl that is just gorgeous. But I just can't get my head in the proper place to walk up to a...

Situation "A": Let's say you meet a girl cold. A day or 2 later you contact her and set up a date. But alas, she is busy with work this week so today is a Saturday and you make plans for Thursday. Situation "B": Or let's say you have a first date with some other girl. All goes well, you...

With girls that are "hot," I have had this issue occur more than once in the last few months: great first date (ends in kissing or in one memorable instance a BJ in the parking lot outside the bar) and then for date #2 I invite them to my house to watch a movie, and they are game and they show...

I was on a first date last night. The waitress at the bar when she comes up to us says, "I know you from somewhere!" It turns out the waitress and I used to work together in a restaurant back when I was in college over 10 years ago. The waitress is super friendly, all smiles, etc. My dates...

What is up with women who don't say thank you? I have run into many women, as young as their early 20's and as old as mid-30's, who do not say "thank you" when you buy them a drink (whether coffee or alcohol) while on a date, or even if you buy them dinner (I do this only if we have been...

I'm 33. I like girls in their early to mid-20s. What do you guys do when they ask you your age? BTW, I never ask their age unless they ask first (i.e., never bring up the subject). I have tried lying, and have tried being honest. I know some people advocate for not answering, but I'm not...

I have gone on about 8 or so first dates in the last 2 months. They were all from cold approaches, and when I eventually ask someone out, I usually say something along the lines of, "Hey, are you free X night?" Then, if the answer is yes, I suggest (depending on the girl) either Starbucks or a...

I am happy with the progress I am making with my chest, abs, and triceps. However, my biceps fatigue and I experience muscle failure but they rarely get sore after a workout and have not experienced the same growth as my other muscles. What gives? Any recommendations?

Meet a girl last night at a bookstore. Had a nice conversation, etc. She is 20, I am 33, she does not know how old I am. She does not seem like a partier or anything. Is in town another week before going back to college for summer session. She easily gave up her number. I send a generic...

I was at a Starbucks tonight with a girl I met from a cold approach. It was our Day 2. The date girl was a 7. A girl walks in 5 min. after I get there (and after my date began) and was a 9. It was like punishment to sit there and see her all by her lonesome typing away on her netbook. I...

At Barnes and Noble today. Girl #1: Open her in the Self Help section. She is 30 or so, and during the sarge, can tell she realizes slowly she is actually meeting someone at a bookstore. She is smart, cute, and well educated. We talk culture, college, etc for about 10-15 min. Get her...

From time to time I have a girl counteroffer a first date suggestion with something like this: "Well, my friends and I have plans to go to Club XYZ. You can join us if you want." Every time I agree to something like this I kick myself afterward. I find it so much easier to have the girl...

This is an issue that came up tangentially in another thread... I have usually gone out on one or maybe two dates with a girl and then for the next date either invite her to my house for dinner (a nice home-cooked meal and a bottle of wine) or invite her to my house to watch a movie on DVD...

Met a girl on a cold bookstore approach. It wasn't fireworks from the get go, but wasn't awkward either. She is a college senior, I am 33. She doesn't know my age. Between her being out of town for Easter and and being busy with this and that, it took a while for our first date. We live...

I'm 33 and she is 24. I have been approaching lots of other chicks (have an approach journal over in the regular DJ Discussion Forum) with mixed results. I say this because this is not a oneitis situation. We were together for 7 months. We have been broken up since January. We sort of...

My sticking point: While I am a believer in cold approaches (my last LTR was from a cold approach and she was hot) sometimes I can't make the jump from the social guy asking an innocent question to a great conversation that demonstrates value. I need a consistent transition for times when I...

I am seeing a pattern. Boy meets girl. Boy gets number. Boy calls girl (regardless of whether it is 1, 2, 3, 5, etc days later). Boy gets voicemail. If boy leaves message, it is very likely girl will not return the call. BUT If boy follows up several days later with a text (I use...

I'm 32, most numbers will be from girls in mid-20s. Call or text for the first contact after getting a number on a cold approach, and why?