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While waiting for a flight at the airport I saw a really attractive girl walking into the terminal. She sat down and began to read a book. A few minutes later I moved over to her gate, sat down right across from her, and proceeded to read my own book. While "reading" my book, I was basically...

My life pattern has been: get a huge crush, get rejected, wait 5 years, get another huge crush, get rejected, repeat. The problem is that I'm only attracted to approximately one woman every 4-5 years. Sure, there are other women that I find sort of cute, but there's not that really strong...

I simply can't believe that getting a gf is this complicated. I've followed the DJ stuff -- I'm actually approaching and talking to men and women (more women) everywhere I go. Despite this, I've really not met any girls where I would've wanted to ask for their number, simply because I wasn't...

Don't delete this thread. Death is not really a Don Juan topic, but your view on death can certainly impact your view on life and romance. Just curious what you guys think. I think after death, it's just lights out. Just like going to sleep and never waking up. Nothing... Is that good...

I'll keep it brief. I want to know how I can overcome this problem. In 8th grade I had my first huge crush on a girl. I'm talking crush on a massive scale (thinking about her non-stop for years). The girl wasn't interested, and it took me until I was away at college to get over the crush...

I'm looking at myself and at the people on this board, and I'm seeing that getting a girlfriend is apparently a huge effort. I mean people here are in weeklong BOOTCAMP, then try for months asking girls out EVERYWHERE just to get a serious girlfriend. Come on. Everyone I know who has a...

I'm probably not alone here -- at 25, I'm beginning to feel pressure to find a GF. Especially since I haven't had one so far. I fear that once I hit 30, it will be very, very late to find someone. Think about it -- your 20's are supposed to be the best time of your life. That's why you're...

I went to the grocery store, all set to get at least one number. There was one girl I passed at least 5 times with my shopping cart. Each time I told myself, ok NOW I'm going to talk to her. But each time I wussed out cuz I didn't know what to say. How the FVCK can I fix this?? I was...

Ever since I can remember I've always been attracted to the girls I know I can't get. In college, several pretty good looking girls wanted me, but I rejected them. If I feel that I can get them, I lose interest. WTF. How do I fix this???

I've never been in a relationship, but I've had onenitis plenty of times. My question: is it possible to start a relationship with a chick who you DON'T have a total onenitis crush on, and then develop the onenitis feeling with her later? After all, onenitis is beautiful if it's the girl...

You'd think I should be happy with my situation. I've made a ton of progress since visiting this site. I've lost my inhibitions, I can ask out girls, and I'm pretty good at it. A few weeks ago I met a chick on a bus, got her number. Her and I went on a bike ride a few days later, and last...

I'm at the approach stage in the bootcamp. First of all, I have very little trouble talking to strangers, and I have pretty high confidence. I already talk to girls everywhere, so this is nothing new for me. Trouble is, I can't find any girls I'm actually *attracted* to when I'm out in...

After reading this forum and the DJ bible I became totally motivated to go out there and try a bunch of approaches to find a girlfriend. I'm actually pretty confident, and generally don't have problems talking to strangers. So last week, almost every night, I went out in my town to book...

I haven't used this yet, but I think it will work great. BEFORE USING THIS ONE YOU MUST ALREADY HAVE MADE EYE CONTACT WITH HER. Smile at her when you make eye contact. Make sure she smiles back. Only then proceed: Approach her and say "Hey, I think you're cute too..." At this point...