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I volunteer with a recently released sex offender. We were hanging out on the street the other day and I noticed him staring at all kinds of attractive women. I joked with him that if I were his partner, I would slap him. But seriously, I said, my sister has moved out of neighborhoods just based...

Most people on this forum teach that building attraction is the best way to succeed with women. And so, like good little Don Juans in training, most go out and focus entirely on building the girl's attraction to you. This is a good start. Attraction is obviously the first step toward any sort...

Why I believe cheating with a girl who has a bf can be ethical I actually heard this while visiting a single philosophy class Wisconsin University, about eight years ago. I never thought I would be discussing that course's content now. Anyway, here is the analogy the professor was also...

We sure do hear a lot on this board about what to do when we approach. The exact degree angle our smile should display, hands in or out of pockets. What to talk about, that attitude and the three second rule. But one topic that as far as I know no one has covered is what to do when you see a...

Any Coward Can Do This, Part 7: Recognize your brilliance The solution to approach anxiety offered by many on this board is: just approach. If you go out and approach and you succeed, which many do, then yes you will become more confident. It's worth a shot. But if you go out and can't...

We have all remarked that getting people to laugh, play, and have a good time is a key thing socially successful people often do. That's where this article throws us an interesting screwball. According to this article, laughter is more signal than reaction to wit. Think of two kids playing...

People should feel joy during the act of approaching or not do it at all. My job, the entire purpose of the Any Coward Can Do This series, is to make approaching fun, so that people WANT to approach - not for the benefits later, but for the joy of approaching right now. Here's part 6...

Part 5: Aim Higher: Picking up isn't hard The biggest mistake I see guys making on this site - and I see this over and over again - is these guys just aim too low. When I say this is a mistake, I don't mean an ethical mistake, a religious mistake, or that guys are hurting themselves in some...

Some important points I made last time: Have you ever noticed how often people say "use the three second rule", "force yourself to approach", "I know it's scary but push yourself, or "just do it." These are things you say to someone about to jump a barb wire fence. "But," they say, "have...

I imagine some people will find it difficult to talk about this topic in a serious and rational manner. Some will feel so ashamed or uncomfortable, they will resort to crude jokes or even insults against me. In all fairness, that's precisely what I would have done less than six months ago. But I...

Some important points I made last time: Part 3: The old adage says that we can afford to lose the battle so long as we win the war. In the same way, I can afford to lose any particular girl so long as I continue to become more attractive. It's not any particular girl that matters but my...

I would rather pick up a hot babe when I'm 100 pounds overweight, than with a six-pack. I would rather pick up a super model when I'm 100 pounds overweight than with a six-pack. Why? In the second case, I can never know if the girl is just using me for my body. Of course if I'm horny, I don't...

Some important points I made last time: ----------------------------------------------------------------------- Note: From now on, I do not give tips. I tell you what worked for me and what I like. It's up to you to draw a conclusion. But I believe that any coward can do this, and benefit...

Anybody can approach a girl at any time. Your legs, they work. Your mouth, it moves. Your voice, it talks. At the risk of repeating something you already know, the problem isn't needing more muscles, or a better wardrobe, or experience with ugly girls. The problem is entirely in your mind and...

I want to know, you PUA's, you DJ's, before you had confidence to approach... what changed? Why was it that one day you couldn't approach a girl, and the next you could? Did you jump from terrified of approaching to being able to approach any girl, any time? Was it a long process of...

All right, to catch you up from last time. I went on a few dates with this one girl. It went pretty well, but basically she's about to get friend-zoneded. Fair's fair. Problem is, she introduced me to her friend who is cute and I saw her eyeing me. Fair's fair. They work together. I'm...

Well, I went on two dates in the past two days. Girl One: I'm just not attracted to this girl. She was looking pretty hot yesterday, but I dunno, there's something weird or awkward. I'm going to friend zone (the first cute girl of my life!) I mean, my standards are too high, but I'm not...

One day last week, I was wearing my Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles t-shirt. I love this t-shirt - I don't care if it's an objective babe-magnet - since I think it's a babe-magnet, it is one. Anyway, I'm wearing my dorky t-shirt, and a this hot chick from my choir who I have been vainly wishing, as...

Damn it damn it damn it. Well, I hate to inveigh once again another stream of words among the bustle and shout of the sosuave community, so I'll keep this short. Theoretically, I want sex. A lot. I'm a man after all. But the idea of actually having sex like some guys do, having sex with a girl...

Why does the site block the word o-u-t-w-a-r d, like ******dly? I suggest two stickies: - A sticky for Don Juan Bible editing ideas. Nobody knows who to direct their ideas to, and there are a lot of articles far better than those in the bible. Thee articles die from the lack of direction...