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I was originally not going to write about this because it seemed like just a simple SNL ONS, but upon further reflection I realized that there might not be a lot of LRs that demonstrate one of the key themes here. I was hanging out at one of my favorite bars with a casual atmosphere. It was a...

Asking this to research for an article. Has anyone here been in a situation where your girlfriend or wife gained any significant weight after getting comfortable in your LTR or marriage, but was able to successfully get in shape again? Why and how did she do it? Did you play any part in that?

I was talking with a dude who said there was a female coworker who kept touching him, playfully hitting him, etc. It was clear from his story that she was flirting with him. However, he said he wasn't so sure because she called him a "red flag" before. Logically, in his male brain, red flag =...

I matched with a really nice HB who happened to be very interested in the idea of polyamory (I am poly). I super-liked her without knowing she was poly, too. She seemed to fit everything that I was looking for: didn't mind that I was already in a relationship, very physically attractive, T&A for...

I just made this video for beginners/newbies trying to get a handle on these skills:

He probably has no idea that these are the same things taught by PUAs, though

When I joined this forum 20 years ago, sh!t was really different. The men here were talking about getting girls and being seducers and lovers. Like Don Juan DeMarco. Like the character played by Johnny Depp in the movie. The population here today seems really different, though. The general...

New BroScienceLife just dropped :lol:

When I used to write for... a certain large website in the men's dating niche that is not sosuave.net... around 2017/2018, a couple of pieces I wrote were rejected because "the format and mood of the series are quite different from the typical [website name] content" according to the editor. To...

I don't always write FRs/LRs, but when I do, it's to highlight certain concepts or techniques. This happened a few months ago. Leadership and community building. These are important things that will make you more attractive, and will open a lot of doors for you. One day, a friend and I decided...

Many years ago, I was having a conversation with Gunwitch (known for his Gunwitch Method back in the old days of the PUA community) and I asked him what he thought the next big seduction method was going to be. For context, during that time, there were trends in the seduction community based on...

I wanted to make a new thread about this since the other one is full of weird incel sh!t that hurts my eyes to read. It seems that some other folks here don't understand the value of having female friends, and some struggle to make female friends even if they understand the value. The former...

I want to get an idea of the demographics here these days in terms of where you all are in your DJ journey. EDIT: I wanted to edit the second option to say "but I still have some sticking points I'm working on or don't understand yet" so pretend it says that lol

Alright, since the era of blogging is pretty much dead I guess I'll just post whatever I want to ramble about here. We all know that one guy who loves being negative and talks sh!t about everything. He appears to be confident because he unabashedly criticizes everything as if he's above it all...

This was one of the first ever (or maybe the first ever) forums I joined about seduction or PUA. I became more active on various other sites and was even the top mod on one of the biggest ones at the time. They're all absolutely dead now. I didn't think any PUA communities existed anymore...

Assuming that it doesn't come from a position of neediness or desperation, does a man's expression of pure and uninhibited desire for the woman he is interacting with emotionally transfer to her own feelings, causing her to essentially feel the same way about him? The chapter about "The Rake" in...

Imagine a fat chick going on a healthy diet and exercising regularly as she loses weight to become more attractive to the opposite sex. Everyone she knows compliments her all the time for her valiant effort. Once she actually gets hot, she gets way more attention from men and people shower her...

i just moved here for college (tulane university)

Ok so I tried sarging this 2 set but for some reason I couldn't gather the balls to do it I have NO problems sarging when i'm inebriated WTF? Does anyone have any ideas on how I can get the same fearlessness of approach when I'm sober as if I had a couple drinks? It's not the fear of...

Last year, i went to this summer camp at Stanford University called EPGY and took this Music Theory thing. I met a girl there, and we "fell in love." Things were perfect, blah blah blah, you know, the usual infatuated AFC crap...but we were both convinced that we were "in love." The problem: She...