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    Embarrassing bad habit....

    Trying to get back in the game after a year hiatus being in an LTR. A bad habit I picked back up has been talking too much. I naturally want to dominate the conversation and maybe in a group setting or with guys its ok but I forget to tone it down when I'm in a date setting. Don't get me...
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    I just need to let go, be happy, and have fun.....

    I had an epiphany as I was falling asleep. I've been freaking miserable the past few weeks down on my luck with the opposite sex. I've been trying to readjust back to single life after an extremely volatile 1-year relationship. And finally tonight....it hit me. Been so focused on the...
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    If a woman is too "easy" are we implying she didn't charge enough?

    Why do guys scoff at prostitution (payment for sex) and women who won't put out by the third date but then when dealing with a woman actually offers herself without the dating quid pro quo....we bash her for being a slvt, too easy, must have done this with a bunch of other guys. If she puts...
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    America: Freedom or Equality?

    I read something on the Bodybuilding R/P forum which struck a huge chord with me. http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=142729271&page=2 "Once I learned what the US really was, a proto-communist revolution, I realized I was living in its failure where it never really got off the...
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    Sh*t test? F*ck your sh*t test.

    So I was chatting up this girl from okcupid which reminded me again why I won't put up with stupid b.s. from anyone. This fairly attractive girl viewed my profile. She was a single mother and I figured heck why not get a conversation going. Me: You pulled a fire alarm? You're such a badass...
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    Regional Differences in Women?

    Do they exist? Or are women the same all around the country? I've noticed with women where I live (Deep south) is they are very reserved and unapproachable in public. Typically they prefer to meet guys through their social circle, work or school. Dating or hanging out with strangers seems to...
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    What hookup culture?? More like Generation Scold

    http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2010/04/generation_scold.html
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    My honesty lost the girl

    So I met up with this girl for a second date. She was very attractive and fun to talk to....but I'm simply not at a point in my life where I want anything serious with anyone right now. So we go back to my place, have a few drinks...and I plant a few kisses on her but she's definitely not moving...
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    No Such Thing as "Good Old Days"

    A common theme I'm noticing here is this belief that we as a society are on some sort of "decline" whether it be moral, economic, inter-gender, family. Everyone yearns for the "good old days" as if it were some sort of "Leave it to Beavr" utopia. While I won't deny that we are going through a...
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    Why is our culture is so obsessed with monogamy....

    Yet despite this our divorce rate is 50% and majority of relationships end in a break-up? How is someone who jumps from one monogamous relationship to another, leaving behind a string of broken and bitter hearts, any different or better of a person than a man/woman in a long-time relationship...
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    "A Man is Only as Faithful as His Options"

    How many of you guys think this quote is true? I hear a lot of guys proclaim how they would never cheat on their wives/girlfriends....yet I wonder how many of them actually have the opportunity to cheat on a consistent basis and "choose" not to? It's pretty easy to stay faithful when you're...
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    Difference between "Open Relationship" vs. "F*ck buddies"

    I see a lot of advice thrown around that advocates something like this: "If you want to go out with a girl you like and still screw other girls, then you should be honest about your intentions from the beginning and agree to have an open relationship." This statement is so asinine and...
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    Picking the right day/time to go to clubs.....

    I have two questions for my fellow club DJs. I went to a popular club north of Atlanta last Friday. I was able to take home a chick easily that night. I tried the same club again this past week on a saturday night, which is generally the "party" night for most people and therefore more packed...
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    "The Good Guy" is overrated. Being a jerk is the way to go.

    Whenever I read an article/thread about jerks vs. nice guys....it always talks about taking a middle-of-the-road approach "Don't be a insecure jerk but don't be a pushover nice guy, be the confident good guy that all women crave" I find that in practice, this did not translate into women...
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    Man, I just give up on this whole thing

    I am honestly done with trying to get women, "spin plates", be a DJ. Why does the simple biological act of a man and a woman having sex have to be so complex, subject to 1000s of do's and don'ts, require so much time, money, and effort all to then have to put up with a bunch of flaking...
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    "Sexual State" leading to sex=LMR/buyers remorse?

    I think "sexual state" gets way too much credit here. From my experience, sexual state can lead to some kind of action but does not mean the girl is attracted to you. Gunwitch summed it up in one of his posts. You will more likely to fool around/have sex with a average lookin/plain jane if...
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    Guidelines for prepping meals in advance?

    I am going to get my diet in order and i understand the importance of preparing your meals ahead of time so that you dont get stuck w/o food and a trip to the vending machine or fast food joint. One of my concerns is food spoilage. I do have a deep freezer but I do not know how to properly...
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    If She's Attracted....

    Im gonna put this out here, nothing revolutionary, in fact its common sense but a lot of guys here still dont get it. A girls level of attraction is directly proportional to how aggressive/forward/blunt you can act around her. I find it best to first guage the girls attraction towards you...
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    My testosterone levels...

    I just got my results in for my T-Levels. 594 ng/dl Free test- 105.1 tg/ml These are all within normal range...300-1200 ng/dl. But I am a little concerned about it being on the lower to average side. Im only 19 shouldnt it be higher? will this affect my strength gains? (bulking next week)
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    Emergence of Modern-day harems?

    Written by Tyler Durden PUA A secret society exists. Around 52% of people on this earth are a part of it. Of that 52%, 50% are women, 2% are men. Of that 2%, 1% of those men are gay, the other 1% are players. What I'm talking about is the sex secret society - and you are either *IN*...
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