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    Lonely girls on Facebook "joking" about being lonely on Valentines day...

    How would you respond to one of these posts for example? : Wondering what all the playa's in the house think. :)
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    My roommate is now dating a girl I had interest in...

    This situation just seems so stupid but I need to make sure I get over this quickly and move the hell on because it's bothering me when I really think it shouldn't. As you read on I can understand it might come off in a "wussified" tone but I'm just going off of my recent emotional memory here...
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    Can't gain muscle without gaining fat? Truth?

    Last year I was able to achieve a good amount of fat loss over a period of 3 months by lifting weights 3 days a week (Mon-back/bi, Tue- chest/tri, Fri-legs) and incorporating at least 40 minutes of cardio 3-4 times a week along with a calorie monitored diet (1500-1900 calories a day). This...
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    Yeah, I need some help on this one...

    I feel like I've been on here long enough to answer this myself but I need some help on this one. This girl I've known a little over two years has a birthday coming up and I'm wondering if I should send her a card or something to wish her a happy birthday. I'll be in Jamaica (solo soul...
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    Stomach muscles cramp after ab/crunch exercises....

    I recently started working on my stomach muscles three weeks ago and have noticed after each session my stomach muscles cramp up. Although it's pretty uncomfortable it's not severe cramping. I'm not sure if it has to do with my water intake or frequency of exercising but I would like to...
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    Shoulder pain during bench/incline and lat pulldowns...

    I've been working out for about a month and a half now and the more I keep trucking along I think "no wonder why so many people are out of shape, this stuff is hard." Anyway my ideal plan includes running in the mornings and 3 sessions of lifting at the gym per week and on chest day I'm noticing...
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    Jogging: Which is better? Gravel or Pavement?

    I've been running for a month now and during that time I had some knee problems. I was advised to get some good running shoes versus the el cheapo ones I bought in the first place and it really helped my knees out. Also I've started taking a glucosamine supplment pack to go along with that. I...
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    2 years...

    I'm not sure where I'm going with this but I just had to get something off my chest that I'm embarrassed to admit. About two years ago I met this girl through a friend and when I met her I thought she was the most gorgeous girl I'd ever seen. She lives out of town so whenever she comes into town...
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    No TV or Stereo in the bedroom. Is that a problem?

    I recently moved to a new place and now my computer which doubled as a TV/Stereo is in another room since the bedroom is too small for my desk and computer. Having that computer in the bedroom always worked well for me since it has a good sound system and it was easy to sit and watch movies on...
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    She forgot my birthday....

    I had my birthday last week and what surprised me is that several of my closest friends, my brother and one of my sisters didn't call me that day. I was honestly upset about that but I stayed quiet and let it pass and decided I wouldn't hold any grudges on them. As the week went on the belated...
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    Books recommended by the "gurus." Do you try to read them all?

    I've been listening to and re-reading David DeAngelo's materials for about 3 years now and because of him I've acquired a multitude of books over time. I've noticed while listening to and reading material from other dating "gurus" they also mention a lot of books for their students to read. How...
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    When she jokes about having small boobs....

    Here's something I just couldn't figure out anywhere and this has happened a few times this year and most recently last night. I was out with a girl who looks pretty damn good and somehow we were talking about strip clubs and she said "yeah, I couldn't work there unless I get $10,000 for my...
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    How would you respond to this e-mail response?

    It might be lame posting this here but I wanted to see what you guys could come up with. Backstory... I met this true brunette HB9 through a friend when we went out clubbing and I pretty much teased her the whole night and left it at that. She wanted some pictures I took that night so I decided...
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    Dealing with challenges from other men...

    One of my good friends is a pretty loud and outspoken guy and over the weekend we were at a get together and I was noticing interactions and things like that. I noticed that in a loud joking way he'd tell people "shut the fukk up." For example this guy was trying to tell a joke and my frined...
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    After 11 months, ex says she wants to meet up...

    This is kinda funny because she was the reason I came to this site. My thread about it: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=65933 Anyway her test message said she wanted to see how I was doing and meet up sometime if that was OK. Sure it's OK but it's just weird...
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    How would you effectively respond to this test?

    I have a very attractive fitness trainer (HB 9+) that I have training sessions with and the cool thing about it is that not only am I getting in shape, but I'm learning how to communicate effectively with beautiful women. Since I attempt to flirt, be ****y and funny and tease her, she throws...
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    How do I respond to compliments from girls....

    It looks like I still have alot to learn and I've come to the realization that I don't know how to effectively deal with compliments from girls. I've been at a store and a cute cashier would say "OMG you have really pretty eyes" or "you have a nice smile" and I'm usually taken back because I'm...
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    Eye contact with a woman when she's with another man...

    I've been working on developing the habit of keeping eye contact with girls until they smile or look away and now it's starting to come natural to me. Sometimes I have to consciously think of it like when I'm at work, a gorgeous female is walking down the hall...I make sure to look, keep eye...
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    FR: My first public approach...

    This is nothing spectacular but it's the very first time I've approached a girl in public and conveyed my interest in her. I've noticed that there are beautiful women everywhere and from what I've heard it's easier to pick up women out of the club scene than in. Again, this is nothing...
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    Being in shape and game with women...

    So I just got home alone and what I noticed tonight down on 6th street Austin is that the girls seem to respond to guys who have the good looks and are in shape. Keep in mind I'm not talking about guys who are only muscled up and stuff but guy who seem to have no gut or in the slim category...
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