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    Reasons To Remain Friendly After Rejection?

    I took all your advice and got my butt busy the last few weeks. Asked out 3 different women in addition to the one I was writing endlessly about. I crashed and burned but am ok with it. I have come to realize its not a big deal. That being said all 3 of these women still want to be friendly...
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    Trainer Wont Give Up

    I know I was friend zoned. Duh on me. I am done. Thats fine. Now that you explained it to me that I am the pet puppy I get it.
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    Trainer Wont Give Up

    I got this email from her yesterday. What is the point of this. Its like a train wreck you cant stop watching. I cut her off on Friday and have not spoken to her since. I accept she is not interested. But why does she care? Is it the $$ (I am paying $20/session which is nothing and she...
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    Glass 1/2 Full/Empty, Zen & Indifference

    Article On This Site: Zen & Chicks http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/hall231.htm Zen and Chicks by GiveMePoontang "What is Zen?" you may be thinking right now. Or possibly "How can Zen help me score?" Regardless of what you’re thinking, I guarantee that applying Zen to your life will...
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    The Cell phone/Facebook generation

    I Helped Design/Implement This Technology - Big Mistake I helped design and implement this technology. I used to work in a fairly prestigious laboratory in this country. We used to grind out patents like there was no tomorrow. Mobile technology and all this texting was invented here. The sick...
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    What to do when a female friend rejects you?

    I Would Like To Know Myself I kind of just went through this and I was totally beta. I cut off contact but she is pestering me about talking to her. Not sure what the answer is...
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    Glass 1/2 Full/Empty, Zen & Indifference

    Here is something I have been thinking about for a long time. I read this once - how you feel about a particular event or item is largely determined by how you react to it with your emotions. In other words your reaction/emotions control how you feel. Instead of letting it be that way, why...
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    No Contact After The Friends Speech?

    I guess I am slow ;)
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    No Contact After The Friends Speech?

    My previous trainer helped me drop 45lbs and she was a woman. I am pretty fit now but you can always be more fit.
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    No Contact After The Friends Speech?

    I agree with you on this. Totally.
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    No Contact After The Friends Speech?

    You can slam on me. I can take it, its the only way people learn :trouble: . You do have a valid point though about leaving. Why should I leave, I have lots of friends there. I guess the key is indifference. What would happen if I hired another trainer now? What would you say about...
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    No Contact After The Friends Speech?

    My Definition of Flirting My definition of flirting includes the following: *teasing/playful *eye contact *laughing *playing hard to get *positive body language *touching She did all of this and more. How about emails that I made her smile and how it brightened her day when she saw...
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    No Contact After The Friends Speech?

    I hear what you are saying but I am not talking about the earlier threads. After she backed off so did I. Duh, I know asking about a restaurant is not flirting. I am dense but not that dense. She came on gangbusters a few weeks ago. After not talking, she came over to talk to me and would...
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    No Contact After The Friends Speech?

    You guys are right me being a putz. I admit. After the last time I backed off and than she came on like gangbusters. She only wanted one thing - $$$. Go vacuum the dollars from someone else. BTW, my trainer whom is a woman warned me about her. She said be very careful, she knows I am leaving...
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    No Contact After The Friends Speech?

    A while back a trainer at the gym started flirting with me. My trainer who is a woman said watch out, all she wants is to take you as a client. Anyway it continued and I was thinking about backing off on her. And than she was really cold to me and I just backed off. Than a few weeks later it...
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    Women & Texting Is Out Of Control

    I dont freaking get it, everywhere you go women are texting. What is up with this now? Am I am imagining it or is are women far more addicted to it than men? I think its a major disruption when you try to talk to them as they are paying attention to their cell phones and not the people...
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    Ignoring Her After She Ignored Me

    What is a war-pig? What is floating around in demon territory?
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    Ignoring Her After She Ignored Me

    You are probably right. Ironically I have another plate going. And this one I am totally detached about it. Its messed up. The only thing I can say for a fact is she doesnt know because now I am not talking to her. No hovering or orbiting ;) .
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    IL Dropped, I Backed Off Now What

    Belittling is good motivation for me to keep ignoring her. You are right, I am not talking to enough women.
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    Ignoring Her After She Ignored Me

    Well it basically went like this a few weeks when she was still talking. She was standing on the end of the treadmill talking my ear off. Than they pulled her away. That was a Thursday. I didnt see her on Friday. The following week was when the other stuff started. Ignoring me while texting...
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