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    People believe what you tell them to believe...

    Here's an even easier way to think about this... Next time you see a hot chick, don't think of her as a hot chick. Instead, imagine that she's another one of those ugly fat chicks who wants to get into your pants badly and normally you would be disgusted. HOWEVER, you'll give her the time of...
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    People believe what you tell them to believe...

    I was on this site a long time ago, and now that I'm looking at some of the posts, I think I was a little too advanced for the masses. No worrys though, this can easily be fixed. Eye contact and everything like kino and all that are helpful, but ultimately completely useless unless you have...
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    i need help

    One, don't let a store manager bother you. Yeah, she's going along with it to get you jealous and to make you know that she can get hit on. Girls do this all the time. Ignore it, and ignore her. And if it really bothers you that much go and talk to other girls in the office or wherever it is...
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    About Women From Someone Who Knows About Women

    A follow up... Also, for all of you who believe that women are natural Don Juans or whatever you call them, you're WRONG. Women are just as (if not, more) clueless about men then men are about women. Just don't be a f+cking moron. If you keep that in mind, you don't even need a lot of...
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    About Women From Someone Who Knows About Women

    I live in a house with four other women, and let me tell you, I have gotten many new perspectives and realizations on women... the vast majority are a little scary. (1) When a woman says that she's a lesbian and ONLY likes women, that's not always true. (2) Compliments get you very far...
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    Girl Fight (The Complete Saga)

    Being from NYC, women there can be pretty pushy. You really have to be the one with the control, otherwise you'll be walked all over by them. The best way I have of handling them is to just ignore and drop contact with anyone who tries to push me around. But at the same time, you need to be...
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    The natural order of things - Sexuality defined and explained!

    Gonzalo, Don't waste your time, it's really not worth it... I believe that while common sense should be common, most people do not have it. Our unenlightened friend here is an angry old man from a lonely part of the world -- that's that. Why is he angry might you ask? Well he's old...
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    What do you do when you can't find someone like you

    Sometimes the person most like you is the person who seems to be your complete opposite. The girl I'm with first seemed to be someone I would never be compatible with EVER. I'm generally come off as a little quiet and contemplative, she's someone who comes off as loud and spontaneous. But the...
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    How to be hot

    Just go shopping with women. Women love to dress guys up and you're immediately buying what at least one woman finds attractive. It's worked for me; some things that I would normally think are the dumbest looking things in the world have gotten me really nice compliments. Also, if you can, go...
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    What is up with hot babes with low esteem?

    Here's the reason why this woman is insecure - she's an actress. Being an actor or actress is one of the hardest jobs to do. The general statistic for actors is that 99% of the time they are looking for jobs. Once in a while you will get a great gig, but the rest of the time you are going to...
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    how do we kino those shy girls?

    Kinoing someone is something that should come naturally to you. It's a tough when you're a beginner at it, but once you start doing it, it's something that gets easy really fast. Really, the only thing that really ruins it is if you're afraid when you do it. Fear, in my opinion, is perhaps...
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    Signs of that a woman is a Playerette

    What's wrong with a "playerette"? Their perfect because there's no strings attached, and you should use them the same way they plan to use you. Just don't fall for one and you'll be fine. And it is not true by any means that 99% of all women have game and no how to use it. I have no idea...
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    Dcfball Macks the Chick from My Big Fat Obnoxious Fiance

    Ok, I do think dcfball getting Randi's phone number is highly dubious, but he does have a point. I work in the film industry, and a lot of it is just an illusion. You do a lot of work with your camera angles, lense exposures, make-up and lighting to make your actors/actresses look amazing...
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    Bicurious Trend Among White Chicks

    Mysterwoman, I think you're going a little overboard with all this. I do think that women like a man who dresses a little, we used to make fun of my best friend in High School that he looked like a girl physically, but in the end he was the one that got the most women. However, I don't think...
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    Gay guy thinks I'm hot!

    You know, someone who really makes it a point to talk about how much they dislike gays really makes me suspicious. It is a statistic that most homophobes (around 3/4 of them) are ACTUALLY GAY. In every post that I have read by PuertoRicanLover, he talks about how much of an abomination it is...
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    Guys I am going to snap...

    Hey man, I know what it is like to be angry. I was more or less angry several years back, not to the level of having torturing and killing fantasies, but very, very angry nonetheless. I can understand what your going through. I think your biggest problem is that you just have so much...
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    Sexuality is on my Mentality!!! Advice anyone?

    Spoken like a true prodigy Pook, I couldn't have put it in better words myself. I now know why people on this site keep talking about you. I would even go so far to say that eye contact is the single most important thing to be good at if anything. Touching is just physical, but eye contact...
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    Ladies and gentleman.....Introduction and pic of me included.

    What the f*ck is this sh*t? This post and most of the responses really show how classy some of you are… This is a guy who actually took the time and effort to animate (I’ve done animation before and it takes countless hours, even for something as crappy as this) his face to tell people...
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    Whoa...fat chicks are digging me?!?!

    Hey, I say go for a fat chick. I haven't been with one before, and now I'm a little curious. You can't go through life without trying everything at least once. And hey, maybe it will great. What is pleasing to the eye and pleasing to the touch are often different. Don't listen to people...
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    Pupil dilation

    Alright, you can look at pupils if you want to. But the point is that there is way to too much introspection and thinking going on here. Has it ever happened to you that you were by yourself and you thought about things waaay too much when in reality, things weren't that complicated? Well...
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