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  1. SteR

    A moral dilemma - not sure how to proceed

    Recently I met a girl at a friend's social event. There was a bit of chemistry when we first met but unfortunately I had to leave for another occasion and never got to talk to her. I met her later at another lunch. Got to know her a bit and she ended up asking my for my details. Flash forward...
  2. SteR

    Marriage and sex

    So I was out playing golf with a buddy of mine and he randomly mentioned he wasn't on the best of terms with his wife at the moment - they've been married for ~10 years or so. Apparently since the kids were out of the house for the weekend the wife had promised him sex during that time. The...
  3. SteR

    The alpha/beta scenario.. but with women

    I was thinking about the situation with women, and their dilemma with having to choose between alphas/betas and the blend in between, and I realised that men actually have same problem with girls: The madonna/***** complex. Both ultimately want the 2 roles combined, both struggle with the...
  4. SteR

    To the women of sosuave..

    I remember reading somewhere in the book of Pook I think, that women fear missing out on the great catch? There's also talk of the best revenge being living a good life etc. But it just got me thinking. is there any truth to that? Have any of you passed up a guy only to regret doing so later...
  5. SteR

    Abundance and lingering feelings

    So I ended a brief relationship with a girl a good ~6 months ago and I hate to admit it, but I still suffer from bouts of sadness when I dwell on how things ended with her. Since that time I've been involved with other girls, but nobody else has even come close to the quality of this girl. The...
  6. SteR

    Failed relationship analysis - I'd like to know if I screwed up?

    So a few months ago I met someone while living abroad. Things got off to a great start and I tried going over to her country for a bit to see if I could make things work (original thread here...
  7. SteR

    The scarcity mindset and quality women

    It's been said a lot on these forums that men need to get rid of the scarcity mentality with women, and while I wholeheartedly agree, I'm not sure how this works with quality women. The problem is that quality women are a lot scarcer (or at least they appear to be in my life). It's relatively...
  8. SteR

    Dating multiple women?

    I was just re-reading the Book of Pook and came across one of the 'commandments' about always having a back-up chick - it got me thinking. Usually if I'm seeing multiple girls, there's always one that is clearly superior. When I come across someone of that calibre it's very difficult for me to...
  9. SteR

    I'm in a tricky situation - would appreciate some outside perspective

    So I started seeing a girl while I was living in a different country. We were only together a few weeks but we seemed to click and everything was great for the time we were together. I've had to return to my home country temporarily but I'm frantically trying to sort out getting work back there...
  10. SteR

    A moral dilemma? What's the best course of action here?

    So a couple of years go, I used to work at a place with a lot of beautiful women. One of the girls in particular was legitimately the most beautiful girl I've ever seen in person. We jokingly flirted at work a little and as I was finishing up my time at the job, I asked her out for drinks...
  11. SteR

    Unwritten rules with friends

    For as long as I can remember, there's always been an unwritten rule with my friends that once one of us hooks up with a girl, she's off limits unless otherwise specified. In fact if I'm honest, I've always assumed that this was pretty much an innate rule among all men. So a while ago, I got...
  12. SteR

    Alpha/Beta - can there ever be an ideal balance?

    People are always talking about alpha ****s, beta bucks etc but I've always believed there can be a happy medium ie. You can behave with enough dominant, masculine behaviour yet still be kind and caring towards your partner. My parents have remained faithful their entire marriage (as far as I...
  13. SteR

    Bros before hoes - where do you draw the line?

    It's a phrase I've heard thrown around quite a lot and personally it's something I try to adhere to in my life. The only problem is I had a situation arise in the last couple of days that made me question whether I took it too far. Basically I was away on a new years trip with a couple of...
  14. SteR

    To the guys who have set up a business before..

    A friend of mine approached me a while back asking about forming a company with him. I've known this guy for a few years and I'd say we're decent friends now. The only problem is when we first met he did something shady that, while forgiven, has left a nasty splinter in the back of my mind (he...
  15. SteR

    How would you handle this situation?

    So I was just watching the Wolf of Wall Street and this scene came up in the film: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gb1HrBCVOCU I just wondered how you guys would handle this situation? If a guy is clearly showing interest in a girl you're with (like DiCaprio is here), what would you do?
  16. SteR

    Being a parent and your daughter's friends

    So I'm watching the film 'American Beauty' and it's got me thinking.. How do you guys that are parents to daughters cope with being around her friends? I've always wondered this actually, even when younger. I can't imagine your attraction to beautiful young women fades as you get older.. so I...
  17. SteR

    Holly Madison (one of hef's playboy girls)

    This article popped up on facebook: http://www.buzzfeed.com/kateaurthur/holly-madison-burns-it-down?bffb&utm_term=4ldqpgp#.kxoy4Y0KG What I found most interesting was something she said during the interview: “I call myself a born-again feminist,” she said. “I can’t call myself a feminist...
  18. SteR

    Quality over quantity?

    I was just having a casual read over a moderately well-known PUA's blog. The guy obviously seems to know what he's talking about and I don't doubt the man gets laid often. He was talking about how many notches he'd racked up and at one point he'd posted a few pictures of the girls he'd hooked up...
  19. SteR

    Cash and prizes 20 years AFTER divorce

    I'm quite surprised nobody has mentioned this yet... http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-31832667 What on earth is this world coming to? :confused:
  20. SteR

    Thoughts on a situation in a club

    I figured I'd make this thread just to get some insight from others. I'm interested to hear what other people think of the situation. I was in a club in Vegas a while ago and there were a couple of girls standing by the bar. They were clearly single (constantly looking around). One of them...
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