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    Buying a home when you're single?

    I have been renting ever since I left college - I am turning 36 now still single, without a home. I have the means to buy a home, but it seems like a bad decision from a social perspective. I currently live in Manhattan (NYC) paying about $2800 for an oversized studio, pulling in about...
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    Can you tell if a woman is looking at you as a safe option vs a high value option?

    I live in NYC. While ago met a woman that lives in my area. Ivy league educated, very high profile career, has the "happy" gene, blonde, "stacy" type. She's in great shape and has plenty of attractive friends - she herself is pretty attractive. Few years younger than myself and I'm in my mid...
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    Are you ever intrigued by the power of long eye contact?

    The eyes don't lie, so they say. It's nothing new for me, but I think back on women I was speaking to in the initial stages back in the day and how prolonged our eye contact was. Even with women that I wasn't involved with, exact same thing. I'm generally a very "primal" person and believe...
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    Is it worth getting into the tech field at my age?

    It boggles my mind the kinds of compensation these tech people are making. Double digit bonuses, double digit sign on bonuses, RSUs, massive salaries, etc. I've been in the power engineering field for nearly 12 years now and turning 36 this year, I don't see much more upside. I am currently...
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    People on the street in major cities that try to sell you something

    If you live in a major city like NYC you will encounter the occasional guy on the street trying to get you to take a survey, sell you something, or otherwise stop you while you're trying to get somewhere. For whatever reason the past few weeks I've been stopped by a few black guys on the...
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    Was oddly ignored by a younger girl. What gives??

    I'm 35 but look much younger - moved into a new apartment building a while ago. Our floor decided to have a dinner with a few of the people on the floor invited. We decided to wait at the elevator at the time of the dinner so we could walk there together. Anyways - it was supposed to be five...
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    How is it that some people have such a grandiose/certain view of their future?

    Was thinking back to an old friend of mine, probably my best friend. Asked him for career advice one day and he told me: "Think about where you want to be at the end of your career and work backwards to get there." That advice messed with my head for a long time and to this day (that was 10...
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    Have you ever been thirst trapped in conversation?

    Just thinking back to this older woman I conversed with on a flight a while back. She was saying she lived nearby to my suburb (this was false), that her husband travelled for work, etc. What's their impression of you when you don't fall for any of it? I just remember thinking to myself - this...
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    Do you care if a woman is with you more for your looks rather than who you are?

    Do women like you for who you are as a person, or your looks? Does it even matter?
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    At what point does money become irrelevant?

    I have been looking at friends of mine who are in pretty high positions. Account Director, Chief of Product, Vice President @ Investment Bank, etc. These guys live in SF or NYC and their salaries are all $300-$500k. Meanwhile I'm working remotely making a mere $175k in comparison. We are all...
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    Do you ever think that the best path in life is getting married young and poor?

    Have been thinking after learning the story of a couple I met recently. They were 29 & 22, husband and wife, when they immigrated to the US in the 90s. Most likely an arranged marriage. They started out relatively low income - but became rich within 10 years. By their mid 30s they were upper...
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    How do you get someone out of a high inhibition mindset?

    Good friend of mine (and yes, it really is a friend, not me) has a problem where he only "sticks to the script" so to speak. We go out every now and then and I notice that he's very serious with everyday people like cashiers, waitresses, customer service reps, etc. He's afraid to crack jokes...
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    When people say they want to learn "game"

    I see people that want to daygame for example, or nightgame. In the end this means going up to women for a few minutes and trying to get their number, then go out with them later. They aren't really learning anything beyond eliminating their approach anxiety, becoming quick on their feet, and...
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