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    Expats To The Philippines

    "Before we married mommy served in the WACS in the Philippines..." I have no info for you. Just felt like quoting Cheap Trick. But here is my most important question about any country, answered: https://brilliantmaps.com/flush-toilet-paper/
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    Boring Sex with your GF / How to make it work?

    Find a side piece. Or at least go out and flirt. She'll turn up the heat.
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    Emergency Fund Destroyed. Back to the Side Hustles?

    I didn't read every post on the thread - if you are making 120k how much debt are we talking about? Are you able to join a credit union? I was able to transfer high interest CC debt to a lower interest loan via my credit union. They're nonprofit and have competitive rates (also for autos etc)...
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    Emergency Fund Destroyed. Back to the Side Hustles?

    If you are referring to a mortgage then yes, by all means take your time. Some mortgages even penalize for fast payment. A small business loan or student loan might be another example where patience pays. Other than that most personal debt should be paid quickly. I don't know the % for an auto...
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    Gated Communities

    I can't say for sure but to me it's just a status flex. I had a friend in h.s. whose family moved into one. They were already wealthy-ish in a nice McMansion neighborhood but "moved on up" anyway to a posher one. The first (and only) time I visited him I had to be buzzed in from outside the...
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    How many of you actually go out every weekend to approach and talk to women?

    I never go out for the sole purpose of approaching women. I go out and while I'm out I talk to whomever I want. Usually includes attractive young women. I'm in a LTR so it's just an exhibition game for me. But usually once per week.
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    How to act with female friends?

    Haven't any of you dudes ever ****ed a female friend? It's not difficult to do and neither is settling back to platonic friendship. Usually it's women who say it doesn't work out but their actions say different. Not saying it should be a strategy but a player is always ready for a woman in need...
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    How to act with female friends?

    I handle same way I do my guy friends. See them once in a while to break up my quality time with myself.
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    What's all the hate with the travel bros?

    My point is the same guys believe that women from other eras were somehow better. So place means nothing but time changes everything. Anyway I don't think that anyone is better based on where they are from. It comes down to the individual in question. I just know that IME the women from North...
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    Emergency Fund Destroyed. Back to the Side Hustles?

    Excellent advice, esp. the last part. Housing is usually the single biggest expense for anyone. I did the same thing - moved in with a roommate in a not-trendy neighborhood. Sucked it up and in the end it wasn't so bad. I had almost as much personal debt as you (plus some student loan payments)...
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    What is this "taxation is theft" meme I read from american users on twitter?

    I had read that Lincoln enacted an income tax to pay for the Civil War. Maybe it was temporary. In any case states and local governments still levied taxes before the federal income tax, no?
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    What gym do you go to?

    I noticed nobody said YMCA. Not a thing any more?
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    What gym do you go to?

    I've been to 24 hr fitness in LA, SF, Washington, and NJ. There was always a free weight bench and a free weight squat. But that was a while ago. I always had a good experience at 24 Hr. Especially because there were no shenanigans with ending my membership when I had to.
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    Why are there so many dudes in the PUA/Game community that don't have their sh*t together?

    I know a guy like this. RP to the core with tight game. Sh*t load of debt and a divorce. Short answer is who cares, he can get laid any time he wants. Unless he asks for help it's not really my problem.
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    Emergency Fund Destroyed. Back to the Side Hustles?

    Always pay off your debts first. Only exception I can think of is a mortgage, where you will build equity. Otherwise, credit card debts and bank loans should be paid off as quickly as possible. Even if you are trying to maintain six months' emergency funds. High interest debt is an emergency...
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    Getting girls can turn you into a loser

    This is true sometimes. Some guys who peak early with women (like in high school) think it will always be easy and don't invest in themselves or their future. No career direction, no ambition, poor diet, no exercise because the girls are always there, til they aren't. Not true in every case of...
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    Red Pill Mentality: Never Be Satisfied

    So turn it off.
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