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    The nature of confidence & fear - why trying to control it or protect yourself from bad outcomes leads to less confidence and more fear.

    Part 3 Confidence Because sometimes as you try to drive a car -> "I can't drive". You fail. But here's the crazy thing, if you think that you can drive. And then your remember all the times when you couldn't drive, it's not going to bother you, because even when I can't drive I can still...
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    The nature of confidence & fear - why trying to control it or protect yourself from bad outcomes leads to less confidence and more fear.

    Part 2 Confidence. So what do you do about it? How do we fix it? Let's take the positive examples from above: driving and cooking. What is your worth when it comes to driving? Well, you can do it without perparation, maybe wear the seat belt but that's about it and that's for different...
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    The nature of confidence & fear - why trying to control it or protect yourself from bad outcomes leads to less confidence and more fear.

    This is an advice I head on a TV show from a psychologist. It's not about dating specifically but about confidence in general. Although I think it can apply to dating since there are many parts that involve confidence in dating as well as insecurities that people may have. Whether it's...
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    How to build a captivating and interesting life?

    If you want to be interesting - be interested. There's a story I heard a while ago: People don't care if you're interesting. They care how you make them feel. Here is a thought experiment. Picture yourself alone at a fancy ****tail party that you have to attend for work. You would like to...
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    Not Really a Grown Man

    You made the right call. You dodged a bullet. Do you really want an entitled single mom? you can do better than that. You can very easily do better than that.
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    I just

    Bro, that sounds like a complete win, you survived!
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    JustPearlyThings channel on Youtube

    Pearl is a pearl. The only women as far as I can tell who tells the truth and has a no BS approach.
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    Why you got her to your place but couldn't fucc.

    Useful advice, if she's not turned on, she's not wet, she'll stop before it. let her know what you want to do to her when you see her.. sexy texts/provacative texts/dirty pics exchanging -> Ok, so creating expectations. have some drinks first, /shots.. Maybe put on some aroma therapy, some...
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