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    Being told I'm a player because I'm "too nice"

    I would describe myself as a late bloomer, I was a stereotypical "nice guy" up until I was around 28 - pedestalized women, got over-invested too quickly etc. and had only slept with 3 women up until this point. I'm now 31 and feel like I'm a completely different person - I've got a great social...
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    Should I have done something differently with this girl from work?

    Thanks for the replies, I'm not bothered about her specifically because she has left now, just bothered about maybe missing an opportunity and not wanting to do so again in the future. So even though she ignored my request to get together over Instagram - I should have still asked her out again...
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    Should I have done something differently with this girl from work?

    Work in a hospital in a smallish town and she is a traveling midwife that I'd known for a few months. Always quite flirty physically touchy with me, but I had asked her to come out for drinks with colleagues many times and she would always say "maybe" and never commit. She was flirty with other...
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    Seeking feedback on post hook-up game (story inside)

    Tried to post on phone and it removed half the story will edit after work
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    What to do with girl who wants a relationship when you don't?

    I'm really not sure how you're getting that I'm catching feelings hard and fast when it is the complete opposite, I hardly know her and would actually feel more relieved if she didn't want to see me anymore at this point. My MAIN concern is that if I wanted to keep having sex with her to see...
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    What to do with girl who wants a relationship when you don't?

    Thanks all, I'll just keep seeing her and see where things go. I didn't know if I should just bring up the conversation about me not really being too keen on a relationship the next time I see her or just take things as they come I'm not afraid of losing her because I hardly know her and I have...
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    What to do with girl who wants a relationship when you don't?

    Met a girl who had just moved to town through mutual friends last weekends and hit it off, went back to her place with some friends and ended up in her bed. We started fooling around but she stopped me and told me she wasn't going to have sex with me because she didn't like random hook ups or...
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    At what point do you stop "playing it cool" and completely cut a girl off?

    Thanks for the replies everyone.I honestly don't really know what I want/wanted from her other than sex, she is in no way the kind of person I could see myself having a serious relationship with. And even then, the sex I had with her was not great because she would only hit on me and initiate it...
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    At what point do you stop "playing it cool" and completely cut a girl off?

    Yeah I honestly couldn't tell you why and I've been wracking my brain trying to find the answer. I've been with girls who are much nicer and just as if not more attractive than her but still fixate on this one...the sex isn't even great either. The intermittent reward thing makes sense, its just...
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    At what point do you stop "playing it cool" and completely cut a girl off?

    I've been reading books like "How to become a 3% man" "book of pook" etc. and am a bit confused about what to do with this girl/situation and need some clarification. Long story short, girl in a distant social circle that I've known for a year is very hot and cold. We'll go out, get drunk and...
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