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So met girl in class I take, she seems pretty interested and is very flirty friendly. Got her social media. I look at her social and there’s this dude commenting on every one of her posts and I look around a bit more and my assumption based on vids and pics is that he’s her long distance BF...

https://x.com/nymag/status/1772187955525722177?s=46&t=189NN-KdTdgB2SgHszC6_A Lots of X discussion on him apparently seeing 5 woman at once without them knowing. i didn’t read it but skimming comments: “He was sexting his actress side chick while injecting fertility meds into his long term GF...

The main theme to be maintaining your composure, keeping your cards close to chest and showing you are detached from her well.. I find it to be very dull numbing and almost soul crushing - by holding back your emotions, how do you experience anything nice if it’s constantly stifled? - again by...

I have finally broken me from a very toxic situation. Gave an ultimatum, and then deleted the number. No more. A weight has been lifted off my shoulder! Today is March 17. I intend to be in a happy relationship within 2 months from now, if not much sooner. I fully expect every time I go out...

find a lot of my issues are comfort based, where girl just doesn't trust me enough HOWEVER the idea of keeping cards close to chest/being mysterious seems like the antithesis of "wanting to get to know you" on dates where the more she gets to know you, the less surprise and mystery there is...

How do you respond? She's flaked on me twice already before, so I avoid a week, and now I don't care at all! What is going on?

so this girl (who mind you, flaked on our last date) was mad at me I don't check in with her enough... well she cancelled the last date, so I didn't text her at all last week, and when I said hi today on text she was upset I don't check in with her enough. Umm what? Someone on last thread said...

If you have a woman who sounds very excited for a date, thanks you, sends hearts, .. and then 12 hours later or 24 hours later cancels... what is that? What is going on in their heads to do that? As a guy, if I make plans with someone and AGREE to them I am going. I am not deciding last minute...

(besides cold approach, day-game, night game etc) I try to double mix the working out with semi social circle game (not a naturally social circle guy but trying to) where I go to. I realize other than working out probably getting a social circle is most important but I do so begrudgingly. I...

went out on 5 dates with this woman, on 5th date we hooked up. before that we had spent a LOT of time together to point where (even early on) she was crying, blushing and saying "How perfect I was". 4th date was for like 8+ hrs and she said it was the best date she's ever had/had in years....she...

I've kept myself busy going gym, socializing, focusing on work, my hobbies.... but every time I wake up or about to sleep I just start having all these regrets, and negativity and anger and low confidence about myself given a current situation I'm dealing with. Feels very traumatic. Especially...

Had a woman I’ve been seeing been out like 5x time and (to my knowledge) everything’s been going great. Now she’s getting a little iffy on text (note: she was married for 6+ years and now divorced for maybe 2 or so) and I think it may be because of Valentine’s Day coming up? Also we are not...

so seeing this chick who is super into me and a lot more sexual/sensual than I imagined (using a LOT of tongue on first date) and when we left and I walked her to her car we made out for a bit and was like "that's 50% better" after I tried to give a quick kiss and she went in for make out...

I have found recently (I've also been in a rut) that in classes/workshops/events where it should be relatively "warmer" to talk with people, I find myself a Lot more in head than when I'm simply doing cold approach. It could be because it feels or appears in my head that the risk of "messing up"...

imo it's been awful lately, and for day-game I am straight up looking for different situations. could be given all the recent news about constant looting everywhere, but malls have REALLY upped their security lately and no longer can you just be chilling for a few hours their (and not buying...

I met this girl in a workout class I go to regularly and she was super cool, clicked w her and she was definitely my type I go for. she was w 2 friends and they were trying the class, but normally I don't even get a girls number/social media etc till at least a few times I see her in class and...

I am curious how you all go into chatting an attractive girl esp for cold approach generally a lot of it feels like A) she likes my physical appearance 2) immediate connection on a certain commonality/insight 3) luck and if that's not the case, it is verrrryy difficult to get out of the "name...

how do people view social media when meeting random/new people? I am beginning to see it as a tool to use in order to show people your life and if you have decent worth on the platforms as well. I previously used to not use it at all after meeting people, but MANY are constantly asking for that...

to me imo it seems that with social media especially, woman are ALWAYS just looking for the absolute top prize when dating. So if you don't fit the physical standards (height, body fat, amount of followers etc) it is extremely extremely difficult to get a girl. I'm in pretty decent shape etc but...

had situation recently and wanted to know for future what to do, Was about to leave nightlife/dance place and called uber and saw this cute girl w friend waiting. She was waiting for her friend who was in bathroom outside. Was not noisy at all. Ended up talking with her for a few minutes...