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    Getting FINAL Closure From ALL Women of whom..

    This thread made me have a good laugh. Not at you, dear OP, but at the prospect of actually giving this a go. Just had a look through my contacts. There's even a few girls I've not even spoken to in a couple of years (one or two I have smashed before, though). The idea of texting out of the...
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    Women, Drama & Money

    I was having a bit of downtime, checking out some garbage on Youtube - and I tend to have a quick peruse on the comments. The screenshot below is a snippet of the comment section. I think the comment and reply is enough to go on here. And sure, for most of you this may not be anything new. Now...
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    Do you think that some chicks don't like men with beards because they cannot ascertain chin robustness?

    Nope. Some chicks dig it, some don't. Just do you. Personally, I've not shaved in years, I just shear (clippers). I had some woman say to me in passing on the street, 'Oh gawd, have a shave!' The cheek.
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    Bartender

    Overthinking this?! If you got the look, that's your opening or green light, so to speak. In your own time, approach and naturally build some report - you know, fun 'n' flirty. What have you to lose? The good thing about frequenting an establishment is you have space to play and enjoy some...
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    What do you do for work?

    Online women?! I assume you're talking about on-online dating. As common as a social question it is, it is also a probing question - from a woman's perspective it may give them a feel for your financial level, if that's their interest in asking. As for an answer, if you don't want to be...
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    What to do to keep your youth after age of 40

    Hah, you're probably right - maybe. Last girlfriend I had always complained my gaff was fit for a bachelor and it gave the impression I was single...
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    Desire for sex past 45…

    Mid-40s here. If I have a woman in my bed, I like it going to bed and I like it waking up in the morning - however many days of the week that covers. Can't help myself if I have a naked chick in my bed! Although, I can put a lid on things if I have an empty bed. Libido is a man's curse.
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    Ex girlfriend straight up contacts me saying she wants kids with me?

    Hard and fast rule: you don't go back, ever. Learned experience! You are doing GREAT, your words. Keep it that way, and keep it moving forward.
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    All girls are wh0res. Change my mind.

    I guess I should have been more explicit. I was trying to imply the probability of all women are 304s as unlikely and comparing it to finding a good solid (male) friend - a bit of perspective on the take. I certainly wasn't trying to imply that we should try to make friends with women. I think...
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    All girls are wh0res. Change my mind.

    When you spend a number of years running through easy women, I think perspective on one views of women would change to think this way - you know, that all girls are 304s. I think it's a natural conclusion to make?! I know I certainly started to think that way. It certainly didn't help (being...
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    Five tough lessons I have learned after consistently running game for months.

    Interesting stuff, thanks for sharing. I found this site by accident - and I wasn't looking for 'game' related material, but I do like a good forum and like to add 'forum' to browser searches if I'm interested in a topic and on a topic people may write about. I was impressed with some of the...
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    I can attract women easily but cannot keep them around long term

    Firstly, you don't control attraction. But, you do control maintenance. Thus: Maybe check out the Dr Love's dictionary book that more looks at how to keep women? Otherwise, pretty much what everyone has said.
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    Ex in my classroom

    Just move on. Sounds like you still have feelings for her - you're posting here after all. Loose that if you can. And never get back with an ex - ever: not for your ego, not for the sex. No choosing signals from the girls in class?! Girls talk.
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    I might have BPD

    Let me come at this from a different perspective: You would have been in your teens during the pandemic, right? I'm sure that was tough with no friends/girls/job and so forth. I think most people would understand or even feel themselves as being 'down in the dumps' as we'd say in this part of...
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    Getting the runaround when trying to set a date

    If it's like trying to draw blood from a stone to get a meet (ASAP), forget it, move on. And especially - don't chase!
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    Asked my boss out

    Don't stick your pen in company ink! Especially as you consider your job important. And it's your boss. Come on, man, get some sense back into your noggin. Sure, there could be pros here if your boss has a soft-spot for you, but, you're playing with fire. As it stands, based on what you've...
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    Sleeping over?

    I'm with Howiestern, I have no issue with it. I just tend to shoo them out the door as early as possible come the morning. Just remember women tend to be upset 'right now'. If she likes you she'll respect it in another moment. Hah. I swear redheads are the worst for this!
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    Should I just ignore her?

    I've just been through something like this. Just started a new job a few months ago. This mid-twenties blonde Latvian was giving off very strong interest signals - going as far wearing all black (I wear all black for work) and even sporting a watch like I do. She seems very emotional as well - I...
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    Females and their version of game

    I have to agree with bat soup and jimwho. At least in the attraction phase, women will communicate interest non-verbally and are telling you that you can approach. And make no mistake, at some point some will feel rejected if you don't reciprocate in some fashion. I swear, they all follow the...
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    Why are women so bad from age 25-30

    I think we can agree Leo is an exception - but it is fair to ask, is he onto something?! Or is it that he just doesn't want the kind of commitment girls that age tend to start thinking of? Personally, as an average guy (that attracts women) and as an older man (@46), my cut-off is 30 for dating...
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