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    Approach/text journal - what is it?

    Bro i picked up this chick from the gym, i took her number, texted her same night Me - Hi, this is …… Me- what kind of flowers are these? (She had flowers on her dp) Her - hello Her - sunflower? Me- those ain’t no goddamn sunflowers Her- what then? Me- lilith (or some bull**** don’t remember)...
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    How to navigate?

    Guys i’d love your input on this, i approached a set of girls, they were a group 3 girls, one of them was really hot, i open with and asked where are y’all from, they said we are dutch i was like you don’t look dutch because of their looks) y’all look like hip-hop chicks, she asks how does...
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    Overanalyzing or what?

    Djs, back again with another approach experience, i hope this helps newbies in the game too, i’d appreciate your input and all people new to the game will. I was just at a coffeeshop (a dutch one = weed), i was sitting with a few friends and on the table next to us there were two girls sitting...
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    Sh1t test - low interest and next or up-game? -

    DJs I have a question for y’all, how can you identify a **** test? There was a girl who i picked up, conversation was a bit platonic, i took her insta, right before me asking for her insta, she said “oh i might not reply”, i said “ oh well its your loss”. I interpreted that as low-interest and...
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    Guys wtf went wrong, what should i reply to this?

    Guys i went out with this freaky ass chick, we were vibing, having fun and all, we laughing, we go back to her place, we ****ed, we speak again on instagram, i try to set up the 2nd date, then i get hit with this “I do not have time this Saturday. but idk if i feel like meeting up again, if i...
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    Choked hard, what could be better?

    Guys, yesterday i was going to the bus stop when i saw this beautiful ukranian girl waiting for the bus too. I approached her, then i began speaking to her where’s she from, why is she going back home this early on a saturday followed by a compliment etc. She reciprocrated by asking me a...
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    Texting breakdown - how can i attract this milf?

    Djs, i’m like 90% assured this milf be entertaining other. Idc, i wanna hit. And i’m saying this so that somebody tell me of a way where i can lock this milf down where she become an exclusive FWB Background info; went out twice with this milf, alot of kissing not yet ****in, we plannin to once...
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    How to deal with “maybe some other day!”

    DJs, i have this girl who i picked up at the city, i text her and she replies with this. What do you think i should do and why? Me “what pizza you have there in your profile pic” Her “pizza from papa johns” Me Nah you gotta try this pizza out, …………… pizza with sweet chilli sauce” Her “ Dominos...
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    Milf encounters

    DJs, I have met this milf a while ago. We spoke, went for 2 dates. Have yet to ****, i’m planning on asking her to come to my place for the next date as soon as she is back from a vacation and then we can ****. Thing is she told me on the last date that she said “ i know that you’ll always...
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    Shooting yourself in the foot - approach/interaction Journal

    Dj’s i just came out of a bar, met this stunning beauty. I approached her and we begin small talk. Once we begin small talk, she comes closer, she then points her feet outwards like she wants to exit, it kept happening back & forth for a little while. We still vibing and i see a tattoo on her...
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    How to handle girl being approached by “friends”

    DJ’s Yesterday there was a music bingo event, i met this chick who’s a 7. We hit it off, we’re having fun. Later in the night, some random guy approaches the girl and apparently they know each other already, they met once before at some random gathering. Guy does small talk about parties...
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    How to lead women - interaction analysis

    DJ’s, I cold approach this women. She is cute, and clearly has given me eyes. I speak to her and do some basic chit-chat. Then the train comes, i tell her i have to pick up my stuff, and then go and follow her into the train. The train was immensely packed and very few places to sit, she sat...
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    A million approach

    Guys, I’ve literally lost count on how many approaches i’ve done in the past 2 years. 99.9% Were cold approaches, some lead to numbers, some flakes and some ghosting. I think i’ve been on 2 dates, 3 first date sex and nothing beyond. This **** is becoming frustrating. How can i overcome this...
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    Preemptive flake signs

    DJ’s, What are some preemptive flake signs that a girl is gonna stand you up for the date? I’ve gotten a few numbers and i’ve texted almost all the same line “i wanna see you on …. At …. Time, come wearing those red nails” is there a problem with this type of texting, or is it merely a lost...
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    Body language, IOI’s, women & interference

    DJ’s i’ve just picked up this girl at the gym, spoke a little, setup the date and we on for it. I see her again when leaving, we started smoking and then some guys who i speak to in the gym “small-talk” started asking us why are you smoking after the gym and some basic nonsense, i kept calm...
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    Books

    Dj’s What are the best books on dating in your opinion? These are not limited to game, but also frame, self development, mindset etc. I’m pretty sure alot of people would find it useful.
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    Cold approach signals

    DJ’s Do y’all wait for “talk-to-me” signals prior to approaching or just approach at will? i was sitting today in the bus and there is this very beautiful chick sitting next to me. Chick didn’t exhude any “approach-me” signs except for a side-eye-contact with a cheeky smirk, but for the...
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    A spiral loop?

    Hey DJ’s, i’ve recently joined this new workplace, we had a bbq party yesterday, at this bbq party nearly everybody was there (99% is within the age range of 18-25). I already met the majority prior to the bbq party, in which i had decent interactions with all (i had a playful interaction with...
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    What to do?

    DJ’s I have a question. I keep getting these instances while flirting with chicks that goes like this after talking back and forth. Context met this girl at the gym approached her closed her insta then the text convo was like this. my question is when i say some double meaning **** (sexual...
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    Cold approach

    DJ’s I have seen this amazing girl, approached her (i was walking by, we locked eyes and then i approached from behind) called her once twice she ignored me. I just left her and went on with my day. My question is to the guys who experienced in cold approaching, what would you do in such a...
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