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    Having a "strong frame" doesn't do anything unless women already find you attractive.

    It's the halo/anti-halo effect. Attractive + Strong Frame: . Congratulations you're drowning in puss. Attractive + Weak Frame: Not as good, but you're still likely to find a lot of women who think you're "cute" for not knowing how attractive you are (supposedly). Unattractive + Weak Frame...
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    Is it possible to get women to respect your boundaries AND feel safe with you at the same time?

    It's been my experience that, unless you're a local celebrity, women will take you enforcing boundaries and standing up for yourself as an excuse to treat you like you're a dangerous woman-hater. I guess they're not entirely wrong. If you're not gonna respect me as a person, why should you be...
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    Some musings about advice I receive about my hair and if I cut it for *****.

    I love my hair. I love how long it is. I love when it goes down to my shoulders and looks like a wild mane. But whenever the subject of how I can look more attractive comes up, women are always telling me to cut my hair. Never.. ever.. going to happen. Let's say I did take their advice and...
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    "There are no participation trophies in real life." Yes and no.

    It is an observable fact that the people who preach against the participation trophy mentality also value qualities of tenacity and "just do(ing) it." I suspect many such individuals are here. Instead of asking them to explain this contradiction and receiving answers that demonstrate a lack of...
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    Seriously, what's the difference between "big **** energy" and "little **** energy?"

    Because I can't see it. If you were to put two people in front of me.. one who is seen as having "big **** energy" and the other as having "little **** energy," to me it all looks like the same behavior. Just two dumbasses who think they're the ****. Just for some reason people seem to approve...
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    Sauron isn't being made into an "incel."

    If you're not into LotR and haven't been at least loosely following Rings of Power, you won't know or care what I'm talking about. That should take care of the people who want to ask stupid questions about things that would take hours to explain. Here's what happened, Sauron tried to tempt...
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    The more immersed I get in the combat sports/martial arts community, the more I realize that there are two types of people.

    Trained and untrained. That's really it. People who know for a fact that they can handle themselves.. and people who only have theoretical confidence (90% of the population). People who train.. even if they're not pros.. are literally a superior minority. They are an actual master race. I...
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    Okay how in the ****ing hell do BJJ people expect sympathy over "Leonardo Lol"s death?

    Leandro Lo getting shot to death in Brazil.. in case what I'm referring to isn't clear. Here's how it is. If you're gonna have as much faith in your art as BJJ people tend to have in theirs, you damn well better be literally bulletproof. By that metric.. I can't bring myself to feel sorry for...
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    Fellas, how'd you do on this "Misogynistic Redditor Bingo?"

    Original image: My current results: So yeah unfortunately I didn't get anything. But that's only because I got out of my edgy "Gen Z Conservative" phase. What my results would have been 5 years ago: Needless to say, looking back, I'm happy some of my views changed. The fact that I don't...
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    I haven't masturbated all day and I still can't catch raindrops with chopsticks or mine Bitcoin with my thoughts. Send help.

    The leaves on trees don't turn to money as I walk past. Women I look at aren't instantly becoming pregnant from my gaze alone. Men who are exposed to my very presence don't immediately drop to their knees and suck me off (<obligatory "nOt gAY bUt" statement goes here>). My virgin Olive Oil...
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    You think the James Bond character from the books would be a better role model than the movie version?

    You ask me, I don't think role-models should be too fantastical. Instead they should be relatable. I've picked up the habit recently of, whenever I see a "strong woman" character in anything do something outrageous, putting on a very snide impression of a child-voice and being all like...
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    Why is it that white-knights are usually good looking and men who don't take women's **** aren't?

    If you pay attention, you'll notice all the men who do everything in their power to preserve the ***** pass are leagues better looking than the men who will gladly trample on it. This is weird to me since, as better looking men, they can get away with having a reputation for being more...
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    So am I the snowflake or not? It's so confusing.

    I just naturally offend people. No idea what it is about me or why, but people just start with me a lot and I'm often made out to be "the *******" in the room for the most trivial reasons. At this point I've kind of accepted it as a part of who I am and it's made me pretty jaded with any advice...
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    What do I do when everyone else is just ****ing wrong and I want to do my job?

    The policy where I work is that the windows get cleaned every 6 months. The thing is that's complete garbage and whoever made that policy needs their mouth filled with shot. If you don't clean those windows every single day, they will look like ****. Thing is I'm the only person who sees this...
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    How do you reach the point where you see your boss as just another person?

    For some people, being overly cautious of what their boss thinks makes them work harder. Not me.. and that has a lot to do with my general paranoia involving authority and what they say vs what they mean. My ideal "workplace archetype," if you will, is that guy who always seems to be two...
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    So. What was I denying exactly?

    Pwease educate me. I'm just a fiwthy wittle misogynist.
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    I'm becoming increasingly uncomfortable with drinking milk. Thoughts?

    The more I think about it, the more I don't ever want to buy milk again. ****'s meant for babies.. of other species. I get that we alter it slightly from how it comes out but that doesn't make it any better for me. Imagine someone keeping human milk in their fridge and drinking it. "Indirect...
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    Andrew Tate's views on women aren't NECESSARILY wrong.

    "Who's Andrew Tate?" Why is doing a simple Google search hard for you? Kick it. Anyway.. It depends on where you live and the kinds of upbringings you're working with. Women in low-class/ghetto areas tend to prefer "survivalist" men who are good at diplomacy but can fight when they have to...
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