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    Convos on OLD just fizzle out

    I've actually been getting a lot of matches on OLD lately, but it seem like either the chat never goes anywhere or they're from the next state over which means a 2 hr. drive if we meet halfway, and since I'm in NE there's basically nothing in between. Honestly my interest level hasn't been...
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    How would losing sexual function affect your game?

    I'm at what I'd consider nearing my prime even though I'm 43 years old. I'm very close to being in better shape than I was at 25, have tons of energy and feel my SMV is at an all-time high. I feel like I have a lot going for me now but I sometimes wonder what I would do if god forbid something...
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    When a girl suggests a change of plans

    We were supposed to play tennis at the park today. So she texts me 'do you still want to meet up for tennis or hike the trail behind the park?'. I don't really care honestly. How to handle this?
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    How to tell a girl you don't want to be exclusive

    My last thread talked about this girl I met on fb dating that I am starting to see. I really like her but I think she wants something exclusive. She had said before she doesn't want to share. What is the best way to tell her that I want to see her but want to keep my options open?
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    Maintaining frame when girl has high interest level

    So I matched with someone from fb dating and got her to reluctantly video chat with me instead of endless pointless texting. Soon into our call she was hooked. I cut our video chat short after we were on for about an hour. She asked me to call her the next day but i didnt say i would for...
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    Best advice for working a mixed group

    I'm still very new to this but as I get more free time I've been making little strides. I opened a small group of two cute females and a male as we were leaving the bar last night. I had them engaged and all three were responding to a question I'd asked but I wasn't sure where to go from...
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    Applying DJ protocol to OLD

    This has probably been covered at some point but I'm not having much luck with the search feature. Has anyone laid out any kind of guide/toolbox for how to apply DJ methodology to online dating apps? For instance, something like if a girl messages you back, don't message her back right away...
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    Am I supposed to want sex every day?

    For most of the advice in the manosphere, sex seems to be the end game. Lots and lots of sex, whenever and however you want it. While that seems cool to a point, I've never (and I mean, NEVER, even when I was a teenager) been one of those guys that wanted to have sex every day. Once or twice...
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    Hope for my marriage?

    I've been separated since September and have barely gotten my feet wet in the dating scene other than a fling I had with a woman at work that turned out to be a con artist. Anyway I've made all the classic AFC mistakes and I'll admit it. My wife and I have been together since high school, so...
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