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  1. Bethatsocialguy

    Article: Dating apps have gotten so bad that speed dating is in again

    Dating apps used to be the easy way out but because they are so popular now, they are over saturated so approaching in real life still remains to be the best and most powerful way to meet women
  2. Bethatsocialguy

    The Tradeoffs of having a Girlfriend

    Having the right girlfriend is extremely powerful. It's just knowing and finding the right one
  3. Bethatsocialguy

    Does dating advice apply to all men

    Dating advice applies for all men because a man needs to learn and understand the dating world. However the advice given will differ between guys but there are some general rules which are true. But we could say the same about women too. There are general rules that work with women that women...
  4. Bethatsocialguy

    Romance novels

    Because it allows them to dive into their imagination
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    Girl Says She's Not Into FWBs/Casual On First Meet

    I don't view it as manipulation. I just view it as her testing to see if you are the confident guy that you say that you are. The idea of passing the ship test is to show that you're not faced or bothered by what she said. It's interesting that we view it very differently but in my experience...
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    Girl Says She's Not Into FWBs/Casual On First Meet

    Absolutely it's a **** test. It's like when a girl says I'm not going to sleep with you I'm 5 minutes later she's touching your crotch. There's a few ways you can pass it so here are some examples that I like to use: "I'm looking for my third wife so I am very serious about this.." "As a man of...
  7. Bethatsocialguy

    Entice a girls mind before you try to get into her pants

    A lot of women just want to be listened to and if you listen to her and relate to her in some way or at least put across that you understand her on some level that other people might not, Then you're already halfway there. Throw in some humour and keep the conversation like hearted and you'll...
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    Do you believe when she tells you her ex came knocking?

    Whether you believe it or not, the fact is she kept that from you and it was only due to your instincts knowing something was up why you took a break from her. That would have been a secret that she kept to the grave and therefore she cannot be trusted
  9. Bethatsocialguy

    I’m in deep

    Also the fact that you are unsure after multiple people have told you that there are bad signs shows you're looking at this situation not from an abundance mindset as you should. I get to go out and look for another woman is difficult but staying with her is the easiest thing to do but...
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    I’m in deep

    Body count absolutely matters. The higher the body count the more likely her self-esteem is which means the more male validation she will need in order to feel supposedly satisfied. It's kind of like a drug addict. She will connect validation with sex and over time the worries/risks/concerns...
  11. Bethatsocialguy

    I don't know how to flirting

    "chit chat for maybe 6-7 hours." That is definitely not a good thing. Need to make it man to woman. That's on you. Some ways to flirt includes having no filter, teasing her and making assumptions about her too. Let me know if you need more help
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    I’m in deep

    "We met because she approached me at a bar"- not common. Therefore not a common girl. It might be nice to be approached by a girl but it's unlikely that's her first time ever doing it which means to some degree she looks for male validation. Well let's just assume she was super into you. "..she...
  13. Bethatsocialguy

    how to talk to shy girls?

    Stay in frame. Lead the conversation. Keep it lighthearted and make assumptions about her so it forces her to either accept them and be impressed or deny them and explain
  14. Bethatsocialguy

    Just had a promising plate tell me, "I have a boyfriend"

    So she made up she had boyfriend? why do you think she did that? What do you think you were missing in order for her to see you as a potential partner?
  15. Bethatsocialguy

    Is brunch a red flag?

    It also depends on who her friends are. If they are the kind of girl that goes to brunch and drinks ****tails, then I would say that's not the best for long term relationships although some guys do the same.
  16. Bethatsocialguy

    Am I doing something wrong here?

    You could even disqualify her. She says " how old are you?" You say " too old for you" She says "no way/really? How old?" (now she's curious so keep building the tension) You say "how old do you think? Wait this is my young side" (turn head/body to one side) You've made her more curious...
  17. Bethatsocialguy

    Am I doing something wrong here?

    Girls are emotional. Maybe giving a kiss first time in the morning was too boyf vibes. Maybe she felt you were a bit desperate so you going to her was too much in the morning. She may have needed time. LIke I said, women are emotional. You are overthinking. Just assume she likes you. Assume you...
  18. Bethatsocialguy

    What can you do about a wife who cheated?

    If a woman cheats, kids or no kids, 1. It's better to take responsibility on yourself. 2. You need to leave her immediately . 3. You need to figure out why she cheated
  19. Bethatsocialguy

    Meeting Women At a Pub Crawl - Advice Needed

    Your first and only thing is to have fun. To meet new people. Socialise with all in the group and outside of the group too. After about 30% of time done, start deciding to invest in someone more. Get to know someone more deeply.
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