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    Polarising and masculine lines

    Let’s share our best lines for OLD/chatting that are polarising, masculine, confident and c0cky & funny. Here’s are some: You tryna friend-zone me already? I’m in charge of you now Are you ready? You got a dorky nose, but you’re cute in it What's your favourite place to be kissed?
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    Uneven Energy Levels

    I’ve since youth had the problem of exerting myself to burnout-ish states. That state follows some well-documented pattern of first restlessness and stress, followed by sincere tiredness (and hence restitution possible), if done properly. The problem is this is a no go. I can’t have this jerky...
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    I’m a guy who currently doesn’t fck

    Despite having virgins served on a silver plate, plenty of cold approaching and a couple of dates via OLD, I currently don’t fck. I know why: My personality is basically beta/provider type, though I know the red pill theory. Since childhood I’ve spent my existence on impressing people, like my...
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    Stuck in (absent) career

    I am career wise stuck at the moment, and have run out of ideas. I currently train for becoming an insulation fitter (a speciality within plumbing), 4 months or so, that might lead to an income. Better than being unemployed — Perhaps. The work is just so simple that I get severe depression...
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    How to run a slut school

    I have this tricky girl that I’m trying to turn into enjoyable. We’re currently at large distance but have met several times and had sech. She doesn’t like to perform oral or 4nal, but in other aspects curious however. The result of a cold approach at a café. She to some degree enjoys the sex...
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    Improving my game

    I need a general direction on what to do with my game. Tinder doesn’t work for me. I’ve swiped wrongly and with a poor profile, so, from my research, my profile has a poor rating/far down the stack. The matches/dates are hopeless. My idea is to start a new profile with a new phone, but it...
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    Still a loser at 38

    It’s spectacular, I still can’t approach — when it counts — at an age of 38. I’ve read all the central books on game, done over a thousand approaches during one year, read plenty of SS, got a great network IRL of casanovas, and got above average SMV (beyond these game skills), but still chicken...
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    Cold approach problem: lacking thrust

    When it comes to intuitive, unprepared approaches I almost always fail, except for with asians. This is imperative, if I decide "this walk I'm gonna cold approach", it goes fine, it's the unprepared ones I fail. In bed I’m absolutely fine with dominance, but it’s as if I lack the energy or “air”...
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    Breadcrumbs

    What I detest as a man is the eventual necessity of accepting breadcrumbs. To look forward, something you always can do, hence moot. Positivity is considered good, but it conceals that it is acceptance of sh1t. One example is r3tard-motivational speakers. For instance, this guy born without...
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    The blues

    Online tests for depression say mild or none. I think depression is about that experiences have pressed you down/back for a long time, and then you’re stuck in that place. This is critical for game as a man, because domination is everything, such as required at a spontaneous cold approach. I’m...
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    Aging…

    I’m 38 and have noticed, of the things relevant, that my face have started to age. Dead, coarse skin have started to cover my forehead, and generally less smooth skin. It saddens me, tiny subtle anxiety, that I'm starting to loose one of my strong selling points: that I look young. I spend too...
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    Your kinda girl

    It is absurd: 4 out of my 6 latest notches/dates have been asians. Considering this is all in Sweden and where the asians are 1 out of 200(?), it is absolutely absurd. My general and day game statistics are pretty much non-existent/lousy. Imagine if I had been in an asian country, it would have...
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    Plate gone cold

    I have a plate-ish that has gone cold. If I recall correctly, I asked her twice whether to meet, but both times she’s been away/travelling. She hasn’t reciprocated, but saved in snapchat my suggestion to go out. However, her response to it was at best lukewarm, though interpretations can be...
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    Platinum sh1t test: AGE

    A major road block for me with girls 18-25, is their obsession with age. They refuse walking around the topic, and insist on finding out, and flat out walk based on it. “Our age difference is too big.” I am in many ways young, and people say I look 29. Some of my attempts to handle it: “I’m...
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    Winning in domination

    I cold approach a lot, and the opportunities I actually miss is when I’m unprepared and girls gives me IOIs. When a girl stares me down while about to pass, I flee. There are negative emotions involved, maybe a bit of fear, sadness, tiny panic. It’s a consistent problem in my game. I think the...
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    Shorty

    I’m 170 cm (5' 7”) and when I see the game of friends and other people that are tall, I see a completely different response in the girls compared to me. I'm just a peer, on level with them. There is a natural dominance that I lack and it shows in results. I try to compensate with a black...
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    Changing the chase dynamics

    My plate went on a weekend trip two weeks ago, I initiated communication (asked to snap) during that to stay in contact and try to tie her experience to me. Last weekend she went again, she didn’t communicate, and I “caved in”, messaged her today, Tuesday. So, I chase her. This is not good, but...
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    Having a girl do pictures/video

    I have this delicious plate but she doesn’t want pictures/video taken. We have great sech, good trust and connection (“When’s your birthday?”) but she’s a no no on the camera, which hence is a bit odd. It can be a question of trust — she do give signals on trust but also mentioned taking it slow...
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    I'm avoiding IG and FB for game

    I've recently started using phone number or Snapchat (popular in Sweden amongst younger) due to that my current Instagram profile derails girls. I unfortunately have a wrong profile, cultural capital, so for instance one girl couldn't process it and went home and did art instead of dating me...
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    Game with different languages

    I’ve noticed that my identity and language is much better in English; it’s masculine, free, dominating, flirty, confident. Now I’m back in a country speaking Swedish where I’ve never developed or used such skills, I left when I was 17 and never had successful game here. What have people done to...
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