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    Pretending to be happy

    I've been doing something a little different for me at work lately... . . I've been pretending to be happy. The reason I did this is because I got the idea that if people didn't see my negative emotions, I might be able to go farther. Well actually, it seems to be working. In a way, it's...
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    Not much time

    I'm 31, and I'm feeling a little rushed. DJ theory says that weshould make ourselves better, but I don't think I really have much time to improve myself more. if I'm 40 years old when I end up "good enough" for the women I want, what good does that do me? I am dating and having sex, but the...
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    Much simpler nice guy theory

    The prevailing "nice guy" theory is that women like jerks and hate nice guys because jerks are somehow exciting. Right--I don't see us getting worked up over stanky jezebel hos. I think it's simpler than that. Like attracts like. The women that like jerks the most tend to be the...
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    woman thinks men have the power

    this is a quote from a post at loveshack: It's at http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t15970/ if you want to see the original post. Why would this woman think this is so? The way we see it, getting women regularly requires a lot of training before the power equation is reversed.
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    3500 Calorie workout

    Is it even possible to lose 3500 calories in single workout? I know that you can lose as much as 7 lbs in a day, but that's just water.
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    Donevan, the PUA

    I ran across this blog by Donevan, the PUA. What I'd like to know, who knows of him and his stuff? Is he an independent PUA, or a wing for an already known PUA? The blog in question has an advertisement for David DeAngelo's material, so it would help for me to know their relationship.
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    Secret to not divorcing

    I put this in "Anything else", since it's not really about DJing. I think the "secret" to not divorcing is simply...not divorcing. In cultures where it's frowned upon, people don't do it. Since people can get them, and in fact women are rewarded for doing so in our society, they will. What...
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    Mature Men issue #5: Late Virgins

    This post is on getting rid of late virginity, which I define as being past college age, or 25. If you're a virgin this long there are probably reasons. The common ones would be 1) Highly Introverted/shy 2) Religious upbringing 3) Health problems that prevented it Also, for your...
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    The Top Mature Men issues

    I think the top issues for mature men tend to be 1. Women with children 2. Post-Divorce issues (re-entering dating scene, drama) 3. Sordid past (alcoholism, substance, criminal record) 4. One's own children, especially sons. 5. Late Virgins (25+ virgins) 6. formerly impotence...
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    woman at work has a crush.

    A woman who's about a 6.5 has a crush on me. She knows me from work. I'd estimate her to be about 32, and she has a 7 and 4 year-old. She was talking to me for a while but I never approached her because she had a ring. She sarged me recently and asked abut my personal life, and in the course...
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    My Wish

    I wish I would never fail at anything ever again. Is this even possible? From a success standpoint, it looks like there are people who do so. Randal on the Apprentice, for example. Are successful people just better at picking their challenges, or do they never fail regardless?
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    Mods: stealth posters

    Moderators, There have been a number of posts recently from religious types trying to tell people to "come get help", and presenting sex and sexuality in a bad light. A DJ is going to have sex at some point in time, hopefully multiple times to different people. So these "help" posts are...
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    Adam on The Apprentice

    Adam was the 22-year old jewish guy on The Apprentice that was a virgin when the show aired. 22 is a bit old, but not really too late. The important thing I'd like to point out, if you watch the show, is that he has a lot of AFC mannerisms. You'll note that he has a really high voice and...
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    Condom for blow job?

    Like the title, do you use a condom when you get a blow job? Most people don't I would think, but I'm asking about the relative risk.
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    Tactics versus inner game

    I post this because people think that there's some sort of contradiction between the two. There's not. True, having a strong inner game is what really attracts women. However, the tactics are the way that that inner game is expressed. No one knows whats *inside* you until you say or do...
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    Porn and your game

    This gets talked about every so often, whether porn helps or hurts your game. Usually you hear people say that it hurts it because it releases "sexual energy" instead of motivating you to get on the field. I'm not sure that there is such thing as "sexual energy", but here's an observation...
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    my old oneitis

    I was just thinking about my old oneitis. I've stopped talking to her, but I'm wondering if I should declare her my enemy, and cut her off formally(ie, letting her know I've cut her off), because we ended on a friends basis. She's weird in that if she mentally knows that I'm not her friend...
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    Self-Improvement schedule

    I'd like some feedback on this. I'm at the point that if I want to achieve my goals, it's going to take a lot of hard work. I work 8-5, so I figure if I drive home and have dinner, I have from 6:30 to 10pm on weekdays to work on my goals. This is what I'm thinking of doing: 1 hour of fun...
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    If Bill Gates were single

    He'd have no trouble getting a new wife, that's obvious. His current wife is a nerd, so there's no chance in her cheating. However, if he married a normal woman, since he's all money and no attractiveness or charisma, would it be likely that she'd cheat?
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    New Orleans Mayor proposes gambling to save city

    Here's the article: Gambling in New Orleans Basically, the city is bankrupt and everything's gone, people are leaving and so forth. He's proposing letting casinos go there to bring up tax revenue. If he pulls this off, he'll be seen as a genius leader who saved his city. If not, then...
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