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    2nd Date Fail .. How to avoid fumbling on 2nd and 1st dates?

    Short story short, went on a second date with this chick I met a few weeks back. I decided to chill at the beach at night, drink some wine and eat some sushi. She asked throughout the day what we were going to do, but I just said. "Let me surprise you ;)" She was expecting that we were going to...
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    What to do if a plate is dating another guy

    I've been dating this girl for about 5-6 months now, her job requires her to travel over seas as well as mines so we see each other once or twice every month or so. We havent made anything official but the chemistry, and the sex/connection is unreal. We both enjoy our non-committed dating...
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    Walked out on my date, did I over react or stood up for myself…

    So I’ve been dating this girl that I met last month and we have been vibing. We have a lot in common, conversations flow, and we honestly have fun being together. We’ve been on about 4 dates together and on the last date we had, I walked out on her. On our second date she invited me to go out...
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    Invited to hang with old friends … thoughts ?

    So I got invited by an old friend from HS to meet up, he’s in my city for a couple days so he’s planning a reunion with some old buddies from HS. The invitation reached to about 7-8 dudes that all know each other from HS. All of them are cool guys, with 4-5 of them being successful but are...
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    Is this a friendzone text or just some casual womenese “she says what thinks is right”

    So I’ve been dating this girl for about a month now, we’ve been on 3 dates. On the second date she suggested to sleep over at my place. Did not have s3x because she was on her period. Third date, went out drinking with her, her cousin and room mate. I texted her yesterday to make plans for...
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    Did I just self-invite myself or does she really want me to come ?

    So I’ve been dating this new chick for about 2-3 weeks now. We’ve gone out twice and on the second date she suggested to sleep over at my place. We didn’t have s3x though cause she was on her period (found a tampon in my bathroom garbage). Still hooked up heavily. Anyways, now her cousin just...
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    Plate cancelled plans last minute but asks to postpone them for following day

    So I’ve been seeing this one girl since august of last year. She recently went on a 2 month vacation for the holidays since November and we saw each other again for the first time in 2 months last Friday. Since Friday, we’ve been seeing each other every day. Went out Friday night, Saturday night...
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    Main plate hooked up with another guy during new years, kind of bothered.

    So I’ve been dating this 21 year old non-exclusively for the past 3 months. It’s important that I first share with you all her current situation so that you can have a clear understating. She is currently in a “open relationship/long distance” with her current bf. The dude is in another country...
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    What are good betting options to play bet with a girl?

    So a girl I've been dating likes soccer and has been watching the world cup. She is going for the opposing team that I am going, so I am teasing her to place a bet with me and see who wins. She says she's terrible at betting and that she always loses. However, I am pushing for her to gamble with...
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    Number closed on two girls at same party, when is best to text ?

    So last night I number closed on two girls that were giving me some pretty decent high interests. One more than the other. One of the girls I met, (girl #1) was fully engaged in our conversation and gave me her number without hesitation. She was however with a date and dancing with him...
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    Tips on keeping spontaneity on dates and how safe is it on escalating to something more serious?

    So I have been dating this girl for about 2 months now and we have gone out about 7-8 times. We took about a 4 week break in between where we didnt see each other because I was away traveling and she had a lot of work. We've slept together, she's stayed over my house about 4 times and we...
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    Girl I've been dating stops me every time we get close to having sex ...

    So, I met this girl and we've been dating for a couple of weeks now, but there are a couple of things in my mind (apart from the title) that made me want to write a post and as always you guys' insight is much appreciated. Now a little background on this girl. She's 39 (looks like 30 or...
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    Date night … she suggested coming over and watching a movie. Am in her frame ?

    So I made plans on Tuesday to hang out with this chick I’ve been dating to go out dancing on Saturday night. She said she’d be down but this morning she sends me a text that she’s in the mood to disconnect and relax and do something chill. She said maybe “I can come over and we can watch a movie...
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    Getting back into the dating world, Did I fvcked up last night? Or is there still hope?

    So I’ve been away from the dating scene for about a year and last night hung out with this chick which wasn’t a date but I did want to escalate. Anyways hear me out ... So i enrolled in salsa classes about 4 months ago, I went from having two left feet to now knowing how to dance a little bit...
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    Ex gf appears a year later after dumping me and now says she never stopped loving me

    Hello everyone, so I will try to keep my story as short and to the point. Basically I was dating this chick last year in an LDR and after 6 months she dumped me for her ex. She moved in with him and now after a year she’s hitting me up and telling me that she’s not happy, she misses me, and...
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    Chic I met in vacation wants to come to the states to work for 3 months and stay at my place

    So in my recent travels I reunited with an old friend from high school. she showed me around her town and introduced me to her sisters. One of them (the youngest one) age 23 is really cute but had a bf at the time. I didnt initiate anything since she was pretty hung up on her bf, but we spent a...
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    How should a man properly drop a woman without appearing like a d!ck?

    So I recently had to drop a girl I was hooking up with because I was honestly just getting tired of her, had zero interest in continuing hanging out with her or smashing and want to get with her friend instead. Long story short, she invited me to come to her friends birthday party. They were...
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    Tired of not closing on the girls I want, need closure!

    I met this chick while away on vacation, let’s call her J. J is sister of an old friend from high school who I hooked up with 4 years ago in SF. J, myself and a group of friends went out clubbing one night. The vibe was right and we danced all night and hooked up. The following day we went on...
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    How to get the cute innocent girl with a bf ....

    So I came to visit an old friend from high school, visiting her city and going out with her friends and sisters. My friend is attracted to me but I have ZERO interest in her. We kissed the first night I got here after getting drunk, but I told her the next day to let’s just keep things as...
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    Should I go visit an old plate ?

    This thought has been on my mind a lot lately and I’d appreciate your input on this. Im fairly new to this forum and picking myself back up on dating. So I’m currently away on vacation in Ecuador with some family/friends for the new year holidays. I know this chick in Peru that I used to date...
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