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    Does anyone have advice/experience on picking up cashiers?

    I just broke up with a gf of 3 years and i'm very rusty. I have always been bad at cold approaching...i always had success at work where you get familiar with women and its so much easier to get them. Anyway since there are no prospects at work i'm forced to step out of comfort zone and try...
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    How to approach a woman that works in a sex/erotic shop ?

    Would you comment on a prop in the store or go very direct ? Use some witty (spelling ? ) lines maybe?
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    How often and how do you have to put your plate or GF in her place?

    To some point i agree with those who say that silence and distance works...but what i've learned is that ice cold emotionless telling her off works even better. What irks me is that it's like dealing with children, a never ending annoying cycle FFS. Their inability to learn is mind bogling ...
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    How often and how do you have to put your plate or GF in her place?

    I could but dont want to walk away because the sex is mindblowing. I do with her as i please. She is very submissive between these tests and to tell you the truth i dont want to be bothered by looking for a new plate and deal with other crap. I just dont get it why they always have to stir...
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    How often and how do you have to put your plate or GF in her place?

    I was just thinking that my plate of 2 years need to be put in her place on an average once a month. Just when you think she'll learn she starts something stupid. I realized the damn testing will never stop and she'll never learn.it's like a colletaral damage to getting sex. While i dont get...
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    Dirty talk , punishement...

    Haha whats going on is i'm looking for tips from more experienced posters...to improve myself I would like to hear actuall things you guys tried in bed that worked very well
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    Dirty talk , punishement...

    Hey guys I'm not that experienced with women despite my age ( 38 ) but i'm naturally dominating in bed. I'm naturally good with words but my lack of experience is something that's bothering me... I have a plate and we had sex 6 times...first time i wasnt that good but she still came twice (...
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    How do you stand out from the rest ?

    Hey guys I'm trying to learn as much as possible and get ideas how to stand out. I mean how do you approach , dress , text , close....? Do you do anything special or does the basic work ? What works for you?
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    I'd like your opinion on social media and attracting women

    Thanks , that makes sense The reason i started posting more stories in the last year was i was trying to attract a few hot women on my fb friend list. And doing so by being creative and different than the rest. I've got a a very creative and humoros side that puts me above regular guys...
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    I'd like your opinion on social media and attracting women

    I usually post a story once a week on average.i'm thinking of decreasing my social media activity because i'm only searching validation i get when women watch my stories.it's weak and pathetic...this crap has to stop. I also dont want to be a ghost so that attractive women on my friends list...
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    How many times has yor gut feeling let you down?

    It never let me down in the past either. It's just that for the first time i have doubts.... this waitress i see on average twice a month is sending mixed signals...avoiding eye contact but when she does look me in the eyes i can feel she's attracted to me, most of the times she brings me my...
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    How many times has yor gut feeling let you down?

    Lets say a woman isnt maintaining eye contact , doesnt talk to you a lot etc etc.... yet your gut is telling you she's attracted to you Or a woman is almost perfect on paper yet your gut is telling you to run away.... Do you rely on your gut feeling when dating or more logical thinking?
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    Questions to ask on date to get an emotional response ?

    Thanks for advices. I didnt need them tho because she canceled haha I'll use them in the future
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    Questions to ask on date to get an emotional response ?

    Hey guys I have a date on monday. I would like examples of questions that doesnt sound like an interwiev...to get an emotional response. We all know women need the feelzzzzz Usually im good at teasing and joking but i would still like to prepare a few good questions in case the convo doesnt...
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    How much affection do you show after sex ?

    I banged a girl a month ago and we'll meet again next week. Couldnt do it earlier because she had covid... Anyway ,i'm trying to set this up as a fwb thing. She's affectionate with sweet talk and **** like that.i get it that i can't get into her frame but i still got to feed her some...
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    Lack of eye contact....my gut letting me down for the first time

    I guess i'll have to accept and find a way to convince myself that my instincts were wrong and stop looking for reasons why she rejected me or for mixed signals (boyfriend or a potential boyfriend or whatever ).... I've relied on my instintcs my whole life ( army , judo , reading people ...) so...
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    Lack of eye contact....my gut letting me down for the first time

    Thanks guys :up: It's not that i'm too invested in her i'm more annoyed about my gut feeling being potentialy wrong. I have always relied on it and trusted it. Dammit
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    Lack of eye contact....my gut letting me down for the first time

    Yeah thanks She doesnt look like attention ***** tho. Mostly she doesnt chat with costumers...she's more serious like she doesnt want to get hit on.she's probably sick of getting hit on. With me sometimes she does want a quick chat and her eyes and nervousnes look like she is a bit attracted...
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    Lack of eye contact....my gut letting me down for the first time

    I asked her out in may or june...since then there were times when she came to me to talk and there were times when she quickly goes away and not even look me in the eyes.i've never confronted her. When she does look me in the eyes i see a smile and how her eyes light up... it just doesnt make...
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    Lack of eye contact....my gut letting me down for the first time

    That's what i did by invating her for a drink..i really dont want to ask twice, it'just my ego i guess by not inviting her twice Most important thing for me is my gut feeling being correct about her attraction towards me.mybe if i keep telling myself that she already has a boyfriend or a...
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