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Translation: where the hotties at? I don't live in a huge metro area, but in 2020 and before, it wasn't difficult to find parties/networking events/meetups etc. for younger adults. Now, in late 2021, almost everything has dried up. Young adult groups in churches? Non-existent. Nightlife bars...

There has been a huge dropoff in parties in general so there weren't many to choose from for halloween. I checked out a 'young adults' halloween party on friday. I've met some cool girls at these types of events, and expected the same this time around. I try to maintain realistic expectations...

I had a woman try to follow me into the bathroom this past weekend. Attractive gal, but unfortunately married. And he was in the venue with her! I won't say I HATE bathroom sex, but for various reasons, it's less than ideal. What is the appeal of bathroom sex? For us, I see the benefits...

Who's in a city with a great dating scene without any of the fake restrictions? TX and FL are well known but I don't like extremely hot weather. I'm thinking AZ might be good, possibly UT? Looking for some fun vacation spots, and possibly relocation....

I've posted about two contradictory trends I'm seeing: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/lover-provider-dichotomy-is-over-three-tier-system-now.271535/ https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/im-seeing-reverse-hypergamy-locally.271412/#post-2885755 On the one hand, women are becoming even...

The last several times I've been out, I'm seeing something interesting. There are quite a few bro's I've met who've got their act together: good job, good health, standard or even well above average good looking guys. In theory, these guys should fit easily into the "lover" or "alpha" category...

I'm seeing this meme in literally every other post on this forum. Clearly, it's used at every possible opportunity by low value guys who always think women are a tease, lead men on, don't ever "put out." Are women ever nice to guys they never intend on having sex with? Of course. Do women...

It seems like the most popular instagram models with millions of followers have a specific type of look: fake boobs, fake lips, fake asses, etc. Everything is exaggerated and over the top. In theory, I like a more natural look but when approached by these types of women all logic and preferences...

It's crazy how often I encounter this: constant sarcasm, meanness, loudness, pettiness, ugliness, and just generally evil behavior among small town people. I'm sure most of you have noticed this as well but there is a very strong correlation between looks and behavior. That is, people who are...

Recently met a tall blonde hot chick. It was at a party so it was a warm approach but I believe she initiated the approaching. She interjected into a conversation I was having with another girl, overheard me saying I liked a particular band. She said it was also her favorite band and that she...

I know the 'blackpill' and 'redpill' guys are always ranting about how online dating is supposedly giving subpar women overwhelming choice, skewing the dating market blah blah blah. I'm starting to get back into the social scene and am seeing very encouraging signs. In fact, things are going so...

The night life locally has been absolutely devastated. It is near a barren wasteland. Late night has dried up but early evening "night life" is still thriving relatively speaking. There isn't much so I'm going to the busy spots that are still open and popular. I've been very surprised by what...

I forced myself to go to a couple of social events this week. I told myself I should get out and mingle. The events were held at a couple of venues I hadn't checked out yet so it was a convenient excuse. Based on the RSVP's I could tell it wasn't worthwhile as far as meeting hot women, not even...

I don't mean boyfriend/girlfriend couples. I'm talking about married couples. I assume it's more common in younger couples, especially those who are more left/liberal in their lifestyles. It seems to be part of an overall trend away from traditional values: women not taking their husband's...

I went to a casual party/get together last week. I haven't been to an event like this in quite a long time. There were quite a few beautiful women in attendance and the ratios were very close to 50/50. It was an industry event so almost everyone had to be up pretty early the next morning. As...