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    Men are your competition, not your friends.

    No, I attracted better looking girls and no one I was hanging around with at that time liked it, since they all ranked high in narcissism. That was a big eye opener that I didn't need other people and most were out for themselves. He even said in a later conversation that all they (the clique at...
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    Men are your competition, not your friends.

    I've long since defriended him, but most likely not. At the time he was your typical street person. Kicked out of his house at an early age, no real family, in and out of jail, had no real intelligence or personality. Definitely didn't accomplish anything. He wasn't a hardass – just an immature...
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    Men are your competition, not your friends.

    I had a friend who used to say it, but what he meant was bros before hos for everyone except him. Some people just have to win at all costs, even if no one else is playing or gives a ****.
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    Question for very attractive dudes

    I missed this part in the original comment you made, but I'd argue that women who get caught up in the chase and anxiety of someone being out of their league are the ones with the low self-esteem (or both). Why else would they tolerate someone's BS and give away all the control in order to prove...
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    Pretend everyone is rooting for you

    Better idea is to not care about other people's approval. No matter what you accomplish or even believe, some people will find a way to devalue, discredit or one-up you. It doesn't even have to be related to women. If you let them get to you or believe their nonsense, you'll end up...
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    Successful seductions follow the exact same pattern

    You are right, but this works both ways. You don't have to prove that you're high value and have options, because she already instinctively knows. Then it's the usual wanting someone of high value while simultaneously not being able to trust them that intrigues them. Someone mentioned on a...
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    Question for very attractive dudes

    This is those same girls when they were 18-28 (they are still pretty hot at 28) and how they are now in their 40s. They are still hanging around in bars and attention whoring on social media. These aren't random 40 year old girls. But I think you are wrong, some of these girls are still...
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    Question for very attractive dudes

    On a scale of attractiveness, the hot girls would hook up with guys they generally had a crush on. If a guy was above average or lower, he usually didn't get any action from them. Some of the guys would take them out and do all these things, whereas one of the "hot" guys would just swoop in and...
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    Question for very attractive dudes

    This hasn't been the case in any of the areas I've lived in (same state). The exceptionally attractive girls and guys are usually single because people either can't tolerate them, don't trust them, or they're not faithful. But they usually don't care (for long) because they receive attention...
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    I feel like the luckiest man alive right now. Should I be worried?

    No. There's no sense worrying / stressing over things you can't control and living your life with this mindset. Enjoy it while it lasts and always stay in the moment incase things change. And if they change, don't think back to how great things were as if that's how she view things. This is how...
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    Being masculine doesn’t work lol

    What works for some people doesn't necessarily work for others. There is no one size fits all way of attracting people. A lot of it also depends on your personality. You could get rejected for being tall, short, mean, nice, shy, annoying, the list goes on. It all depends on who you are and what...
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    List of things that are more important than getting laid

    Not sure if these are in order, but I'd put life goals at or near the top. One of my biggest regrets is wasting time with nonsense instead of going to college and pursuing a career earlier. 10 years back would be great.
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    I can't get past the presentation

    I found that girls in bars and clubs are more flakey and indecisive than others. Most of those situations don't last very long. I'm not sure if they're supposed to either.
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    Question for very attractive dudes

    Pretty much this. When it comes to women, it's usually issue + whether they're attracted to the person. All the people who get labeled as incels and losers are usually accurate in their judgements, such as claiming an ugly guy is considered a creep for doing the exact same thing a good looking...
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    Question for very attractive dudes

    Like another poster mentioned, girls around 18-24 (or even a bit higher) generally aren't looking to settle down and only want to have fun. They're looking for excitement. You can still get rejected if you act too nice and relationship-like with some of them. Don't buy into the usual shtick that...
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    Question for very attractive dudes

    Well said. No person or situation is going to be perfect. Just because you have 1-3 of the top 3 attractive qualities doesn't change the way things are. When you go from a nobody to someone who's in high in demand, girls don't suddenly switch from wanting nothing to do with you to wanting to...
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    Question for very attractive dudes

    I've been called everything from hot, sexy to gorgeous and receive looks every time I go out. When I was younger girls would whistle and yell and so on (for qualification to your question; sorry I can't post a pic due to school and an upcoming career). You can tell who is only into you for sex...
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    Question for very attractive dudes

    What's the question you are asking? How do you tell? Or what do you do about it once you find out? By "filter" I'm assuming you mean reject them?
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    Cold approach is beta game

    I found this to be true. What more, reality doesn't even matter -- only how they perceive it and what other people think. This is why all those d-bags who gloat (lie) about their success & how awesome they are in front of women get some success from it, lol. Fake it till you make it. It's kind...
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    46 and desperate

    Good point. I think you are right.
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