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  1. CollegeMan22

    Where do you approach women in 2023?

    What are the most common places (and most successful places) you approach women today? I’d like the hear about your best spots. For me, in university, the best place to meet girls is in common events or organizations. You can make a lot of connections that way. It’s super easy to start a...
  2. CollegeMan22

    I don’t know how to style my very fine hair

    I need advice from you guys regarding hair. I know it’s important but I really haven’t figured out a good routine. I’m Northern European ethnically and have very fine hair. If I’m out with no product in and I have my hair shampooed, it will blow all over. I usually put some fiber in and do...
  3. CollegeMan22

    Personal Game Bible

    I have some second hand advice to relay to you guys. One Game author who I read recommended to create a document (on your computer or physically) of all of the game strategies and tactics that have been successful for you (or that you have read about). I have done this for the past 1.5 years...
  4. CollegeMan22

    My social circle is dropping like flies

    I grew up in a small town in the middle of nowhere. Most dating was very long term, and everyone knew who everyone else was dating. Pretty bad environment imo. I graduated a few years ago. Recently, I was checking through my old friends’ social media, as well as some people I knew who would be...
  5. CollegeMan22

    Plate at college, now 3 hour drive away during the summer — what to do?

    I have a plate that I’ve been seeing for the past 2 months at my college, and the sex has been great. Seeing each other 3 times a week, spicy sexual dates, you know the deal. I’ve kept it non-exclusive and not committed to her, but she wants that and pushes for it. The text ratio her to me is...
  6. CollegeMan22

    A Review of the Basics

    I see a lot of useless bickering on here about the state of women in general. Women might not be up to the caliber they once were, and they probably have higher standards. Okay. Well guess what? That’s the game now. That’s the premise of approaching women. It is best to accept reality as...
  7. CollegeMan22

    I am tired of blackpillers and anti-self improvement guys on here

    This forum is becoming more and more blackpill. People are using the terms normie, chadlite, and chad seriously. I sense a large amount of apathy and disillusionment in the people who use these terms. They feel that they are confined to a certain league, defined by their looks, and are condemned...
  8. CollegeMan22

    Girl I went out with sees me again and does a 180 — why?

    So I went out with this girl one time last September and we had a decent time and kissed. I was busy with other plates so I kinda just let the situation fall and nothing came of it. A week ago, I noticed that she had checked my social media (LinkedIn shows who looks at your profile). Today, I...
  9. CollegeMan22

    When day cold approaching, it better to be high energy or to be slow/controlled with your speech?

    Pretty self-explanatory question. On the high-energy side, I have noticed that a lot of chicks will go away if you don't talk quickly enough and keep up the conversation at the beginning. But on the other hand, that kinda makes you look needy and like you are chasing her. I always talk in a slow...
  10. CollegeMan22

    I did an OLD experiment, here's what I learned

    Yesterday in the evening, I was curious what it is like to be a girl on OLD. So I pulled up a stock image site and pulled four stock images of a 7/10 girl who looked about 22. The images were of professional quality, probably better than most pictures that girls post. I created a simple profile...
  11. CollegeMan22

    How do you deal with an argument about you not committing enough?

    This has happened to me two times. Girls that I am banging get mad at me that I never “spend time with them”. They ask me to text more often, or quicker. Or they ask me to eat lunch with them more, or go on walks more. Instead of just meeting and banging. I don’t know how to best deal with...
  12. CollegeMan22

    How do you get girls away from her friends at the club?

    I went clubbing last night and had a fun time. At the start, people had no balls and weren’t dancing. I changed that by going up to groups of girls and saying “Excuse me, I need a dance partner” and then giving eye contact to the girl I wanted. Danced with three of the hottest girls at the club...
  13. CollegeMan22

    Hugh Hefner and the Loser

    When I was a young lad, I was looking for game advice but didn’t know where to go. The only player I knew was Hugh Hefner. So I decided to give him a call. To my surprise, he answered. Though grumpy and busy, and receiving a BJ while on the phone, he agreed to write me a piece about game. Here...
  14. CollegeMan22

    Is being a bad friend good for attraction?

    I am in college, and I approach cute girls in my classes. I get their numbers easily. I then ask them out. Some go, but some pull some weasel excuse (as we have all experienced). But then sometimes the weasels come back to me. They ask me for homework help. Should I ignore them if I want to get...
  15. CollegeMan22

    Plate Spinning — How Much Investment?

    I have one regular girl who I've slept with 2-4x per week over the past four months. She is VERY low maintenance. We just meet on campus and walk to my place. And I get free protein bars out of the deal. She is feminine and allows me to take the lead. She is a good girl. But I just slept with a...
  16. CollegeMan22

    Not Invited to Social Circle Party Because I Hit on Girls

    So I was at a house party a week ago and was having a good time and drinking. I wasn't heavily drunk, but definitely enough to get my game gears into overdrive. I was teasing girls and giving them a hard time. They were touching me and hitting my backward cap off. Then I went to the couch and...
  17. CollegeMan22

    Should you tell women you go out with stories of crazy sexual experiences?

    I came across a reddit post from r/TheRedPill, and the author, Woujo, basically says to tell women incredible stories of your past sexual experience. He tells us that this gets them immensely intrigued and interested in you. The full post is here: So you don’t have to read it all, here are the...
  18. CollegeMan22

    Advice for Dealing with Chick When I'm Leaving Town in 5 Days

    I met a HB9 blonde girl at a rave Saturday night, and here's what happened. She came near me to "look at paintings" and I talked and flirted with her for a good 15 minutes. Then I took her to the dance floor. We danced and I grinded on her a bit. More teases and sexual flirts. She had this...
  19. CollegeMan22

    What is your preferred stance when talking to new girls?

    So let’s say you approach a girl from the front, and you’re standing there talking. What stance do you take to convey the proper body language for the situation? If there is a wall somewhere, I usually lean one arm on it while talking to the girl. Or if in the open, I put one hand on my hip and...
  20. CollegeMan22

    Responding to “Do you miss me?” over text

    I got a girl at college who is my main f-buddy. We’ve been seeing each other the past three months, but I haven’t signed any exclusivity contract (not that I would). I’m away from my college and out of state for winter break, and oftentimes she texts me. She usually initiates things. Usually I...
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