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  1. KirthWGersen

    What is Your Stance on Getting into Committed Relationships with Single Moms?

    I have no problem with dating single mothers. I have had a vasectomy and have my own kids. I love the freedom of just meeting up occasionally. I do have a problem with with committed relationships though. I much prefer being non-monogamous and living life on my own terms. That way you avoid all...
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    girl gave her number too quick

    That is not an ultimatum. It is just a normal person politely trying to meet up.
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    How to get a girl to move with you

    I would have no problem with my daughter doing that. I certainly hope she never gets married; same as my son. If she wants to venture off to a new place, rent her property out and buy a new one of her own there, why not? The woman would not be doing it FOR him; she would be doing it WITH him. It...
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    Guys that use sextoys with their playmates

    Women love sexual variety much more than men do. They also love being with a guy who is up for anything, who can allow them to release our their "slutty" side and has no hang-ups and insecurities about his masculinity. Refusing to do something because it is not alpha enough makes you look like a...
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    Moving in.

    Moving in with her is a much better option than her moving in with you, in my opinion. The reason being, you can always leave. It is harder to make someone else leave. But if you do move in, you will eventually end up in a position where the sex decreases, and she places far more demands on you...
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    Need help bros

    You probably will have to go completely no contact. That means blocking her on every means she has to contact you with no warning or explanation.
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    Controlling my frame

    She sees herself as the only important one in this relationship. Her apparently being cool with you spending time with your son is simply a concession (she doesn't want to look bad). She is basically saying she owns you, and your time, but will let you do certain things you have to do. There...
  8. KirthWGersen

    Girl says we are not compatible in the long run

    The only thing you can do is be fine with it, tell her to take all the time she needs, pull back, and take the opportunity to have sex with women who are more interested.
  9. KirthWGersen

    Why Do Women Break Up With Guys Who Lose Their Jobs

    It depends what you set as your terms for the relationship. One of the posters above is correct: if you present yourself as a provider and enter a relationship on that basis, you will be judged for how well you can provide. I recently had some business troubles. Many present and former lovers...
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    When a woman isn't busy, she will use her free time to create drama

    It is hard to see how you are not saying "men should give women they are not attracted to a chance". No. You simply friendzone women you are not attracted to. Only women you are attracted to can become your lovers. It is not about being a spoiled brat or having unrealistic expectations. It...
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    When a woman isn't busy, she will use her free time to create drama

    I don't know: I have rejected plenty of decent and wonderful women simply because they haven't given me the "****-butterflies" I wanted. There is simply no point in latching onto someone when there isn't sufficient attraction there.
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    When a woman isn't busy, she will use her free time to create drama

    To be fair, not all women are always like that. Whenever my ex-wife had a less busy period in her work, she would always start working on all the little, non-urgent tasks that build up in the background. One of my current lovers is like that too: she starts working on her 130-item to-do list...
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    Returning stuff to ex

    No harm in getting a friend to take it.
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    Fork in the road

    One other option is to get a posting/job abroad in a jurisdiction with fairer divorce laws (some countries in Europe). Make sure you are the first to file after living there for six months and the divorce will go according to local law. If you don't want share custody, you are going to have to...
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    Older Women

    I know a lot of guys around here don't like having women as friends, but in my experience it can be very positive. A friend of mine, in particular, has an excellent female friend about 10 years older than him. They go running and fishing together. She cooks him great meals. They have great...
  16. KirthWGersen

    How to date multiple women?

    As other commenters have mentioned, the only issue is your own mind. Meet a woman, sleep with her, meet her a week or two later. In the meantime, do the same with three others. Before you know it, you have several woman at the same time. There is no trick to it. Just do it. BUT, if you...
  17. KirthWGersen

    Dinner dates are for losers...

    Different approaches seem to work for different people. I almost never go on dinner dates before I have had sex with a woman. And certainly not on the first date. And I always pay 50-50. I follow a two-date strategy of meeting briefly on the first date and dinner at mine for the second date...
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    Abundance over 45

    1. Yes 2. Yes, but it took a few years to get to this point. 3. 3 or 4 with 1 or 2 prospects. 4. Yeah, it happens a lot (wake up in one bed, go to sleep in another). Nuance: I live with my kids every other week, so only lunchtimes are possible then. I live in a city of small physical size, but...
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    If she only sees you or asks to hang out at night....

    Perhaps the "hot" girls are doing their makeup in the daytime, so they can see you in the nighttime.
  20. KirthWGersen

    The Sexual Revolution and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race.

    Then we'll flirt together again when you have taken them.
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