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So I went full red pill, in some ways it explained all of the mysteries of woman or at least the ones I was struggling with. I think in many ways its still relevant however my friend made an observation and over time I am starting to see his point. All of the ****ty things I observe in the...

So about three weeks ago I was feeling pretty crap about dating and myself in general. I was getting rejected constantly by OLD and had nothing really interesting happening in the dating pool. Things were looking pretty bleak, I was second guessing myself wondering if I had past it and if I...

So had this girl come over on the weekend, was a massive build up planned for weeks and she made it clear sex was on the table. Long story short was a great night and we end up in the bedroom, after 15 mins or so of awkward foreplay it becomes evident Im not going to perform. Ive had this...

I need to read this book. Anyway just a cautionary tale. So Ive been single for over two months, scored my first hottie about three weeks ago and closed the deal on the first date. Off to a great start. Second date my place for dinner, closed the deal, third date off to a art gallery (not my...

So this has happened quite a lot lately infact 3 times in as many weeks. Setup a date sometime in the future and then as the time gets closer no contact is made for confirmation or further details at which point I have a the following choices ignore, block or send another message. Now until I...

So quick back story Ive been in a relationship since I was 19 (5+16+3+3+1). In between Ive spun some plates and I'm just recently got out of an absolute **** show with a 8+ knock out sex addicted crazy woman. I'm trying to take some time to "work on myself" but at the same time I'm on online...

Week four out of a 2.5 year BPD relationship, everything is bland. When my marriage ended (13 years) I had this real drive and hunger to hit the single scene and take as many woman as I could but this time I just cant seem to get into it. Ive resigned myself to just focusing on myself for a...

Haha well sort of, had my first date since my LTR ended two weeks ago. She drove me home this morning, boom! Feels like the spell has lifted somewhat which is massive relief. She happens to work right next to where I live so that's convenient, question is do I message her or wait. I wanna say...

So a common trope is that woman seek men who have there **** together, "make bank" etc. I recently just ended a hectic BPD relationship which by its nature denied any potential for moving in together (not sure if I would these days anyway), marriage or god forbid children together. That being...

So my BPD LTR ended today, posted about it last year and ended up staying with her for another year. I rationalised it by assuming her out of control behaviour was just typical woman stuff and the sex was great, probably the best Ive had so that kept me going. So normal behaviour for her is...

So had a date last night and it went well. Kiss goodnight and I get a message "home safe". This morning I text "had a great time last night, hope you enjoyed yourself" She writes back "I did!" So now Im stuck, do I wait a few days or keep the convo going? Wait for her to tell me when shes...

Man I feel low. So some backstory first relationship was 5 years ended in her cheating and leaving with a guy from work. Second was a 16 year marriage ended in her having a affair and leaving me for a cop, third was a girl who spun plates (I was one, though the "priority") even though should...