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I met this East European girl a month ago on Match. It took a while to set up a date because she seemed to always be busy travelling or with her friends and it was hard to engage in a conversation by text as she would often ignore texts or take days to reply. But eventually she agreed to meet...

I'm turning 35 this summer and over the last five years or so I have had quite a lot of sun without being that careful with protection and have developed quite a ruddy complexion and my skin has aged quite a bit. Is there any way to reverse this damage?

I have been working with this girl for around a year and a half. Over time we developed a flirty work banter and she was quite touchy feely. She also got jealous if I spent too long talking to the secretaries. So I did suspect she might like me. I tested the waters shortly after she joined...

Match.com has been my staple for most of my adult life and for the most part I have been happy with the results. But over the last few years it hasn't been working so well and the quality of girls has gone down and the number of fake ads has exploded. I am London based so not sure if this jives...

A new girl has joined at work and she isn't just pretty but has a great personality as well. But I have little experience in workplace romance and the unwritten rules. I don't want things to be awkward so am trying to assess if she is interested before I make a move. But she is hard to read...

While demonstrating confidence/personality/sexuality and making a connection can occasionally result in success with girls better looking than me I feel that my average looks create a glass ceiling in terms of the girls I can attract. I am not overweight and take care when it comes to my...

I've hit a brick wall. I have no problem getting average looking girls but pretty girls still do not give me the time of day. It is self evident to me that the guys pretty girls like are the handsome guys with the square jaws, prominent chins that generally look macho and dominant. In contrast...

I discovered the DJ site quite a few years ago. But never really got into it. I was busy with studying, relationships and had problems with depression etc. Growing up I was unpopular and never went to bars or clubs. Didn't get a gf until I was 21 (online dating). Had several relationships...

I had this five month relationship with a girl last year. It was amazing while it lasted and we were in love. But things fell apart August. I was pretty down but threw myself into the gym, kept myself busy and am over her. It was the first time ive ever been in love with a girl and my longest...

I have been working on my game a lot in recent years, and am a lot more confident and better at teasing women than I ever used to be, but every time I get passed up for better looking guys. I am increasingly thinking it is almost entirely about looks. While girls say "Oh looks don't matter"...

I have always been very self-conscious of how I look, and cannot stand looking at myself in the mirror as my face is still quite blotchy from acne and this shows especially under any form of bright light, and I have lots of lines from stress over the years. Often I am feeling kind of...

A lot of recent posters talk about game? What is it? I sort of get what you mean but not completely. What is game? How can you improve it?

hey sorry to start another looks v personality debate, but it is a subject that interests me. Lots of studies show people who are around equal in looks tend to pair off. and there is no denying that if you are a hot guy it makes it a helluva lot easier to get women. people like doc love talk...

Hi. I am a college student in England and despite being surrounded by hundreds of hot girls (it is summer and they are all in short skirts :D ) I am finding it almost impossible to meet enough girls. I have tried doing approaches but get confronted with "do I know you?" or open hostility...

I have been reading Doc Love's System which is basically based around being a challenge and had a few questions for the more experienced DJs. How do you carry Challenge off without seeming too passive? It sounds as if you are basically just hanging back and letting the girl chase you, and the...

I have been a disciple of this site for two years now and have wasted a lot of my time at university chasing women to no avail: e.g wasting a lot of time in bars and clubs in the hope of meeting girls, joining clubs and societies just because they had a lot of women, and generally worrying about...

I am 19 and have always been the guy with his head in the clouds or in a book. As a teenager I worked extremely hard at school, at the expense of socialising, and being at an all male school I never got any contact with women. While I have always had friends, I tend to take a long time to make...

While I have done extremely well as far as self-improvement goes (play the saxophone to a high standard, president of debating club at university, in good shape, doing well academically, in the chess team, etc etc.) my social improvement has been really limited. I have always been shy and...

A major problem I have is that I am very quiet by nature and slightly shy. I can talk to girls, and am not scared of them in any real way, but it seems that the girls all seem to go for the outgoing, friendly, sociable guys. I have tried for years now trying to be more outgoing and chatting...

This Saturday I am going to a Traffic light disco (red: unavaliable, orange: maybe, green: go!) I rarely go to discos, but this one sounds like a sure thing. Do you think I should go as orange or green? I thought green might appear a bit desperate, but girls are usually intimidated by me so I...